The Discipline Expert: 2,000 Years Of Research PROVES Successful People Do One Thing! - Ryan Holiday

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Uploaded: 2023-08-24T07:07:44.000Z
Duration: 2 h 50 min 59 s

Introduction and the Meaning of Life

In this section, Brian Holiday discusses the importance of discipline and not caring about what others think. He emphasizes that discipline is crucial for success and living a meaningful life.

The Importance of Discipline

Discipline is the ability to do hard things that you don't want to do for long-term benefits.

Successful people have a high level of discipline.

Physical challenges can help cultivate discipline.

Having both a strong mind and body is essential.

Overcoming Procrastination

Brian Holiday explores why people procrastinate and fail to prioritize their health. He highlights the need to acknowledge our mortality and live with intention.

Confronting Mortality

Many people procrastinate because they believe they have unlimited time.

Acknowledging our terminal diagnosis can motivate us to make better choices in life.

Strategies for Developing Discipline

Brian Holiday shares strategies for developing discipline, which is crucial for personal growth and success.

Cultivating Discipline

Courage and discipline are necessary for personal growth.

Engage in physically challenging activities daily.

Strive for self-discipline rather than relying on external sources of motivation.

The Significance of Discipline in Life

Brian Holiday explains why discipline is critical in determining one's worth and how it shapes our lives.

Taking Control of Your Life

Lack of discipline allows others to determine your worth.

Developing self-discipline empowers you to lead a fulfilling life.

Requesting Support from Viewers

Brian Holiday asks viewers to subscribe to his channel, explaining how it helps him scale production and improve content quality.

Call-to-action: Subscribe to the Channel

Subscribing to the channel helps in scaling production and making the show better.

Brian Holiday promises to deliver improved content as a gesture of gratitude.

Purpose and Motivation

Brian Holiday discusses his motivation for writing about philosophy, particularly stoicism, and how it has made him a better person.

Personal Growth through Philosophy

Writing about philosophy, specifically stoicism, has made Brian Holiday a better person.

Stoicism involves reading, writing, and debating ideas to apply them in real-life situations.

Popularizing practical philosophy is Brian's way of continuing a centuries-old conversation.

Understanding Discipline

Brian Holiday redefines discipline as self-discipline and explains its significance in personal growth.

Self-Discipline vs. External Control

Discipline refers to self-discipline rather than external control or strictness.

The virtue of self-discipline involves living up to one's own standards.

Tolerance with others but strictness with oneself demands greater discipline.

The Philosophy of Stoicism

Brian Holiday defines stoicism as a practical philosophy that guides individuals on how to live a good life.

Practical Philosophy for Life

Stoicism addresses questions related to living a good life and dealing with challenges.

It offers guidance on managing emotions, facing mortality, choosing careers, and fulfilling obligations towards others.

Brian aims to continue the conversation around stoic philosophy by popularizing it further.

Rethinking Discipline

Brian Holiday challenges the traditional definition of discipline and provides his perspective on its core meaning.

Redefining Discipline

Traditional definitions view discipline as painful restraint for achieving goals.

Brian sees discipline as self-imposed standards that one lives up to.

Discipline should not be used as a weapon against others but as a personal virtue.

Conclusion

Brian Holiday emphasizes the importance of discipline in personal growth and success. He encourages viewers to cultivate self-discipline, confront their mortality, and live with intention. By popularizing stoic philosophy, he aims to continue the conversation on practical guidance for living a meaningful life.

The Importance of Adaptation and Flexibility

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of adapting oneself to others instead of trying to control or force them to be like oneself. The example of Marcus Aurelius naming his stepbrother as co-emperor is given to illustrate this point.

Adapting to Others

Marcus Aurelius names his stepbrother Lucius Ferris as co-emperor, despite their differences in character and lifestyle.

Marcus refers to Lucius as his brother and expresses gratitude for having him in his life.

The speaker emphasizes the need for acceptance, flexibility, and finding the good in others rather than trying to make them conform to one's own standards.

Discipline as Adaptability

Discipline is often associated with rigidity, but the speaker argues that true discipline involves adjusting, being flexible, and adapting.

Great leaders are able to bring out the best in people who are different from them through inspiration and example.

Physical discipline is also important for success but should not be limited to running harder or working longer hours.

Discipline Gives Freedom

Contrary to popular belief, discipline actually gives us freedom according to Epictetus.

Epictetus, a slave in Nero's court, realizes that he is freer than those surrounded by power and ambition because he is in control of himself.

Being in command of our desires and aversions determines our level of freedom regardless of our external circumstances.

The Illusion of Freedom without Self-Control

This section explores how many people may appear successful or free on the surface but lack self-control. It highlights the importance of being in charge of one's emotions, thoughts, actions, and desires.

Superficial Success vs. True Freedom

Many individuals with wealth, power, or fame may seem successful, but they are often slaves to their ambitions, jobs, or temptations.

Being legally free does not guarantee true freedom if one is not in control of oneself.

Lack of Self-Control

The speaker mentions encountering people with significant achievements and influence who are constantly busy and driven by the next accomplishment.

These individuals may have external power, but they lack internal control and are at the mercy of their desires and external pressures.

Structure and Rules for Freedom

Creating structure and rules may initially feel limiting, but it actually leads to greater freedom.

By committing to small actions or habits, such as making the bed or keeping promises to oneself, individuals gain a taste of true freedom.

The Importance of Keeping Commitments to Oneself

This section focuses on the significance of honoring commitments made to oneself. It emphasizes the value of small actions and personal integrity.

Honoring Commitments

The speaker reflects on the importance of keeping commitments made to oneself, even in small matters like making the bed.

Personal integrity is built through consistently following through on these commitments.

Small Actions Matter

Small actions can have a significant impact on one's mindset and discipline.

Jordan Peterson's example of making the bed illustrates how seemingly trivial tasks can contribute to personal growth and self-discipline.

Taste of True Freedom

Keeping commitments to oneself provides a sense of accomplishment and a taste of true freedom that many people have never experienced.

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The importance of keeping commitments to ourselves and the impact it has on our self-esteem and self-story.

Keeping Commitments to Ourselves

Keeping big commitments to ourselves has a significant impact on our self-esteem and self-story.

Small promises are connected to bigger promises, and breaking small commitments can lead to breaking bigger ones.

It is important to keep the promises we make to ourselves, even if no one else knows about them.

Building the muscle of discipline involves keeping the commitments we make to ourselves.

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The importance of building the muscle of discipline and overcoming excuses.

Building the Muscle of Discipline

Discipline is about keeping promises and commitments, especially those made to ourselves.

Writing is not always enjoyable, but building the habit of writing consistently helps develop discipline.

We can either build the muscle that says "I do what I say" or the muscle that makes excuses and breaks commitments.

Discipline is about keeping promises even when there are no immediate or external consequences.

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Overcoming internal resistance during challenging tasks.

Overcoming Internal Resistance

When facing difficult tasks, there may be a voice inside us suggesting we can stop or take an easier path.

Developing discipline involves overriding this voice and pushing through challenges.

Seneca's idea of treating the body rigorously so it is not disobedient applies here.

For example, taking cold plunges builds resilience by doing something uncomfortable for uncertain benefits.

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Struggling with discipline and how to approach it.

Struggling with Discipline

Some people may struggle with discipline due to past failures or low self-esteem.

It's important not to identify with past mistakes but instead focus on the person we want to become.

Falling off the wagon is a temporary setback, and it's possible to get back on track and continue building discipline.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of not viewing productivity as an all-or-nothing concept and emphasizes the need to focus on making small, consistent efforts towards one's goals.

Beliefs and Confidence

The speaker reflects on the origins of beliefs and their impact on confidence and discipline. They mention how understanding belief change can help individuals control their own mindset.

They highlight the tendency for people to either have an inflated ego or constantly criticize themselves, emphasizing the importance of focusing on actions rather than self-perception.

The speaker shares a quote from their friend Austin Cleon about "doing the verb instead of trying to be the noun," suggesting that individuals should focus on taking action rather than defining themselves based on labels.

Positive Contributions

The speaker discusses their approach to daily progress by aiming to make positive contributions each day. They provide examples from their own experience, such as editing chapters in their book or changing chapter titles.

They emphasize that even small steps forward can contribute positively towards a goal, regardless of whether it is immediately visible or impactful.

The speaker mentions that aligning goals with what one can control is crucial for measuring personal success. They suggest focusing on personal standards rather than external factors like sales or reception.

Rooting in Personal Standards

The speaker advises grounding oneself in personal standards when pursuing goals. By prioritizing one's own sense of accomplishment and fulfillment, they argue that individuals can avoid potential disappointment caused by external factors beyond their control.

They explain how being rooted in personal standards leads to better work quality and increased happiness.

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In this section, the speaker explores setting worthwhile directions for positive incremental progress and highlights the importance of focusing on what one can control.

Goals Rooted in Control

The speaker references Epictetus' philosophy of setting goals rooted in what one can control. They explain that by focusing on contests where winning is up to oneself, individuals can always achieve success.

They apply this concept to their own work, emphasizing the importance of measuring progress based on personal criteria rather than external factors like sales or reception.

Personal Fulfillment

The speaker encourages aligning incremental progress with personal fulfillment and meaningfulness. They suggest scaling down daily expectations and focusing on making positive contributions towards one's work.

They share their approach of prioritizing personal satisfaction over external validation, which allows for a happier and more fulfilling journey.

The speaker suggests that when individuals focus on doing their best according to their own standards, they tend to produce better work.

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The Power of Unexpected Quotes

In this section, the speaker discusses the impact of an unexpected quote that went viral on the internet. The quote violated the speaker's preconceptions of what makes a good quote and taught them valuable lessons about success and self-worth.

Unexpected Success

The speaker shares their experience of writing a quote after having an argument with their girlfriend.

The quote, which expressed the desire for personal growth over prioritizing a relationship, went viral and became their best-performing quote.

This unexpected success challenged the speaker's preconceived notions of what makes a good quote.

It taught them that sometimes things they don't consider good can still resonate with others, while things they are proud of may not perform well.

Defining Success Internally

The speaker emphasizes the importance of rooting one's sense of success internally rather than relying on external validation.

They highlight the need for self-discipline and taking care of oneself physically to thrive emotionally and temperamentally.

Engaging in activities like going for walks or exercise helps maintain emotional discipline and overall well-being.

Stoicism's Perspective on Self-Care

Stoicism emphasizes the significance of maintaining both cognitive and physical well-being.

A strong mind should be accompanied by a strong body, not necessarily in terms of physical strength but through being active and pushing oneself.

Taking care of oneself physically sets up a foundation for emotional resilience and philosophical growth.

Daily Wins as Philosophical Hacks

Engaging in activities that provide daily wins is an underrated philosophical hack according to the speaker.

They personally commit to running, swimming, or biking every day as a promise to themselves.

Regardless of external circumstances or challenges faced, accomplishing this daily goal brings a sense of pride, endorphins, and improved well-being.

Toughness and Growth

The speaker discusses the concept of toughness in relation to great leaders, athletes, and philosophers.

They explain that many influential figures have gone through periods of struggle or unpopularity before achieving success.

Examples such as Winston Churchill's time in the wilderness highlight how adversity can lead to personal growth and refinement of ideas.

Wilderness as a Catalyst for Growth

The speaker references Churchill's statement about the wilderness being where "psychic Dynamite" is made.

They explain that facing challenges, not having immediate success or acceptance, forces individuals to refine their thoughts and adapt.

Steve Jobs' experience of being fired from Apple also served as a catalyst for self-reflection and personal development.

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The Importance of Ego Death and Learning from Rejection

In this section, the speaker discusses the significance of experiencing ego death and learning from rejection. They emphasize the importance of recognizing one's limitations and being open to feedback in order to avoid a catastrophic downfall.

Ego Death and Learning from Rejection

Experiencing ego death through rejection or realizing that things are not going as expected can be a valuable lesson.

It is ideal to learn these lessons earlier and at a lower cost rather than reaching the pinnacle of success only to have everything come crashing down.

Steve Jobs' journey serves as an example where he could have learned important lessons without facing extreme consequences like getting fired or thrown out.

Sometimes, blowing up one's life may be necessary, but it is better to listen to the whispers of feedback that life provides along the way.

Tuning into that inner voice requires reflection, evaluation, and adjustment based on available information.

Journaling or having conversations with oneself can help in holding oneself accountable and staying on track.

Reflecting on past experiences, advice from others, and personal inspirations can guide individuals back onto their desired path.

The Power of Writing for Clarity of Thought

This section highlights the value of writing in gaining clarity of thought. The speaker explains how writing helps in organizing ideas, identifying problems, and expressing complex concepts effectively.

The Value of Writing

Writing clarifies one's thoughts like no other practice or exercise.

In various professional settings such as Amazon, writing is essential for launching new projects or suggesting changes. It forces individuals to articulate their ideas clearly and consider potential issues or contradictions.

Writing goes beyond mere communication with others; it compels individuals to go through a process of figuring out what they think and why they think it.

Writing requires planning, structure, and a systematic approach to ensure ideas flow coherently and build upon each other.

While the enthusiasm for a topic may initially drive someone to start writing, it is crucial to have a plan and a comprehensive understanding of the subject matter before attempting to write about it.

Writing serves as a powerful tool for expressing complex ideas effectively. It is the foundation from which other mediums such as TikTok, Instagram, or articles can be derived.

The Transformative Power of Daily Writing

This section discusses the personal transformation that can occur through daily writing. The speaker shares their experience of writing one page every day for eight years and how it has deepened their understanding of stoicism.

Daily Writing Practice

The speaker started writing one page per day after completing their book on stoicism in 2015.

Continuing this practice daily for eight years has been transformative on a personal level.

Producing, polishing, editing, and reading one piece every day has allowed for growth and development as an individual.

Millions of people have benefited from this daily writing practice through email newsletters and podcasts.

The process of consistently engaging with stoic philosophy through writing has enhanced the speaker's understanding of the subject matter.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the challenges of writing and how it can resonate with people's concerns and anxieties. They also touch upon the timeless nature of certain books and the essence of stoicism in confronting unexpected crises.

People's Struggles and Answers

The speaker reflects on the types of things that resonate with people, such as their popular sufferings, concerns, and anxieties.

They mention that they don't think about what people struggle with or seek answers to, but rather follow where their writing takes them.

It is interesting to consider that people have had similar problems for thousands of years.

Marcus Aurelius' Meditations

The speaker highlights Marcus Aurelius' book "Meditations" as an example of a work that should be inaccessible and impractical due to his position as emperor of Rome.

Despite this, Marcus wrote in Greek to himself, never intending for it to be published.

The book contains specific notes that are often unclear in meaning but still resonates with readers.

Stoicism and Unexpected Crises

The speaker explores what stoicism says about confronting unexpected crises in our lives.

They explain that stoicism emphasizes that we cannot control what happens to us but can control how we respond.

A key idea from Marcus Aurelius' writings is "the impediment to action advances action," which means obstacles can be turned into opportunities for growth and virtue.

Handling Crisis

The speaker uses an analogy of a room on fire to illustrate different ways people handle crisis situations.

Some may panic or freeze while others focus on practical solutions or helping others.

The obstacle becomes the way by choosing how one responds to a difficult situation.

Practice and Perspective

The speaker suggests that handling crises can be seen as practice, similar to going to the gym.

Childhood trauma may influence one's attitude towards challenges.

Going through difficult situations can help develop resilience and the ability to navigate future obstacles.

Emerging Stronger

The speaker encourages viewing challenging experiences as opportunities for growth and learning.

They emphasize that going through tough times can shape us into individuals who have faced similar situations before.

It is important to remind ourselves during difficult times that this is practice, and we will emerge stronger on the other side.

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In this section, the speaker reflects on the resilience and strength developed through experiencing challenging events. They emphasize the importance of adapting and adjusting to overcome obstacles.

Fragility and Growth

The speaker acknowledges that going through difficult experiences can make individuals feel more fragile.

Reflecting on the pandemic, they highlight how people have managed to endure three years of crisis despite initial doubts about their ability to cope.

The speaker emphasizes that facing challenges incrementally allows for adjustment and adaptation, leading to personal growth and increased resilience.

Through testing oneself in difficult situations, individuals gain a deeper understanding of their capacities and capabilities.

The speaker encourages embracing life's circumstances as they are, acknowledging the need for personal growth and learning from challenging situations.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of asking meaningful questions to maintain focus and perspective in various aspects of life.

Asking Meaningful Questions

The speaker shares that one important question they frequently ask themselves as a parent is whether certain matters truly hold significance.

They emphasize that many issues we encounter are often insignificant in the grand scheme of things, allowing us to let go of unnecessary arguments or insecurities.

By asking questions that provide perspective, individuals can shift their focus away from immediate impulses or worries towards more constructive actions.

The power of great questions lies in offering alternative perspectives that enable individuals to make informed decisions and take appropriate action.

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In this section, the speaker reflects on the challenges and lessons learned from romantic relationships.

Lessons from Romantic Relationships

The speaker highlights that philosophers who discuss relationships have likely experienced them firsthand.

They share a stoic perspective on personal responsibility for emotions within a relationship, emphasizing that individuals are accountable for their own reactions.

The speaker acknowledges the complexities of making relationships work in practice, beyond theoretical understanding.

They mention situations where prioritizing being right over maintaining harmony can negatively impact relationships.

The speaker briefly comments on the philosophical issues surrounding social media platforms like Twitter, where conflict-seeking behavior often prevails over philosophy's pursuit of happiness and the good life.

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In this section, the speaker discusses how people willingly engage in online conflicts and distractions instead of focusing on more meaningful aspects of life.

Distractions and Conflict on Social Media

The speaker observes how individuals voluntarily seek out conflicts and things to be upset about on platforms like Twitter.

They highlight how people prioritize engaging with outrage-inducing content rather than spending quality time with loved ones or pursuing personal goals.

The speaker criticizes the tendency to invest time and energy into arguing with strangers online instead of focusing on personal growth and happiness.

They mention deleting social media apps as a means to avoid unnecessary distractions and maintain focus on more important aspects of life.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of creating distance and boundaries from distractions and external influences.

Creating Distance and Boundaries

The speaker reflects on spending 50 minutes on a task and feeling satisfied with the use of time. They emphasize the need to create boundaries to separate oneself from distractions.

It is acknowledged that there may be some value in certain activities or content, but it is important to maintain distance and not get consumed by them.

The speaker shares personal practices such as not having certain apps on their phone and not knowing the passwords to certain accounts. They rely on others to communicate important information.

Having enough inputs is emphasized, indicating that there is no need for excessive exposure to random opinions or content.

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This section focuses on cultivating stillness and creating a space for reflection.

Cultivating Stillness

The speaker highlights the significance of protecting one's mental space and cultivating stillness.

Reading is mentioned as a way to gain wisdom and live multiple lives through the experiences shared in books.

The similarities between Eastern and Western philosophy are discussed, suggesting common themes in living a good life.

One key theme mentioned is focusing on what is within one's control. Stoicism teaches separating things into two categories: what is up to you and what is not up to you.

Allocating energy towards things within one's control rather than wasting it on external factors is compared to putting power where it can make a difference.

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This section explores the benefits of water and long walks in finding peace, inspiration, and calmness.

Water and Long Walks

The speaker expresses belief in the magical qualities of water and long walks for finding inner peace, inspiration, and calmness.

The evolutionary aspect of humans traveling long distances is mentioned, with reference to ancient footprints found in White Sands, New Mexico.

The rhythm and movement of water and the sound it produces are considered to have a calming effect on the mind.

Personal experiences of having creative ideas during activities like going to the gym or taking a shower are shared.

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This section discusses the importance of challenging oneself and doing something difficult every day.

Doing Something Difficult

The speaker suggests incorporating a daily ritual of doing something physically challenging as a way to grow and prepare for life's challenges.

Challenging oneself is seen as a central practice that builds resilience and skills necessary for navigating various situations.

Examples range from small actions like resisting unhealthy food choices to larger endeavors that push one's limits.

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Physical Activities for Mental and Physical Health

The speaker discusses the importance of engaging in physical activities for both mental and physical health. They emphasize that activities like biking, running, and taking spin classes are beneficial for physical well-being. However, they also highlight the significance of engaging in these activities for mental health purposes.

Importance of Physical Activities

Engaging in physical activities is essential for maintaining good physical health.

Activities like biking, running, and spin classes are recommended.

Walking is primarily beneficial for mental health rather than physical fitness.

Meaning of Life: Contributing to the Common Good

The concept of meaning in life comes from serving or contributing to the common good.

Marcus Realist emphasizes the importance of the common good in his meditations.

Our purpose is to help others and leave a positive contribution to society.

Legacy and Contribution

The focus should be on leaving a positive legacy rather than materialistic achievements.

Making a positive contribution to the collective is crucial.

It's not about wealth or records broken but about improving the lives of others.

Doing Something Hard: Stoic Philosophy

The third aspect from stoicism is doing something challenging.

Ancient Greeks trained in wrestling and Romans practiced wrestling as well as other combat sports.

Training aimed at developing a strong mind and body, avoiding laziness, and embracing challenges.

Struggle as an Innate Human Need

There may be something innate in human beings that drives us towards struggle.

Humans have overcome various challenges throughout history to create advancements.

We might have inherited this inclination towards struggle from our ancestors who crossed oceans, fought wars, braved elements, lived through poverty, etc.

Memento Mori: Remembering Mortality

The speaker discusses the practice of Memento Mori, which is a reminder of our mortality. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging death and living with an awareness of its inevitability. This practice helps prioritize actions and avoid wasting time.

Practice of Memento Mori

Memento Mori is a common practice across religious and philosophical traditions.

It involves remembering that life is short and being aware of our mortality.

Accepting and submitting to the fact of death brings urgency and perspective to life.

Procrastination and Prioritizing Health

Procrastination often stems from thinking we have unlimited time.

We tend to neglect prioritizing our health or doing things we know we should do.

Awareness of our mortality can help overcome procrastination and make better use of time.

Living in Ignorance or Rejection

Living in ignorance or rejection of our mortality leads to wasted lives.

We all have a terminal diagnosis since birth; we just don't know when it will happen.

Acknowledging this fact helps us live more intentionally in each moment.

[t=XXXXs] Struggling with Stoic Wisdom

The speaker reflects on their personal struggles with stoic wisdom. They discuss how they continually grapple with certain aspects, but the specific details are not provided in the given transcript.

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Understanding Stoicism and Emotions

In this section, the speaker discusses the misconception that stoicism is about suppressing emotions. They emphasize that it is not possible to completely suppress emotions and that acknowledging and processing them is important.

Stoicism and Emotion Suppression

Stoicism is often misunderstood as the suppression of emotion.

The speaker disagrees with this notion, stating that it is not possible to pretend emotions don't exist.

Suppressing emotions only defers their expression, often leading to negative consequences.

Understanding Emotions

The practice of stoicism involves understanding one's emotions and their causes.

It requires introspection and questioning why certain feelings arise.

Reflecting on the inclination to act based on emotions helps evaluate whether it is a wise decision.

Regretting Emotional Reactions

The speaker shares personal experiences of regretting emotional outbursts or impulsive actions.

Losing temper or forcing others out of frustration never leads to positive outcomes.

Taking time to assess situations can reveal more options than initially perceived.

Perspective on Life's Challenges

Stoicism encourages viewing life's challenges from a broader perspective.

Getting caught up in minor frustrations or stressors can lead to unnecessary tension.

Cultivating resilience and not being enslaved by fleeting emotions are key aspects of stoic practice.

Dealing with Frustrations and Annoyances

This section focuses on how stoicism teaches individuals to deal with frustrating situations. It emphasizes the importance of controlling one's reactions and finding peace amidst annoyances.

Managing Frustrations

Stoics acknowledge that people and things can be frustrating at times.

However, what matters most is how one chooses to respond to these frustrations.

Control Over Reactions

Stoicism teaches individuals to focus on what they can control, which includes their reactions.

By maintaining control over their responses, individuals can navigate challenging situations more effectively.

High Standards and Expectations

Frustrations often arise from having high standards and expectations.

The speaker highlights the importance of questioning why certain things need to be a certain way.

Being adaptable and adjusting to different circumstances is a sign of strength rather than fragility.

Preferred Indifference and Thriving in All Situations

This section explores the concept of preferred indifference in stoicism. It emphasizes the ability to thrive in any situation while still acknowledging personal preferences.

Dressing for the Weather

The speaker shares an anecdote about a friend who exemplifies stoic principles by dressing appropriately for different weather conditions.

Stoics aim to adapt and thrive regardless of external circumstances.

Importance of Detail vs. Obsession

Stoics understand the importance of paying attention to details but caution against becoming obsessed with routine or specific preferences.

Routines should not become rigid or fragile, hindering one's ability to adapt.

Preferred Indifference

Stoicism recognizes that some things are better to have than not have, termed as "preferred indifference."

While it is possible to thrive in any situation, acknowledging personal preferences is also valid.

Finding Peace in Acceptance

The path to peace lies in accepting things as they are rather than constantly desiring them to be a certain way.

Being content with what life presents leads to greater happiness and fulfillment.

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The Last Words of Wisdom

In this section, Ryan Holiday reflects on what he would say if he had the opportunity to share one last piece of wisdom from his readings of stoic philosophy and wisdom.

Insightful Last Words

Marcus Aurelius's last words in "Meditations" were about reflecting on one's life and the importance of making the most of the time we have.

Reflecting on Marcus Aurelius's example, Ryan suggests that a valuable insight to share would be to remind people that life is finite and to encourage them to make the most of their time.

The loss of loved ones serves as a reminder that none of us have forever, emphasizing the importance of using our time wisely.

Ryan believes in expressing unconditional love and pride for others, especially in a world where everything can feel conditional.

Living a Successful Life

Ryan Holiday shares his perspective on living a successful life and how he feels fortunate for having lived a fulfilling life so far.

Feeling Lucky and Content

Ryan considers himself lucky as he doesn't wake up feeling overwhelmed by all the things he has yet to accomplish.

He acknowledges that while there are still things he wants to do, he feels content with what he has achieved so far.

Having checked off many boxes in terms of personal growth, contributions, and fulfilling potential, Ryan wakes up with a sense of living in bonus time.

Early on in his life, Ryan felt pressure and demanded a lot from himself. Now, every extra minute or day feels like an added bonus.

Announcement - "The Diary of a CEO" Book

An announcement about Ryan Holiday's book called "The Diary of a CEO: The 33 Laws for Business and Life" is made.

"The Diary of a CEO" Book

Ryan Holiday announces the release of his book, which is based on everything he has learned from his podcast, meetings with incredible people, and his career in business.

The book offers 33 laws for business and life to help readers build something great or become great themselves.

Pre-ordering the book and sharing a picture of the pre-order on social media can enter individuals into a contest to win a Gold version of the book.

Huel Sponsorship

Ryan Holiday briefly mentions his relationship with Huel as a sponsor of the podcast.

Huel Sponsorship

Ryan explains that he became interested in Huel when he noticed someone wearing a Huel t-shirt due to its interesting design aesthetic.

He mentions being an investor in the company but does not provide further details.

[t=1:18:42s] The Importance of Nutrition and Convenience

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of having a nutritionally complete diet and the challenges of maintaining it due to a busy lifestyle. They express interest in finding a convenient and affordable way to ensure nutritional completeness while being conscious of the planet.

The Desire for Convenience and Nutrition

The speaker cares tremendously about having a nutritionally complete diet but sometimes struggles due to their busy life.

They are open to exploring a convenient, reliable, trustworthy, and affordable solution that can provide nutritional completeness.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of considering sustainability and being conscious of the planet when seeking such solutions.

[t=1:18:59s] Question for Reflection: What Would You Do All Day?

In this section, the speaker introduces a closing tradition on their podcast where each guest leaves a question for the next guest. The question left for the current speaker is "What would you do all day if you didn't have to work?"

Reflecting on Life Without Work

The question posed by the previous guest is about how one would spend their time if they didn't have to work.

The speaker shares that they had an interesting conversation with someone involved in artificial intelligence who believes that jobs will be replaced by AI in the future.

This idea raises questions about universal basic income, finding meaning in life without struggle, and where people will derive meaning from if not through work.

[t=1:19:16s] Personal Reflection on Future Possibilities

In this section, the speaker reflects on their own response to living without work and shares some context behind it.

Finding Meaning Without Work

The speaker admits that they wouldn't make many radical changes in their life even if they didn't have to work.

Their daily routine involves waking up early, spending time with their kids, writing about topics that interest them, and engaging in physical challenges.

They also mention spending time on their ranch and prioritize family time.

The speaker acknowledges the uncertainty of the future with artificial intelligence and ponders the role of humans in a world where AI may dominate.

[t=1:20:39s] Chat GPT and its Impact on Writers

In this section, the speaker discusses their thoughts on large language models like Chat GPT and how they might impact writers and knowledge creation.

The Role of Chat GPT in Writing

The speaker shares their experience using Chat GPT to generate content in their own style.

While it can produce some satisfactory results, they still had to edit and refine the output.

They highlight the importance of intentionality, refining, polishing, and human involvement in creating meaningful content.

The speaker draws parallels to previous concerns when Google Books was introduced but emphasizes the need for individuals to adapt and utilize new tools without being replaced by them.

[t=1:22:05s] Adapting to Change and Utilizing Tools

In this section, the speaker reflects on change throughout history and emphasizes the importance of adapting to new technologies rather than being replaced by them.

Embracing Change as a Tool

The speaker mentions how authors initially resisted digital libraries like Google Books but younger generations embraced them for their convenience.

They acknowledge that jobs have been replaced throughout history but believe it is essential for individuals to figure out how to use new technologies without being used by them.

The speaker expresses hope that people will find ways to navigate technological advancements while maintaining control over their work.

[t=1:23:25s] Appreciation for Impactful Work

In this section, the interviewer expresses gratitude towards the speaker for their impactful work and discusses the positive influence it has had on people's lives.

Acknowledging the Impact of the Speaker's Work

The interviewer commends the speaker for their ability to reach back into history and extract wisdom that resonates with people in their daily lives.

They express firsthand experience of how the speaker's books have stretched across the world, reaching and influencing many individuals.

The interviewer thanks the speaker for their selfless contribution to society through their work.

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Fueling the Body for Optimal Performance

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of fueling their body adequately to maintain energy levels throughout their busy schedule.

Zoe as a Key Part of Achieving Health Goals

The speaker mentions being a sponsor and investor in Zoe, a company that helps individuals make better food choices for long-term health.

By using Zoe's personalized approach, the speaker is able to understand which foods work best for them and keep their energy levels up.

Eating the right food is crucial for maintaining energy during business meetings and avoiding afternoon crashes.

Exclusive Discount Code for Zoe

The speaker shares an exclusive discount code, "ceo10," which provides 10% off on Zoe products.

Listeners are encouraged to visit zoe.com/Steven and use the code "ceo10" to avail of the discount.

Those who are already using Zoe are invited to send a direct message (DM) to share their experience with the speaker.

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