This simple productivity system will help you change your life
Introduction
In this section, Dr. Benjamin Hardy introduces himself and his work as an organizational psychologist and best-selling author of multiple books.
- Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and best-selling author of multiple books.
- He has written books on positive psychology and neuroscience.
- One of the biggest ideas in psychology is the future self phenomenon.
- The Future Self Commit Tool, Future Self Connect Tool, Imagination Tool, and Three Priorities Tool can be downloaded at futureself.com.
Breakdown of the One-page Future Self Cheat Sheet
In this section, Dr. Benjamin Hardy shares his screen to break down the one-page future self cheat sheet which can be downloaded at futureself.com.
- The one-page future self cheat sheet breaks down how to alter your identity to operate as your future self rather than your past self.
- Psychological flexibility is a key concept in becoming your future self.
- Viewing yourself more as a context rather than content increases psychological flexibility.
- Reframing past experiences by changing their context changes their meaning.
Increasing Psychological Flexibility for Your Identity
In this section, Dr. Benjamin Hardy discusses how increasing psychological flexibility helps you become your future self.
- Becoming emotionally aware or consciously aware of your past self requires psychological flexibility.
- Reframing yourself as a context allows you to observe thoughts and emotions without identifying with them.
- Mapping out your desired future self allows you to let the future determine who you are in the present.
Being Your Future Self
In this section, Dr. Benjamin Hardy explains how being your future self involves adopting the identity of your future self.
- Being your future self involves doing what they would do and having what they would have.
- Your future self is a different person with different skills, knowledge, perspective, and priorities.
- Becoming connected to your future self allows you to let the future determine who you are in the present.
Creating a Purposeful Future
In this section, the speaker talks about the importance of creating a purposeful future and how it can shape our present experiences.
The Power of Hope and Purpose
- Time is holistic, not sequential. Our past and future views shape our present experiences.
- Hope is having a committed purpose and pathways thinking to continuously find or adjust new means to achieve that purpose.
- People with low hope lack commitment and high pathways thinking, leading them to try the same thing repeatedly without success.
Quotes on Creating a Purposeful Future
- "He who has a why to live can bear almost any how." - Nietzsche
- Having a future purpose gives life meaning, resilience, and something to strengthen oneself for.
Importance of Having a Purposeful Future
- Without a purpose for the future, people become retrospective and wish they could go back in time because their present is painful.
- Victor Frankl's book "Man's Search for Meaning" emphasizes the importance of having a bigger and more purposeful future.
Processing Traumatic Experiences Positively
In this section, the speaker discusses how our perception of inputs determines our outputs. They also talk about psychological flexibility in processing traumatic experiences positively.
Epigenetics: Perception Determines Outputs
- Our genes are largely turned on/off based on our environment and perception of those inputs.
- Two people can have the same input but process it differently; one may hold onto trauma while another processes it positively.
Psychological Flexibility in Processing Trauma
- Psychological flexibility involves taking ownership over processing traumatic experiences positively.
- Deliberate practice involves converting experiences into future self-development.
- People with high psychological and emotional flexibility determine what that output will be.
The Importance of a Growth Mindset
In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of having a growth mindset and how it can help individuals continually learn and grow.
Your Future Self is Up to You
- Having a growth mindset means that you are continually gaining and growing from your past, making your present and future selves bigger and better.
- To develop a growth mindset, take five minutes to write down all the ways you're different from your past self in a journal.
- Recognize that your future self is up to you, and imagine what your future self could be like.
Fixed vs. Growth Mindset
- A fixed mindset is when you try to prove yourself based on your past experiences, while a growth mindset focuses on learning and improving.
- Having a fixed mindset means letting the past dictate who you are in the present and who you'll be in the future. On the other hand, having a growth mindset allows for flexibility and adaptability.
Compassion for Your Past Self
- Have compassion for all levels of your identity, including your past self. Recognize that they had different experiences, contexts, situations, and purposes than you do now.
- Continually learn from your past self by carrying around positive memories while refining them.
Imagining Your Future Self
In this section, the speaker talks about imagining one's future self as an important step towards personal development.
Writing Down Your Future Self
- Write down all the ways you're different from your past self ten years ago, and then write down your future self ten years from now.
- Make changes for your future self at least 10 times bigger and more important than the changes you made for your past self.
Recognizing Your Future Self as Different
- Recognize that your future self is a very different person than you are now. Take ownership of imagining what they could be like and make it 10x better in key ways.
Conclusion
In this section, the speaker concludes by summarizing the importance of having a growth mindset and imagining one's future self.
The Power of a Growth Mindset
- Having a growth mindset allows individuals to continually learn and grow, while a fixed mindset limits personal development.
- Imagining one's future self is an important step towards personal development because it allows individuals to take ownership of their imagination and make positive changes.
Becoming Your Future Self
In this section, the speaker talks about how to transform your life by becoming your future self.
Core Priorities of Your Future Self
- According to Jim Collins, if you have more than three priorities, you have zero.
- Clarify what's important to your future self 10 years from now and start using that future to determine who you are and what you do in the present.
- Reframe and transform the meaning of the past so that it's increasingly valuable and happening for you.
The Future Self Tool
- Your future self is your greatest guide; connect with them intentionally.
- Let go of aspects of your past that are holding you back but always recognize that you're not your past self. Have massive compassion, love, and empathy for them.
Visit futureself.com to download the actual tool and other tools.