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4 MÉTODOS útiles para hacer que cualquiera te PERSIGA
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4 MÉTODOS útiles para hacer que cualquiera te PERSIGA

Introduction

The speaker discusses the desire to be pursued by others and the importance of self-love and validation.

Feeling Pursued and Self-Worth

  • Sometimes it's nice to feel wanted and loved by others.
  • However, true peace and love come from within oneself.
  • Self-love, self-validation, and satisfaction are essential for inner peace.

Four Useful Ways to Make Others Pursue You

The speaker introduces four strategies to make others interested in you.

1. Embrace Mystery

  • Mysterious people are often attractive because they spark curiosity.
  • Humans are naturally drawn to the unknown and seek more information about it.
  • Adding mystery to your life can make you more fascinating.

2. Enhance Your Physical Appearance

  • People tend to be interested in attractive individuals.
  • Studies show that attractiveness is associated with positive personality traits and intelligence.
  • Taking care of your physical appearance can boost your confidence and self-esteem.

3. Stay Busy

  • Filling your schedule with enjoyable and productive activities is beneficial.
  • Avoid playing mind games or using manipulative tactics to make others pursue you.
  • Focus on personal growth, socializing, and creating meaningful relationships.

4. Be Your Best Version

  • Strive to improve yourself regardless of whether you are an introvert or extrovert.
  • Authenticity is crucial; avoid pretending to be someone you're not.
  • Identify qualities you admire in others and work on developing them in yourself.

Conclusion

The speaker encourages sharing personal experiences of pursuing someone else and emphasizes the ongoing process of personal development.

Video description

¿Sientes que siempre eres tú el que persigue a los demás? ¿Desearías que se invirtieran las tornas por una vez? ¿Cuánto esfuerzo debes hacer para que la gente se interese por ti? Puede que te parezca una tontería hacerte estas preguntas, pero a veces es agradable que te quieran. Recuerda no obstante que sin amor propio, autovalidación y satisfacción, ninguna cantidad, por grande que sea, de aprecio y atención de los demás te dará la paz y el amor que mereces. Como casi siempre, todo es cuestión de equilibrio. Pero sin más preámbulos, aquí tienes cuatro formas útiles para hacer que cualquiera te persiga. Disclaimer: Nos gustaría mencionar que este vídeo es sólo para fines educativos. No tiene la intención de apuntar o avergonzar a nadie. 🔶 // Atribuciones \\ - Vídeo original (adaptado, traducido y doblado del inglés al español bajo licencia Creative Commons BY) de PSYCH2GO: "4 SECRET WAYS To Make Anyone Chase You" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mGljIOwo5I Writer: Chamae Quiachon Script editor: Caitlin McColl Script manager: Kelly Soong Animator: sarimopi YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong REFERENCIAS: - Akhtar, A., & Baer, D. (2019, October 8). 11 scientific reasons why attractive people are more successful in life. Business Insider. Retrieved from www.businessinsider.com/beautiful-people-make-more-money-2014-11?international=true&r=US&IR=T - Cherry, K. (2020, July 19). How the Halo Effect Influences the Way We Perceive Attractive People. Verywell Mind. Retrieved from www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-halo-effect-2795906 - Gillath, O., Ph. D. (2020, July 1). Who’s Playing Hard-to-Get, Who’s Attracted to It, and Why. Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-we-need-is-love/202007/whos-playing-hard-get-who-s-attracted-it-and-why - Redaelli, S., Ph. D. (2020, December 12). The Psychology of Mystery and Fascination. Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sonnet-freud/202012/the-psychology-mystery-and-fascination - Z. (2020, January 13). How To Be More Mysterious: 6 Tips That Work. The Attraction Game. Retrieved from theattractiongame.com/how-to-be-more-mysterious/ - Zeigler-Hill, V., & Myers, E. M. (2011). An Implicit Theory of Self-Esteem: The Consequences of Perceived Self-Esteem for Romantic Desirability. Evolutionary Psychology. doi.org/10.1177/147470491100900202 ✍ // ÍNDICE DE CONTENIDOS 0:00 Introducción 0:37 1. Deja espacio para el misterio 1:55 2. No logras animarte a ti mismo 3:36 3. Has perdido el interés por todo 4:33 4. No puedes funcionar como antes #sapienciapractica