08 Working with the Law - LAW OF NON RESISTANCE - Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey
The Law of Non-Resistance
Understanding Non-Resistance
- The concept of non-resistance is introduced, highlighting common thoughts that reflect skepticism about positive experiences, such as "this is too good to be true."
- Emphasizes the importance of recognizing and releasing resistance to the good that is inherently ours by birthright.
Responding vs. Reacting
- A discussion with teenagers reveals a distinction: reacting is a habit, while responding requires conscious thought.
- Most people are conditioned to react automatically to situations rather than respond thoughtfully, indicating a lack of understanding of non-resistance.
Conditioning and Habits
- The speaker explains that our subconscious habits lead us to resist rather than embrace situations, which hinders our ability to practice non-resistance.
- Reference to Hollywell's insights on the law of non-resistance suggests it’s crucial for personal and business success.
Business Practices Reflecting Non-Resistance
- The speaker contrasts traditional shopping experiences with modern practices that embody non-resistance, such as open store layouts and customer-friendly services.
- Highlights how businesses utilize this law by creating environments where customers feel welcomed without pressure.
Evolution in Customer Experience
- Describes the transition from old butcher shops with limited customer engagement to contemporary stores designed for ease and comfort.
- Modern stores employ strategies like automatic doors and clear signage, enhancing customer experience through principles of non-resistance.
The Law of Non-Resistance
Understanding Non-Resistance in Personal Interactions
- The speaker discusses how electronic transactions automatically withdraw money from bank accounts, illustrating a lack of resistance in business practices.
- A young man trying to impress a lady exemplifies the law of non-resistance; he unconsciously makes an effort to be likable, aiming to present himself as her best choice for companionship.
- Habits and customs can lead individuals to resist prosperity and good health, often creating obstacles through unconscious opposition.
Observing Resistance in Daily Life
- The speaker encourages observing people's reactions in everyday situations, noting that many respond negatively rather than positively when faced with challenges.
- The concept of non-resistance has been well-received by business groups, highlighting its potential for personal growth and success.
Personal Anecdotes on Traffic and Response
- A story about Gay Hendricks illustrates choosing one's response to uncontrollable situations; despite being stuck in traffic, he found a way to generate significant income through a positive mindset.
- The speaker emphasizes that while we may face resistance during our growth cycles, recognizing these patterns can lead to breakthroughs.
Creating Opportunities Through Positive Focus
- Expressing desires for success or wealth must be accompanied by positive energy; negative thoughts create resistance against achieving those goals.
- An anecdote about a man who wanted to increase his business but locked the doors on sale day serves as a metaphor for self-sabotage when pursuing goals.
Shifting Focus from Limitation to Abundance
- Hollywell advises focusing on abundance rather than limitations; working against what we don’t want only hinders progress toward our true desires.
- To experience greater flow in life, one must practice non-resistance and align with prosperous energies.
Nature's Example: Water as Non-Resistance
- Water is presented as a powerful example of non-resistance; it shapes landscapes over time without forcefully pushing against obstacles.
- The journey of water from small streams into mighty rivers symbolizes the importance of persistence without resistance towards achieving goals.
The Flow of Energy and the Law of Non-Resistance
The Concept of Free-Flowing Energy
- A description of a 50-foot-wide underground river emerging from the Cascade Mountains, symbolizing the flow of energy that exists when one creates an opening in life.
- The speaker reflects on how this free-flowing spirit represents potential energy waiting to be released, emphasizing the importance of allowing it to flow.
Importance of Relaxation
- Mentioning Sharon Bonigabe's teachings on relaxation, highlighting that tension leads to physical breakdown and stress.
- Citing Branch Rickey's philosophy that being "loose as ashes" is essential for optimal performance, suggesting that relaxation facilitates better energy flow.
Resistance and Its Consequences
- Discusses how people often resist obstacles instead of flowing around them, leading to friction which causes irritation and exhaustion.
- Emphasizes that fighting against life's challenges can distract individuals from their true objectives, resulting in wasted energy.
Shifting Focus from Obstacles to Goals
- Encourages maintaining focus on goals rather than preparing for problems; suggests perseverance through winding paths leads to success.
- Introduces the psychological law of reciprocity: good actions yield good returns over time while negative actions have immediate consequences.
Psychological Judo: Winning Without Fighting
- Uses martial arts metaphors (karate vs. judo) to illustrate how resisting attacks can lead to mutual exhaustion while non-resistance allows one to conserve energy.
- Highlights Winston Churchill’s clever retorts as examples of psychological judo—winning arguments without direct confrontation.
The Power of Perception and Non-Resistance
- Stresses that while we cannot change others or situations directly, we can alter our perceptions, enabling us to navigate challenges more effectively.
- Compares personal growth to a stream overcoming obstacles; initially small but gaining strength through non-resistance until it becomes a powerful river.
Understanding Non-Resistance and Overcoming Obstacles
The Journey of Non-Resistance
- As we embark on the path of personal growth, we will encounter obstacles that challenge our old thinking patterns. This period serves as an opportunity to assess whether we will embrace non-resistance or revert to past habits.
- Wise individuals do not resist obstacles; instead, they bless them and continue moving toward their goals. With time, one learns to recognize obstacles before they become confrontational.
Transforming Obstacles into Stepping Stones
- A story illustrates this concept: a woman struggling with her mortgaged home sought help due to financial difficulties and quarrelsome tenants. She was overwhelmed by anxiety and frustration.
- The advisor explained the importance of applying the law of non-resistance even in challenging situations, encouraging her to work with the good rather than oppose it.
Embracing Change Through Positive Action
- Initially resistant due to her negative mindset, she decided to enter her dining room with a smile, which surprised her tenants and marked a significant shift in atmosphere.
- Her newfound positivity led others to respond differently; for many tenants, it was the first time they had seen kindness from her. This change fostered a sense of community among them.
Building Relationships Through Non-Resistance
- Over time, she began appreciating her tenants as part of a family rather than viewing them negatively. This shift in perspective improved relationships significantly.
- As she maintained focus on her objectives while navigating challenges lightly, both she and her circumstances transformed positively over time.
The Power of Loving Thoughts
- Reflecting on ancient wisdom, the speaker cites Jesus' teachings about loving one's enemies and extending goodwill towards those who may harm us.
- Understanding this principle reveals that removing enmity from our consciousness allows us to attract better conditions into our lives by changing our internal state rather than external circumstances.
Controlling Our Vibration
- By focusing on positive actions towards those who oppose us, we elevate ourselves above negativity. This control over our vibration influences what we attract into our lives.
- Many people struggle against their surroundings but often end up attracting more conflict. In contrast, those who practice non-resistance experience life differently—often more peacefully and harmoniously.
Conclusion: Attracting Higher Good
- Engaging in non-resistance calls forth the highest good within ourselves and attracts similar goodness from others around us.
Understanding Non-Resistance in Conflict Resolution
The Power of Non-Resistance
- Emphasizes that living the law of non-resistance benefits oneself more than others, as it disarms negativity and hostility from those around you.
- Shares a personal story about managing complaints in a cleaning business, highlighting how taking responsibility can defuse tense situations.
- Describes an incident with a dentist who was upset over a cleaning issue; the speaker's approach to take full responsibility helped to calm the situation.
Acceptance Over Resistance
- Advocates for accepting difficult conditions rather than resisting them, suggesting that acceptance leads to personal strength and growth.
- Argues that true strength lies in non-resistance; agreeing with adversaries can dissolve conflicts and lead to amicable relationships.
Evolving Through Adversity
- Discusses the idea that our challenges are opportunities for growth, framing adversities as part of our evolving experience.
- Suggests that by agreeing with what seems like obstacles, we allow ourselves to grow beyond them, rendering them powerless.
Historical Perspectives on Non-Resistance
- References Jesus' teachings on meekness and how they align with modern scientific understanding of non-resistance principles.
- Highlights Abraham Lincoln’s perspective on transforming enemies into friends as a powerful practice of non-resistance.
Internalizing the Law of Reciprocity
- Stresses the importance of internalizing these concepts through repetition and application in daily life for effective conflict resolution.
- Concludes that one's beliefs about themselves influence their experiences; expecting weakness attracts negative situations while embracing strength fosters resilience.
Understanding Meekness and Non-Resistance
The Nature of Meekness
- Meekness is not about being submissive to discord; it represents strength in adhering to the law without arguing or becoming angry.
- True victory comes from recognizing that right remains right, regardless of others' opinions. Concern for others' perceptions can undermine personal strength.
- Embracing meekness leads to self-acceptance and a better self-image, even when one occasionally reacts negatively.
Harmony with Self
- Liking oneself stems from being in harmony with one's true nature and the law of life, which fosters increased self-esteem.
- Practicing non-resistance aligns individuals with their authentic selves, enhancing their sense of value and identity.
Application of Meekness
- Hallowell describes meekness as cooperation and harmony, illustrated by our acceptance of natural laws.
- Meekness does not equate to allowing abuse; rather, it involves moving beyond harmful situations through non-resistance.
Transformation Through Non-Resistance
- To live fully, one must avoid remaining in unproductive circumstances. Clarity about future goals aids this transformation.
- A metaphorical comparison is made between streams flowing towards larger bodies of water, symbolizing personal growth through meekness.
Overcoming Obstacles
- A powerful suggestion is made: obstacles should be transformed into stepping stones by blessing them and understanding their role in personal development.