Increase MASCULINE FRAME With these 8 Secrets Women Won't TELL YOU

Eight Hidden Ways to Increase Your Masculine Frame

In this video, the speaker discusses eight hidden ways to increase your masculine frame. These are things that he wishes he knew at an earlier age and would have made his dating life easier.

Avoid Lust

• Chasing lust is the quickest way to emasculate a man.

• Pursuing short-term quick gratifying sex weakens men and lowers their value.

• Men need to avoid lust and put value on themselves.

Don't Date Lots of Women Simultaneously

• Dating lots of women simultaneously purely for quick and casual sex will destroy your masculine frame.

• It's a mainstream Kool-Aid belief that having lots of sex with many women makes you more fulfilled as a man.

• The man who focuses his time on the highest leverage activity to get ahead in life will start to pull away from everybody else.

Worrying About Women When You Don't Have Your Money Together

• If you do not have your money together, you need to control your lust and focus on working hard.

• Men who are not stable financially should not be worried about going out with women or finding love.

Be Confident in Yourself

• Confidence is key when it comes to being a high-value man.

• Men should work on building their confidence by focusing on self-improvement activities such as fitness, education, and career development.

Develop Strong Boundaries

• Having strong boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship with yourself and others.

• Men should learn how to say no and set boundaries in their personal and professional lives.

Be Decisive

• Being decisive is a trait that women find attractive in men.

• Men should work on making decisions quickly and confidently.

Take Responsibility for Your Life

• Taking responsibility for your life means owning up to your mistakes and taking action to improve yourself.

• Men should focus on self-improvement activities such as therapy, coaching, or mentorship.

Embrace Masculinity

• Embracing masculinity means being proud of who you are as a man.

• Men should not be ashamed of their masculine traits and should embrace them fully.

The Importance of Being a Stable Man

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being a stable man who can provide for and protect his family. He also discusses how this stability can radiate confidence and increase one's masculine frame.

Why Stability is Important

• A stable man is able to protect and potentially provide for a family.

• Learning "game" or masculinity concepts cannot make up for the lack of stability.

• Stability radiates far more confidence than any pickup advice on YouTube.

Providing Before Dating

• To fully be in her feminine energy, a woman needs a man who can fully provide for her and/or a potential family before dating.

• Not being in a position to fully provide puts her slightly in her masculine energy if she's forced to work due to lack of income and resources.

• By not being able to lead the family or oneself, it will be hard to get her feminine best.

Don't Look for Commitment Until You're Stable

In this section, the speaker advises men not to look for commitment until they are stable enough to fully provide for their partner. He explains that trying to get women committed without providing will only lead them into their masculine energy.

Fully Provide Before Committing

• Do not look for a committed exclusive girlfriend until you are in a position to fully provide.

• If she still has to work after three months, six months, or even a year, it will be very hard to change her perception of you.

• Women need men who are on their purpose and have their [expletive] together.

Listen to Your God-Given Masculine Calling

In this section, the speaker discusses how men cannot find their purpose in life without listening to their god-given masculine calling. He emphasizes that leaning into one's calling is where they can find excellence and be a true star.

Finding Your Purpose

• Men cannot find their purpose in life without listening to their god-given masculine calling.

• God gave each man a certain set of skills, and leaning into those skills is where they can find excellence.

• When you listen to your god-given calling, you will get ahead.

How to Make Her Enter Your Frame

In this section, the speaker explains how having your [expletive] together and being a man of value who's on your purpose is important for making a woman enter your frame. He gives examples of how leading interactions can make her enter your frame.

Leading Interactions

• Having your [expletive] together and being a man of value who's on your purpose is important for making a woman enter your frame.

• Leading interactions by picking the time for dates or driving her to the date can make her enter your frame.

The Psychological Nuances of Attraction

In this section, the speaker discusses how a woman entering a man's physical and mental space can be extremely attractive to her. He emphasizes that psychological nuances are just as powerful, if not more so, than looks, money or status.

Entering Each Other's Space

• When a woman enters a man's physical space and operates on his terms, it can be very attractive to her.

• This includes setting expectations, dates, points of contact and leading her down the path of seeing each other based on the terms laid out by the man.

The Power of Psychological Nuances

• Psychological nuances are just as powerful or even more powerful than looks, money or status when it comes to attraction.

• Being both alpha and beta in the same body makes a man irreplaceable. This means having both alpha characteristics such as confidence and setting expectations while also having beta characteristics such as being able to provide for and emotionally connect with a woman.

Treating Good Women Well

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of treating good women well in order to maximize one's masculine frame. He warns against playing head games with women and interjecting toxicity into relationships.

Importance of Treating Women Well

• Treating good women well is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships.

• Basic reciprocity needs to occur in any relationship where both parties treat each other well.

Avoiding Toxicity

• Playing head games and interjecting toxicity into relationships will only lead to bitterness and ruin the foundation of the relationship.

• If a woman acts poorly or bitter despite being treated well, it's important to address that behavior in a calm and collected manner.