Let Go, Move On and HEAL Your Broken Heart

Introduction

In this section, the speaker introduces the topic of discussion and highlights that having a few nice dates with someone or seeing amazing qualities in them does not mean they would be an amazing home forever.

Dating Assumptions

• Having a few nice dates with someone or seeing amazing qualities in them does not mean they would be an amazing home forever.

• Anyone who doesn't choose you isn't your home.

Fear of Losing Someone

In this section, the speaker talks about how people can be afraid of losing someone because they worry that they won't find someone better.

Fear of Pushing Someone Away

• People can be afraid of rocking the boat with someone because they're worried about pushing them away.

• They don't have standards with them because deep down, they worry that they won't find someone better.

• This person has certain special things about them that make them feel like they can't afford to lose them - this is the scarcity mindset.

Overcoming Scarcity Mindset

In this section, the speaker shares her answer to one of her member's questions on how to overcome scarcity mindset.

The Four Seasons Analogy

• The speaker shares an analogy where she and Audrey visited the Four Seasons Hotel in Hawaii and were amazed by it.

• However, even though it was incredible, it wasn't their home so it was irrelevant to their lives.

• Overcoming scarcity mindset involves focusing on things that you can actually build and have an impact on your quality of life.

• Coming home and putting another picture on the wall has way more impact than a night at a fancy hotel because it's in your actual home.

Fear of Not Finding Someone Better

In this section, the speaker talks about how people can be afraid of not finding someone better than their current partner.

The Four Seasons Analogy Continued

• The speaker continues with the Four Seasons analogy to explain that if you lose someone, it doesn't mean you won't find anyone as good as them.

• You don't really know how good they are - you're just assuming based on a few nice qualities or dates.

• The only person that is your home is the person that becomes your home.

Conclusion and Virtual Retreat Promotion

In this section, the speaker concludes by promoting her virtual retreat happening over the weekend.

Virtual Retreat Promotion

• The speaker promotes her upcoming virtual retreat happening over the weekend.

• It's a live three days of immersion coaching and is not something you can get next week.

• If you miss it, you miss it so she encourages everyone to sign up at mhvirtualretreat.com.

Building Your Own Value

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of building one's own value and investing in oneself rather than placing too much value on external factors such as relationships or jobs.

Investing in Yourself is an Investment in Your Home

• The speaker explains that just because someone has had a few nice dates with someone or has been seeing them for a few months, it doesn't mean they would be an amazing home forever.

• The speaker highlights that investing in oneself is an investment in one's home, confidence, mindset, and life. It pays dividends forever and attracts others to make you their home when you are great.

Learning How to Build Your Own Value

• The speaker stresses that building one's own value is key to being confident and not losing one's security and value when something external leaves.

• The speaker invites viewers to attend the virtual retreat where she will help attendees learn how to build their own value.

Conclusion

In this section, the speaker concludes by thanking viewers for watching and inviting them to attend the virtual retreat.

Attending the Virtual Retreat

• The speaker thanks viewers for watching and invites them to attend the virtual retreat if they haven't already done so. She emphasizes that it is the last chance to attend.