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To Know Someone's Values, Ask What They Hate!
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To Know Someone's Values, Ask What They Hate!

What Do People Really Value?

Initial Thoughts on Values

  • The speaker initiates a conversation about people's values, noting that responses often include cliché terms like honesty, integrity, and hard work.
  • After observing individuals over a week, the speaker concludes that many do not genuinely understand or embody these values; they provide answers to appear wise.

Human Nature and Biases

  • The speaker reflects on human nature, emphasizing biases and blind spots that lead people to inflate their self-perception.
  • Society encourages this behavior of presenting an idealized version of oneself rather than authentic values.

Alternative Approach: Asking About Hate

  • Instead of inquiring about values directly, the speaker suggests asking what people hate as a more revealing approach.
  • Hate is portrayed as an authentic emotion that people express without pretense, making it a reliable indicator of underlying values.

Connecting Hate to Values

  • The speaker explains how identifying what someone hates can illuminate their core values. For example, hating disrespect for time indicates valuing respect and commitment.
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People are pretentious. Asking them about their values just proves it even further. So I drew this random animation to express it. Plus, my computer tutorials weren't performing well, so I need something new and fresh! This 2-minute video might seem silly, but I am actually able to see people's character and values better by doing this simple trick. Try this out, you won't regret it. Credits: - Outtro Music by @QuincasMoreira (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9KsKGoE3Zw) The art box below is WRONG! Go to Quincas' page instead.