05 Working with the Law - LAW OF RECEIVING - Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey

The Law of Receiving: Understanding Giving and Receiving

Introduction to the Law of Giving

• The session begins with a scripture emphasizing the principle of giving, stating "give and it shall be given unto you good measure running over."

• An Old Testament verse reinforces this idea, suggesting that God will open the windows of heaven to bless those who give.

The Concept of Abundance

• Napoleon Hill echoes this sentiment in "Think and Grow Rich," noting that when money starts coming, it arrives rapidly and unexpectedly.

• The speaker highlights that understanding these laws can simplify complex ideas about abundance and receiving.

Transitioning Mindsets: From Getting to Giving

• Many people mistakenly believe they must get before they can give, which leads to a limited mindset.

• The fundamental law of life is giving; an attitude focused on getting creates congestion in one's mental state.

The Importance of Mental State

• A mind dominated by getting is paralyzed and unable to act according to the law of creation.

• Jane Wilheit's phrase "givers gain" encapsulates the essence of shifting from a getting mentality to one focused on giving.

Mechanisms of Prayer and Vibration

• Raymond Hollywell explains how prayer acts as a vibration sent out into the universe, similar to radio waves.

• Focused thought during prayer is crucial; it's not just about sending thoughts but also being receptive to answers.

Readiness for Reception

• People often fail to adjust themselves for receiving while praying, leading to disappointment when answers don't come quickly.

• There's an old saying that suggests personal crises can lead individuals to become more receptive to divine assistance.

Becoming One with Desired Good

• To receive what we desire, we must align ourselves vibrationally with our goals; this requires active participation beyond mere wishing or dreaming.

Active Participation in Giving and Receiving

• Life operates on a principle where giving precedes receiving; whether through thoughts or actions, giving sets the stage for reception.

• Val Vanderwaal emphasizes that we should willingly give while graciously receiving; both aspects are essential parts of life’s laws.

The Law of Giving and Receiving

The Principle of Giving

• The law states that "it is more blessed to give than to receive," emphasizing the importance of giving as a precursor to receiving. Without the act of giving, there is no pattern for the law to work with.

• To obtain good things in life, one must first contribute positively; opportunities are found through acts of giving, which unlock potential benefits.

Understanding Money's Nature

• Many associate giving primarily with money, an object deeply desired by humans. Despite its allure, money remains neutral and obedient to our will.

• Money does not gain anything from being exchanged; it serves its purpose through circulation without discrimination between deserving or undeserving hands.

The Value Exchange

• When individuals fail to provide full value in exchanges, they misunderstand the underlying prospering law associated with money. Its worth is determined by human perception.

• True prosperity occurs when we focus on providing valuable service rather than fixating on returns; this aligns our intentions with the purpose of money.

Effective Giving Practices

• There are right and wrong ways to give: careless impulsive giving can hinder progress while thoughtful contributions yield better outcomes.

• Personal anecdote: In 1980, financial struggles led the speaker to realize that true abundance comes from participating in the law of giving.

A Transformative Experience

• During a challenging time with only three dollars left for food, a moment on the beach prompted reflection on trust in universal abundance versus personal willpower.

• After finding a penny inscribed with "In God We Trust," the speaker recognized their lack of faith in financial flow and began contributing financially despite limited resources.

• Since embracing this principle over 27 years ago, there has consistently been enough financial flow regardless of circumstances, illustrating Raymond Hollowell's teachings on abundance.

The Power of Tithing and the Law of Giving

Understanding Tithing's Effectiveness

• The speaker emphasizes that tithing is a powerful form of giving, suggesting it aligns with personal experiences and beliefs.

• Tithing is described as a systematic method of giving, which fosters a consistent flow of reciprocal benefits in life.

• The speaker shares their experience managing a company where they mandated tithing, leading to improved financial stability after taking control.

• A direct order for tithing resulted in never facing money problems again, illustrating the effectiveness of an orderly approach to giving.

• The irregularity in sporadic giving leads to uncertain returns; thus, consistent tithing creates predictable positive outcomes.

Psychological and Spiritual Aspects of Tithing

• Tithers develop self-reliance and confidence, fostering a positive mindset that attracts success.

• Some view tithing spiritually as sharing profits with God, while others mistakenly give for selfish reasons or bargains.

• The intention behind the gift is crucial; if motivated by selfishness, results will be limited and constrained.

• It's emphasized that the giver's attitude during the act of giving significantly influences the outcome rather than what happens to the money afterward.

• Generosity leads to greater rewards; those who give freely often experience abundant love and positivity in their lives.

Real-Life Examples and Lessons Learned

• John D. Rockefeller is cited as an example of someone who practiced this law early on by tracking his donations throughout his life.

• The speaker praises Bob for his generosity, attributing it to both understanding and applying these principles effectively in life.

• Observations about successful givers reveal patterns that can inspire others regarding how generosity impacts one's life positively.

• Personal anecdotes illustrate challenges faced when surrounded by individuals focused solely on monetary gain rather than shared values or goals.

• The speaker reflects on writing a book titled "It's Not About the Money," emphasizing that true wealth lies beyond financial aspects.

Philosophical Insights on Wealth

• Discussions highlight that many books about earning money focus more on mindset than actual financial strategies; it's about spiritual growth as well.

• Recognizing our spiritual nature helps align with laws governing abundance and prosperity through acts like tithing.

The Power of Giving and Receiving

Personal Story of Generosity

• The speaker recounts a childhood memory during World War II, highlighting the struggles of a neighboring family who lacked heat due to not having coal for their furnace.

• The speaker's mother, despite their own financial limitations, gave $10 (half of her total wealth at the time) to help the struggling family purchase coal.

• This act of giving left a lasting impression on the speaker, emphasizing that true wealth is measured by generosity rather than material possessions.

Philosophy on Giving

• The speaker reflects on how joy comes from giving rather than receiving, suggesting that helping others improves one's own life situation.

• They discuss the concept that words cannot fully express deep feelings or spiritual truths, indicating that understanding goes beyond mere language.

Law of Giving and Receiving

• The speaker introduces the idea that giving and receiving are interconnected laws in the universe; one cannot exist without the other.

• They explain how thoughts activate brain cells and energy flows in response to our intentions, linking mental states with physical outcomes.

Preparation for Receiving

• Citing Hallowell, they stress that after giving, one must prepare for receiving as an active expression of faith rather than passively waiting for results.

• This preparation enhances one's perspective and reduces doubt while energizing one's ability to receive what they expect.

Expectations and Manifestation

• The discussion continues on how our expectations shape our reality; negative experiences can arise from negative expectations just as positive ones can manifest from positive beliefs.

• Emphasizing emotional alignment with desires, they argue that creating vivid mental images paired with strong emotions activates the law of attraction effectively.

Consistent Giving Practices

• Regular giving should be based on desired income levels rather than current limitations; this practice can lead to greater financial flow over time.

• Recommendations include starting with manageable percentages if tithing feels overwhelming but maintaining consistency in contributions to foster abundance.

Desire and Fulfillment

• The speaker concludes by discussing desire as a natural urge towards fuller life expressions; fulfillment is linked to continuous expectation and readiness for manifestation.

The Law of Receiving and Giving

Understanding the Law of Mind and Receiving

• The law of mind operates at a level beyond our awareness, aligning us with our desires. This process is essential for manifesting those desires into reality through the application of relevant laws.

• There are no limits to what one can ask for under the law of opportunity; life itself does not withhold anything. Mistakes in understanding these laws can lead to growth and better comprehension over time.

Learning Through Mistakes

• Mistakes serve as valuable lessons that enhance our understanding of life's laws, similar to how errors in mathematics help clarify concepts. Everyone makes mistakes as part of their learning journey.

• A personal anecdote illustrates this: a child learns addition excitedly but later discovers multiplication, which simplifies her calculations—this reflects the principle of receiving abundance through understanding deeper laws.

The Principle of Giving

• Consistent giving activates a multiplication factor in receiving; thus, giving more leads to receiving more in return. Mary Raymond Hollywell's quote emphasizes that generous giving correlates with abundant receiving.

• Many people experience scarcity because they give little; true wealth comes from sharing one's resources—be it energy, love, or talents—abundantly and joyfully. This approach fosters growth in abilities over time.

Cultivating Abundance

• To achieve desires such as health or happiness, one must actively engage in giving; this initiates a natural principle akin to planting seeds that will yield results without doubt or fear about outcomes. The law works consistently like nature itself does.

• An unselfish mindset transforms an individual's relationship with themselves and others, leading to renewed perspectives on life and its opportunities for abundance and joy.

Insights from Poetry on Giving

• The session concludes with a poem by Arthur William Beer that encapsulates the essence of giving: "To get you must give." This highlights the reciprocal nature of generosity and fulfillment in life experiences.

• Albert Schweitzer's wisdom reinforces this idea: true happiness stems from finding ways to give oneself selflessly rather than seeking material gain alone—a core lesson emphasized throughout this discussion on receiving and giving abundantly.