This is how you find high quality women (live coaching call)

Finding High Value Women

In this section, the speaker asks for advice on how to find high-value women and shares his difficulties in finding them.

Difficulties in Finding High-Value Women

• The speaker attends an all-boys school, making it difficult to meet women.

• Cold approaches at the gym have been sporadic and unreliable.

Reframing the Approach

• The speaker is advised to focus on personal development rather than finding women.

• By becoming an ideal husband for a high-value woman, one can attract such women naturally.

Attracting High-Quality Women

• High-quality women are attracted to men who possess similar values and character traits as their fathers.

• Delayed gratification, modesty, wholesomeness, and non-materialism are some of the qualities that high-quality women value in men.

The Importance of Consistent Love in High-Quality Women's Lives

In this section, the speaker discusses how high-quality women are used to having a secure, consistent, long-term, and respectful love from their fathers. This is what they will look for in the man that they're interested in.

High-Quality Women Look for Consistent Love

• High-quality women are used to having a secure, consistent, long-term, and respectful love from their fathers.

• These women will not be attracted to games or guys who don't reply because they've never experienced that with male love before.

• These women won't be attracted to men who aren't consistent because consistency eases their anxieties.

Two Steps to Attracting High-Quality Women

In this section, the speaker outlines two steps to attracting high-quality women: self-improvement and understanding what these women are attracted to.

Two Steps to Attracting High-Quality Women

• Step 1: Improve yourself by staying on self-improvement, making money, going to the gym, and developing yourself.

• Step 2: Understand that high-quality women are attracted to the love that their father gave them. If she is high quality then naturally her father isn't going to be a degenerate; he's going to give consistent secure love.

Balancing Self-Improvement and Interacting with Women

In this section, the speaker discusses how it's important not to lose track of interacting with women while on a journey of self-improvement. He also talks about the importance of practicing with women before reaching the level of woman that you want.

Balancing Self-Improvement and Interacting with Women

• It's not healthy to not speak to or interact with women while on a journey of self-improvement.

• Speaking to women is important for developing your skills and making it feel natural when you do reach the point where you're attracting high-quality women.

• You can practice your skills on other women without objectifying them, but keep in mind that you don't want to settle for anything less than what you're looking for.

• Practicing with lower-tier girls won't help you attract high-quality women. It's like practicing football for a basketball competition.

The Importance of Experience

In this section, the speaker talks about his personal experience and how he spent years getting experience that most guys would love to have.

The Importance of Experience

• Getting experience is important, but be careful not to spend too much time on lower-tier girls because it can compound and waste your time.

• The speaker fully indulged in getting experience, but he warns against spending too much time on degenerates.

The Importance of Pursuing High-Quality Women

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of pursuing high-quality women and how practicing with lower quality women can hinder one's ability to attract and maintain a relationship with a high-quality woman.

Attracting Lower Quality Women

• Going to parties and clubs can lead to attracting lower quality women.

• Practicing with degenerate women can build muscle memory for attracting them.

• After a while, sleeping with random girls loses its appeal.

Unlearning Bad Habits

• Unlearning bad habits is difficult after building muscle memory.

• Sleeping with degenerate women becomes easy after practice but hinders the ability to attract high-quality women.

Pursuing High-Quality Women

• Pursuing high-quality women is like playing basketball, while pursuing low-quality women is like playing football.

• When you meet a high-quality woman, waiting may not be necessary as she may be ideal for a long-term relationship.

• No matter what level of girl you get with, every one of us wants to level up with her.

Characteristics of High-Quality Women

In this section, the speaker describes the characteristics of high-quality women that men should look for in a potential partner.

Ideal Qualities

• A high-quality woman has an amazing personality and character.

• She has humility, acceptance, accountability, good family values and non-degenerate sexual past.

Pursuing High-Quality Women

• If you meet a high-quality woman, waiting may not be necessary as she may be ideal for a long-term relationship.

• Pursuing high-quality women requires self-improvement and encouraging her to improve herself.

Focusing on Goals and Standards

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of focusing on goals and standards instead of being distracted by degenerate women.

Setting High Standards

• The speaker presents two options: growing at a pace of 5 out of 10 while enjoying practicing with degenerate women or growing at a pace of 10 out of 10 without the pleasure of degenerate women.

• The speaker advises focusing relentlessly and specifically on goals, not being distracted by girls who do not meet one's standards.

• For young men, the speaker suggests having confidence in setting high standards when meeting girls. He recommends saying to oneself that she does not meet my standard if she is not up to par.

Compounding Effects

• The speaker warns that it is easy to think that one can just have fun with a girl for one night or take a day off to spend time with her. However, these actions compound over time and lower the quality of one's future wife.

• Every degenerate woman you sleep with lowers your future wife's attractiveness by five percent in all ways.

Counteracting Lowered Standards

• The speaker notes that success and high character can counteract lowered standards caused by sleeping with degenerate women. However, he argues that if someone were going to become successful and high character anyway, they should have been able to attract one of the best women in the world.