5 Pasos Para Cumplir Tus Sueños | Nacho Llantada | TEDxYouth@ASFM
5 Tricks to Achieve Your Dreams
Introduction to the Speaker's Journey
- The speaker introduces five tricks that can help individuals get closer to their dreams, emphasizing the difference between merely dreaming and fulfilling those dreams.
- Reflecting on his youth, the speaker describes himself as an ordinary boy with aspirations of excelling in school, sports, and relationships.
Personal Anecdote: The Quest for Attention
- He recounts a crush on a beautiful girl who did not notice him due to being "normal," prompting him to seek ways to stand out.
- The speaker shares a humorous video from his past showcasing his attempts at impressing girls during middle school.
Discovering the Difference Between Dreaming and Achieving
- He emphasizes that everyone is born with potential ("stars") but must take responsibility for pursuing their dreams.
- The first trick he presents is about visualizing one's goals clearly; understanding what one truly desires makes it easier to start working towards it.
Visualization as a Tool for Success
- He encourages listeners to visualize where they want to be in ten years—considering aspects like career, relationships, and financial status.
- Using the metaphor of life as a train journey, he explains how having clear goals helps navigate through life's challenges effectively.
Focus: The Key Ingredient
- The second trick involves focusing on one's goals. He illustrates this by discussing how focus can lead to unexpected opportunities and outcomes.
- Through relatable examples (like choosing a car), he demonstrates how focus brings awareness and recognition of opportunities related to one's desires.
Understanding Opportunities and Commitment
The Importance of Focus
- The speaker reflects on how opportunities often go unnoticed when one is not focused, using the metaphor of friends and songs that were always present but overlooked.
- A personal anecdote about reconnecting with an old friend named Juancho illustrates the theme of recognizing what’s around you when you are attentive.
Commitment as a Key to Success
- Emphasizes that commitment is crucial for achieving dreams; without it, opportunities will slip away like fleeting moments or people in your life.
- Discusses common failures in maintaining commitments, such as starting a gym routine or diet but quickly abandoning them.
- Shares a personal story about training for a marathon, highlighting the importance of setting clear goals and following through with commitment.
Overcoming Challenges Through Accountability
- Describes how he committed to running marathons and triathlons as part of a larger goal to help a child in need, showcasing accountability as motivation.
- Details the physical challenges faced during training while keeping his commitment alive by focusing on the child's needs.
Personal Development and Discipline
- Stresses the necessity of working on oneself—developing habits like reading, eating well, being grateful, and having compassion—to attract success rather than merely seeking it out.
Attracting Dreams Through Enjoyment
- Introduces the idea that dreams should be attracted rather than chased; this can be achieved through discipline and enjoyment in one's pursuits.
The Creative Process: Finding Inspiration
Breaking Through Creative Blocks
- Shares an experience where he struggled to write a song until he found inspiration during casual conversations with friends at a bar.
Social Interactions as Catalysts for Creativity
- Describes humorous interactions among friends discussing women which led him to confront his own creative block directly.
Taking Risks in Social Situations
- Recounts an amusing challenge posed by friends to kiss someone without knowing their name, illustrating spontaneity's role in creativity.
Visualization Techniques
- Reflecting on visualization techniques discussed earlier, he describes how envisioning success helped him approach social situations confidently.
The Birth of Creativity from Interaction
The Story Behind a Life-Changing Song
Introduction to the Song's Impact
- The speaker reflects on how a particular song changed their life, mentioning that it will be released in five minutes. They express excitement and nostalgia about the memories associated with it.
The Challenge of Communication
- In the past, there was no WhatsApp or instant messaging; communication required more effort. The speaker describes using a payphone to call someone they liked, highlighting the courage needed to initiate contact without modern conveniences.
Navigating Social Interactions
- The speaker recounts arriving at a girl's house and having to introduce themselves formally. They emphasize the awkwardness of approaching someone you like without prior knowledge of them, showcasing social norms from that era.
A Memorable Encounter
- After spending time at a bar, the speaker returns early in the morning to present a gift to the girl. This moment is filled with anticipation as they prepare for an important interaction that could change everything.
Reflection on Uncertainty and Hope