Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Masterclass with Dr. Lisa Orbé-Austin

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Masterclass with Dr. Lisa Orbé-Austin

Welcome and Introduction

In this section, Graham introduces Factory Berlin and the purpose of the evening's masterclass on overcoming imposter syndrome with Dr. Lisa Orbay Austin.

Factory Berlin Community

  • Factory Berlin is a diverse community of over 4,000 members from various disciplines including tech, business, arts, and more.
  • Members collaborate on projects, explore business opportunities, and engage in events like masterclasses and fireside chats.

Programs and Initiatives

  • Specific programs like Stealth Mode for female and non-binary founders are highlighted.
  • Artist in Residence program and partnerships with organizations like Google for Startups enrich the ecosystem.

Networking and Interaction

  • In-person networking is mentioned (not possible due to virtual setting), encouraging participants to introduce themselves in the chat.
  • Instructions for submitting questions during the masterclass for a Q&A session at the end are provided.

Understanding Imposter Syndrome

Dr. Lisa Orbay Austin delves into the prevalence of imposter syndrome, its impact on individuals' careers, and its historical background.

Prevalence of Imposter Syndrome

  • Approximately 70% of individuals experience imposter syndrome during their careers.
  • A KPMG study revealed that 75% of female executives across industries have encountered imposter syndrome.

Origin of Imposter Syndrome

  • The term "imposter syndrome" was coined over 40 years ago by two female psychologists working in a college counseling center.
  • Initially termed as "imposter phenomenon," it affects high achievers who struggle to internalize their success.

Characteristics of Imposter Syndrome

  • People with imposter syndrome tend to downplay their achievements, attributing success to external factors rather than personal competence.

Imposter Syndrome: Understanding the Underlying Features

The speaker delves into the concept of imposter syndrome, highlighting its connection to perfectionism and the tendency to overestimate others while underestimating oneself. Various components of imposter syndrome are discussed, including diligence, intellectual inauthenticity, charm, perceptiveness, and seeking mentorship for external validation.

Super Smart and Capable Yet Struggling with Perfectionism

  • Imposter syndrome often stems from a desire for perfection without room for mistakes or humanity.
  • Perfectionism can lead individuals to believe that any error diminishes their worth and competence.
  • The need for flawlessness can hinder one's ability to internalize experiences fully.

Overestimating Others and Underestimating Ourselves

  • Individuals with imposter syndrome tend to compare themselves unfairly to others.
  • This comparison often results in feelings of inadequacy and a lack of self-worth.
  • Recognizing these tendencies is crucial in addressing imposter syndrome effectively.

Hallmarks of Imposter Syndrome

  • Four key features underlie imposter syndrome: diligence, hard work, intellectual inauthenticity, charm, and perceptiveness.
  • Seeking external validation through mentorship is a common trait among those experiencing imposter syndrome.
  • Mentorship can serve various purposes beyond validation but may be sought primarily for reassurance by individuals with imposter syndrome.

Understanding the Imposter Cycle

The speaker explains the dynamics of the imposter cycle, detailing how triggers such as high-pressure events or projects lead to performance anxiety. This anxiety often results in overworking or procrastination as coping mechanisms within the cycle.

Triggers Leading to Performance Anxiety

  • Imposter syndrome is typically triggered by high-stakes situations like important projects or new responsibilities.
  • These triggers instigate feelings of performance anxiety and fear of failure or exposure as fraudulent.

Coping Mechanisms within the Imposter Cycle

  • Performance anxiety may drive individuals towards overworking as a means to compensate for perceived shortcomings.
  • High performers may struggle with accepting positive feedback due to self-doubt inherent in imposter syndrome.

The Vicious Cycle of Self-Sabotage

  • Procrastination and self-sabotage are common responses within the imposter cycle when faced with performance anxiety.

Imposter Syndrome Cycles and Origins

In this section, the speaker discusses the cycles of overwork associated with imposter syndrome and explores the origins of this phenomenon.

Imposter Syndrome Cycles

  • Imposter cycle two involves intense bursts of overwork, working 18-20 hours in short periods, leading to exhaustion. Performance reviews either approve despite procrastination or provide constructive feedback.
  • Negative feedback tends to be magnified for individuals with imposter syndrome, overshadowing positive aspects. This focus on negativity propels individuals into a new cycle.

Origins of Imposter Syndrome

  • Social media and oppression are not proven to create imposter syndrome but may trigger or exacerbate it. The roots of imposter syndrome lie deeper than external factors like social media or oppression.
  • Childhood dynamics play a significant role in developing imposter syndrome. Three common childhood roles contribute to imposter feelings: being perceived as intelligent without effort, being the hard worker without natural gifts, and adopting a survival mindset due to lack of support.

Impact of Imposter Syndrome Research

This section delves into the impact of research on imposter syndrome among different groups and highlights the limited funding and attention it receives compared to mental health issues.

Research Funding Disparity

  • Despite being researched for over 40 years, imposter syndrome lacks substantial research funding similar to mental health conditions like anxiety or depression due to its classification outside mental health issues.

Imposter Syndrome and Its Impact on Different Groups

The discussion delves into the impact of imposter syndrome on various groups, including LGBTQ populations, women, men, people of color, and first-generation individuals.

Imposter Syndrome in Cisgender Women

  • Imposter syndrome does not prevent cisgender women from achieving success but instills a constant fear of fraudulence.
  • Cisgender women tend to be counterphobic, facing their fears directly.
  • Females spend more time on tasks and work harder when receiving negative feedback.

Imposter Syndrome in Cisgender Men

  • Cisgender men may affiliate with peers having less advanced skills due to cultural norms around masculinity.
  • Men with imposter syndrome may avoid high-risk situations and underachieve in certain areas.

Double Impact of Imposter Syndrome on People of Color and Women

The conversation explores the dual impact experienced by individuals belonging to marginalized groups who face both internal imposter syndrome struggles and external cues reinforcing feelings of inadequacy.

Double Impact on Marginalized Groups

  • Individuals from marginalized groups struggle with internal imposter syndrome while also receiving external cues questioning their competence.
  • Discriminatory behaviors from the external world can intensify imposter syndrome challenges for marginalized individuals.

Importance of Community Support for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

This segment emphasizes the significance of seeking support from peers and mentors who share similar identity components to combat external discrimination that exacerbates imposter syndrome challenges.

Role of Community Support

  • Finding peers and mentors with shared identities helps combat external discrimination reinforcing imposter feelings.
  • Strategic partnerships aid in navigating discriminatory behaviors from dominant groups.

Impacts of Imposter Syndrome on Leadership

The discussion highlights how imposter syndrome can influence leadership behaviors, leading to micromanagement tendencies and difficulties in handling mistakes or acknowledging achievements.

Effects on Leadership Behavior

  • Imposter syndrome can result in micromanaging behavior driven by fear of reflecting negatively through subordinates' actions.

Impacts of Imposter Syndrome on Career Development

The speaker discusses how imposter syndrome can affect career development, including aspects such as self-value, communication, negotiation skills, and reluctance for promotion.

Effects on Career Progression

  • Imposter syndrome can impact understanding of self-value and communication during interviews or funding requests.
  • It may lead to a reluctance to negotiate offers or promotions due to fear of rejection.
  • Individuals with imposter syndrome might avoid high visibility assignments outside their comfort zone, hindering growth opportunities.

Social and Networking Impact of Imposter Syndrome

The discussion focuses on how imposter syndrome influences networking, accomplishments sharing, long-term career vision, and the challenges faced in envisioning one's future.

Social and Networking Challenges

  • Imposter syndrome can hinder networking efforts and discussing achievements with others.
  • It affects the ability to envision long-term career goals independently from external validation.

Influence of Pandemic on Imposter Syndrome

The speaker explores the impact of the pandemic on imposter syndrome prevalence due to changes in work methods, increased uncertainty, overworking tendencies, and additional responsibilities.

Pandemic-induced Challenges

  • Adjusting to new work methods has led to a rise in imposter syndrome cases during the pandemic.
  • Increased demands from balancing personal and professional life contribute to feelings of inadequacy and overwork.

Gender Disparities Amidst Pandemic Challenges

The transcript delves into gender disparities exacerbated by the pandemic, particularly focusing on women facing increased childcare responsibilities impacting their careers.

Gender Disparities Highlighted

  • Women bear additional family responsibilities amidst the pandemic leading to job losses and career challenges.

Imposter Syndrome Phases and Interventions

In this section, the speakers discuss the phases involved in addressing imposter syndrome and the interventions required to combat it effectively.

Understanding Imposter Syndrome Origins

  • The first phase involves clarifying the origins of one's imposter syndrome, understanding its unique manifestations, triggers, and how it impacts daily life.
  • Recognizing that each individual experiences imposter syndrome differently is crucial in identifying personal triggers and navigating their effects on behavior.

Building Skills and Tools for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

  • The second phase focuses on developing new behaviors to replace old patterns triggered by imposter syndrome, such as overworking or seeking external validation.
  • Emphasizes creating an optimal environment both externally and internally to mitigate triggers associated with imposter syndrome.

Altering Imposter Syndrome Dynamics

  • Understanding the roots of one's imposter syndrome through family dynamics and early experiences is essential for recognizing present-day triggers.
  • Identifying triggers enables individuals to disrupt the cycle of negative thoughts associated with imposter syndrome, leading to proactive responses rather than reactive behaviors.

Combatting Automatic Negative Thoughts

This segment delves into strategies for combating automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) associated with imposter syndrome.

Recognizing ANT Categories

  • Learning to identify different categories of automatic negative thoughts aids in externalizing these thoughts and gaining control over them.

Imposter Syndrome and Self-Care Practices

In this section, the speaker discusses counter narratives for imposter syndrome and the importance of self-care practices in combating it.

Counter Narratives for Imposter Syndrome

  • Developing rational responses based on truth about oneself and the current situation is crucial in managing difficult thoughts related to imposter syndrome.
  • Addressing imposter syndrome does not lead to becoming a narcissist as individuals lack the emotional DNA for such behavior.

Valuing Self-Care Practices

  • Individuals with imposter syndrome often neglect self-care, placing themselves at the bottom of priorities.
  • Prioritizing self-care involves filling one's tank, setting boundaries, and avoiding burnout for a healthy career life.

Experimenting with New Roles and Building Community

This part focuses on breaking rigid roles associated with imposter syndrome and creating a supportive community.

Breaking Rigid Roles

  • Individuals with imposter syndrome tend to adopt rigid roles like being a constant helper or knowledge hub.
  • Working on imposter syndrome involves experimenting with various roles, learning to ask for help, set boundaries, and admit limitations.

Building Supportive Community

  • Establishing a diverse community known as the "dream team" is essential. It includes mentors, cheerleaders, and those who ground individuals during challenging times.
  • Having an "imposter expert" in one's community helps in openly discussing struggles with imposter syndrome without secrecy.

Reducing Imposter Syndrome Through Skill Development

The final segment highlights how skill development can significantly reduce imposter syndrome levels.

Skill Development Impact

  • Engaging in skill-building activities outlined in the book led participants to reduce their imposter syndrome scores by 30% within 14 weeks.

Imposter Syndrome and Workplace Culture

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of practicing skills that combat imposter syndrome throughout life and how quickly change can occur in addressing it. Additionally, the speaker shares where to find more information about imposter syndrome.

The Significance of Practicing Skills

  • Commitment to practicing skills combating imposter syndrome is crucial for lifelong benefits.
  • Skills acquired need to become an integral part of one's life to effect lasting change.

Rapid Change in Addressing Imposter Syndrome

  • Despite persisting for decades, imposter syndrome can be significantly altered within a short period.
  • Speaker directs individuals interested in learning more about imposter syndrome to their Instagram account for insightful content.

Personal Experience with Imposter Syndrome

This segment delves into the speaker's personal encounter with imposter syndrome as highlighted in their TEDx talk titled "The Imposters and Known Paradox."

Speaker's TEDx Talk on Imposter Syndrome

  • The speaker's TEDx talk narrates their journey through imposter syndrome and its impact on their darkest moments.
  • Personal experiences shared shed light on how imposter syndrome influenced career decisions negatively.

Overcoming Post-Achievement Imposer Syndrome

  • Contrary to common belief, achieving milestones like promotions or degrees may not alleviate imposter feelings.
  • The peak of the speaker's struggle with imposter syndrome occurred post Ph.D. completion at an Ivy League university.

Creating a Healthy Workplace Environment

Here, strategies for employers to foster a healthy work environment that mitigates triggers for imposter syndrome are discussed.

Cultivating Supportive Work Environments

  • Employers play a pivotal role in shaping workplace culture conducive to combating imposter syndrome triggers.
  • Encouraging growth mindset around mistakes and providing managerial training are essential steps towards fostering a supportive environment.

Leadership Styles Impact on Workplace Dynamics

  • Employees often bring familial leadership dynamics into their roles, influencing organizational culture.

Understanding Gaslighting and Imposter Syndrome

In this section, the speaker discusses the impact of gaslighting and imposter syndrome in the workplace, providing insights on coping mechanisms and societal progress in addressing these issues.

Gaslighting: Recognizing and Coping

  • Gaslighting can be a significant trigger, especially for oppressed groups, leading to feelings of isolation and fear.
  • It is crucial not to face gaslighting alone; sharing experiences with others can help validate your reality and provide support.
  • Coping with internal struggles caused by gaslighting is essential; finding ways to process these experiences is key to maintaining mental well-being.

Imposter Syndrome: Progress and Coping Strategies

  • Society is progressing towards better understanding and managing imposter syndrome, encouraging open discussions and interventions to combat it effectively.
  • Acknowledging imposter syndrome openly allows for constructive conversations and solutions rather than stigmatization or dismissal of feelings.

Taking Steps Towards Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

  • The first step involves admitting struggles with imposter syndrome and showing self-compassion in acknowledging these challenges.
  • Committing to addressing one aspect at a time, whether exploring origins or combating negative thoughts, is crucial for personal growth.

Commitment to Personal Growth

  • Overcoming imposter syndrome requires dedication and effort but leads to transformative changes in work dynamics, self-perception, and interactions with others.
  • Embracing this journey of self-discovery fosters a healthier work-life balance and reshapes how individuals navigate their professional identities.
Video description

Imposter syndrome is a phenomenon where people find it difficult to internalise their accomplishments, skills and experiences, and overwork to compensate for their own perceived lack of ability. Modern work cultures are often engineered purposely to inspire productivity and high performance in ways that incite insatiable desire for approval and a sense of imposter syndrome. The paradox of a person with imposter syndrome is that they are not a fraud that they perceive themselves to be; in fact, they are often high achievers who are extremely competent and able to really excel. So, how do you overcome imposter syndrome and unlock your true potential? Lisa Orbe-Austin is a licensed psychologist, executive coach, and organizational consultant whose book, “𝐎𝐰𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬: 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐲𝐧𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐞, 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐃𝐨𝐮𝐛𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞, answers exactly that. Lisa joins us onstage to train us to identify the root causes of imposter syndrome, recognize our natural skills and strengths, and gain the confidence to lead or simply speak up for yourself. Speaker & Moderator bio: Dr. Lisa Orbé-Austin is a licensed psychologist and executive coach, with a focus on career advancement, leadership development and job transitions. She is a co-founder and partner of Dynamic Transitions Psychological Consulting, a career and executive coaching consultancy, where she works mostly with high potential managers and executives. As an expert in career advancement, job transitions, leadership, and diversity & inclusion, she has been featured by The New York Times, NBC News, Forbes, The Huffington Post, Refinery29, Business Insider, and Insight Into Diversity. She has also been honored as a Top Voice on LinkedIn Job Search and Careers. Her book, Own Your Greatness: Overcome Impostor Syndrome, Beat Self-Doubt, and Succeed in Life (Ulysses Press, 2020) coauthored with her partner, Dr. Richard Orbé-Austin, is written to help readers conquer self-doubt, realize their true worth, and enjoy success.