04 Working with the Law - LAW OF ATTRACTION - Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey

The Law of Attraction: Understanding Desire and Expectation

Introduction to the Law of Attraction

• The session introduces the concept of the Law of Attraction, referencing Raymond Holwell's idea that desire leads to expectation, which in turn leads to achievement.

Personal Story Illustrating the Concept

• A personal anecdote is shared about a granddaughter wanting to ride a thrilling roller coaster at Disneyland, highlighting her initial excitement followed by fear.

• The granddaughter asks how to overcome fear and think positively, prompting a discussion on how this question applies universally, not just for children.

Key Concepts: Desire and Expectation

• Holwell emphasizes two phases crucial for achieving desires: desire (positive phase) and expectation (negative phase), both necessary for optimal results.

• The speaker explains that earnest desire creates a connection with what one wishes to achieve; wavering in desire can disconnect this force.

The Power of Vibration

• Everything exists on various frequencies; when we desire something, we align ourselves with its frequency, similar to tuning into a radio station.

• Without expectation accompanying desire, it becomes mere wishing. Continuous expectation is essential for manifesting desires into reality.

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

• Societal conditioning often teaches us not to expect great outcomes ("too good to be true"), limiting our potential for significant change.

• By stabilizing our mental state at the frequency of our desired outcomes, we can attract them more effectively and reduce the time needed for manifestation.

Real-Life Example: Nelson Mandela's Experience

• A story about Nelson Mandela illustrates how shifting from despair ("it will never happen") to hope allowed him to envision his goals while imprisoned.

• Mandela nurtured positive thoughts about his situation's meaning in relation to ending apartheid, demonstrating how maintaining an optimistic mindset can lead toward achieving one's desires.

The Power of Perspective and Expectation

The Journey of Transformation

• The narrative begins with a man in prison who refuses to succumb to his circumstances, leading to the emergence of solutions through his letter writing.

• A personal anecdote is shared about flying over Kentucky, reflecting on the insignificance of houses from above, symbolizing how people often cling to ownership despite its illusory nature.

• The speaker contemplates the concept that land cannot truly be owned; rather, it owns us, highlighting a deeper philosophical understanding of possession.

Metaphor of the Bug in a Rug

• A Persian proverb illustrates a bug's struggle within a rug, representing individuals trapped by their problems without seeing the bigger picture.

• If the bug could elevate its perspective, it would recognize that its perceived problems are part of a larger, beautiful design—akin to human life experiences.

Embracing a Higher Perspective

• Nelson Mandela is referenced as someone who initially viewed life like the bug but eventually gained insight into life's interconnectedness and purpose.

• Adopting this "God's eye view" allows individuals to understand how attraction works in their lives and encourages them not to live constrained by limited perspectives.

Conditioning and Desire

• The discussion shifts towards conditioning as an obstacle preventing people from expecting good things in life; changing this mindset is essential for growth.

• Dr. Hollowell’s method emphasizes forming clear mental pictures of desires without specifying forms or methods for achieving them.

Practical Application of Mind Power

• It’s advised to visualize desires during calm moments, allowing ideas to unfold naturally without pressure or anxiety for better results.

• Holding thoughts with calm conviction can attract desired outcomes; what we seek exists at different frequencies waiting for connection.

Expectation as a Catalyst

• The metaphor of fishing illustrates how desire connects us with our goals; expectation acts as the mechanism that draws these goals closer.

• Personal struggles with maintaining continuous good fortune are discussed; understanding laws governing attraction helps solidify expectations for ongoing success.

Continuous Flow and Connection

• As one nourishes their desires confidently, they begin attracting good continuously rather than sporadically—a shift in mindset leads to greater abundance.

• Good things may manifest quickly or gradually based on clarity and strength of demand; everyday interactions exemplify this principle effectively.

The Power of Expectation and Mental Attraction

The Importance of Action and Expectation

• Emphasizes the need for practical action in achieving desired outcomes, suggesting that waiting passively is ineffective.

• Introduces the idea that aligning with natural laws (referred to as "the law") can facilitate positive changes in life.

• Highlights the importance of desiring what enriches one's life while also benefiting others, promoting a balanced approach to personal goals.

• Discusses the distinction between rational and irrational demands, using historical examples like the Wright brothers to illustrate how perception varies.

• Suggests that innate desires for harmony and abundance can be realized by living in accordance with universal laws.

Understanding Mental Attraction

• Reflects on personal struggles with understanding an infinite source of supply, indicating a common challenge in recognizing potential.

• Encourages individuals to transcend limitations by realizing they possess the same capabilities as successful figures like Edmund Hillary or Thomas Edison.

• Explains how thoughts act as magnets, attracting experiences aligned with one’s mental state; this principle underscores the significance of mindset.

• Warns about being mindful of predominant mental attitudes since they largely dictate life experiences; awareness leads to improvement.

• Uses Marconi's experience to illustrate skepticism towards new ideas about invisible forces at play in our lives.

Practical Application of Laws

• Urges listeners to test their beliefs by harmonizing their minds with desired outcomes, observing resultant changes in their environment.

• Provides relatable examples (like noticing red cars after wanting one), demonstrating how focus influences perception and attraction.

• Compares mental attraction laws to gravity, stressing that both operate consistently; violating these laws has predictable consequences.

• Points out societal tendencies where people attract similar circumstances based on their thoughts and actions, particularly within welfare contexts.

Understanding Recidivism and the Law of Attraction

The Psyche of Prisoners

• The speaker shares experiences from visiting maximum security prisons in Canada, gaining insights into prisoners' mindsets, particularly their expectation of returning to prison.

• A high recidivism rate is noted, with guards and prisoners both aware that many will return to crime after release.

• Criminal conversations among inmates revolve around crime, reinforcing their lifestyle choices and connections.

Getting on Track with Thinking

• Hollywell introduces three steps to align thoughts with the law of attraction, starting with "interest," defined as focused attention on specific objects or ideas.

• Personal interests reflect individual experiences; for example, a woman notices disabled individuals due to her past injury, highlighting how personal history shapes focus.

The Impact of Attention on Reality

• Dr. Michael Beckwith's story illustrates how focusing on homelessness led him to confront his own financial issues, emphasizing the connection between thought patterns and life circumstances.

• By shifting focus from problems (homelessness) to blessings (prosperity), Beckwith experienced positive changes in his life situation.

Rewiring Thoughts for Positive Outcomes

• Hollywell emphasizes the importance of being mindful about interests since energy flows where attention goes; negative thinking can dominate if not managed properly.

• Participants in seminars often express disbelief in the law of attraction; Hollywell encourages them to articulate desires clearly and visualize them positively.

Practical Steps for Manifestation

• A method is suggested: write down current realities versus desired outcomes using present tense affirmations ("I am so happy..."), followed by symbolically letting go of negativity through burning written statements.

• This process rewires mental frameworks by shifting focus from physical limitations to desired outcomes, akin to broadcasting intentions like radio signals.

Individual Interests Shape Connections

• Recognizing that interests are unique leads individuals toward like-minded communities; those interested in tennis congregate at courts while golfers gather at courses.

• Understanding personal interests helps control social interactions and activities, which is crucial for aligning oneself with desired outcomes.

Understanding the Law of Attraction and Its Application

The Importance of Awareness

• Hollywell emphasizes the significance of awareness in understanding the law of attraction, suggesting that while many are aware of it, the depth of this awareness varies.

• Awareness is likened to a dimmer switch; it can be increased over time, enhancing our ability to attract what we desire.

Steps to Harnessing the Law of Attraction

• Many individuals overlook opportunities for prosperity and joy due to their focus on less beneficial interests, which can lead them away from their true desires.

• People often gravitate towards negative news because they resonate with what's wrong in the world; shifting focus to positive materials can catalyze significant life changes.

Personal Transformation Through New Ideas

• The speaker shares a personal story about overcoming toxic thinking that manifested physically, leading to a transformative healing experience after discovering these ideas.

• A deep interest in various philosophies and religions revealed an underlying truth connecting all great teachings regarding attraction and manifestation.

Practical Steps for Applying Interest and Attention

• Hollywell outlines three practical steps for utilizing the law of attraction effectively. The first step involves focusing energy on genuine interests.

• The second step stresses that mere interest isn't enough; one must actively inject this interest into daily life through focused attention.

The Role of Attention in Success

• Our attention should reflect our interests; heightened interest leads to more intense attention, magnetizing similar thoughts and experiences into our lives.

• What we give our attention to grows—whether positive or negative—and thus shapes our reality according to where we direct our focus.

Principles Guiding Success

• True success stems from aligning one's attention with foundational principles (e.g., honesty), which attracts corresponding outcomes over time.

• Adhering strictly to principles—even when faced with seemingly trivial temptations—builds integrity and ultimately leads to lasting success.

Understanding the Law of Attraction

The Nature of Truth and Growth

• Truth can be challenged in numerous ways, requiring time for personal growth. Expecting quick results is unrealistic; instead, focus on developing a standard or measurement for yourself.

• Engage with one thought at a time to build upon it effectively, fostering a deeper understanding of truth.

The Role of Expectation

• As attention shifts towards constructive interests, lesser distractions diminish. This transition leads to the concept of expectation as a crucial step in grasping the law of attraction.

• Expectation is described as an active form of attention, akin to a cat patiently waiting for its prey. This intensity enhances belief in achieving desired outcomes.

Building Interest and Anticipation

• Believing in the probability of success heightens interest and anticipation in one's work. This combination draws success closer through focused expectation.

• A biblical story illustrates this principle: a widow approaches Elijah for help with her financial troubles, demonstrating how limited thinking can hinder abundance.

Abundance Consciousness

• Elijah's perspective reflects an abundance mindset; he encourages the widow to gather vessels and pour out her oil, leading to miraculous overflow until receptivity ceases.

• The cessation of oil flow symbolizes limitations in one's consciousness regarding abundance. Engaging with the law of attraction requires recognizing both desire and expectation.

Practical Insights from Raymond Hollowell

• Hollowell emphasizes that fear and doubt dilute mental forces when praying for something specific, resulting in attracting only what aligns with lesser thoughts.

• A prominent doctor shares his approach: he never assumes patients are beyond recovery. His firm belief fosters successful outcomes when patients expect healing.

• Hollowell concludes that charging thoughts with positivity eliminates perceived failures; everything serves a greater purpose within the law of attraction framework.