RetOmar: Te reto a ser feliz | Omar Chaparro | TEDxTijuana

RetOmar: Te reto a ser feliz | Omar Chaparro | TEDxTijuana

Introduction and Context

Welcoming Remarks

  • The speaker expresses excitement about being in Tijuana, emphasizing the privilege of speaking at a TED Talk.
  • Introduces himself as Omar Chaparro, sharing his background from Chihuahua and engaging with the audience.

Personal Background

  • Describes his diverse career: actor, comedian, radio host, and more.
  • Mentions his family life, including 17 years of marriage and three children.

Career Highlights

Recent Projects

  • Discusses recent film projects including "Detective Pikachu" with Ryan Reynolds and other international films.

The Reality of Success

  • Addresses misconceptions about luck in achieving success; emphasizes that good fortune is not simply handed out.

Key Life Lessons

Importance of Hard Work

  • Shares personal anecdotes from childhood to illustrate the value of hard work over perceived luck.

Lesson from Father

  • Recounts a lesson learned from his father about meeting expectations through diligence when washing a truck.

Overcoming Challenges

Preparing for Success

  • Uses an analogy related to marathon training to highlight the importance of preparation versus taking the easy route.

Comfort vs. Growth

  • Discusses how comfort can hinder growth; stresses that true achievement requires stepping out of one's comfort zone.

Nature of Human Behavior

Resistance to Effort

  • Explores human tendencies towards laziness and making excuses instead of pursuing goals actively.

Real-Life Examples

Journey to Success: Overcoming Challenges in Pursuit of Dreams

Leaving Home for Opportunity

  • The speaker recounts finishing their studies in 2000 and deciding to move to Mexico City, highlighting the difference in opportunities for fame compared to the past.
  • A humorous yet revealing interaction with their mother, who expresses concern about homosexuals rather than encouraging them, reflects societal attitudes and parental expectations.
  • The speaker left behind a stable job and various media projects, driven by a desire for growth and success despite doubts from others.

Initial Struggles in the Big City

  • Upon arriving in Mexico City, the overwhelming environment led the speaker to tears; they faced stark contrasts from their hometown.
  • They experienced financial hardship and emotional turmoil after six months without success, leading to feelings of depression as they struggled to find work.

Creative Solutions Amidst Despair

  • In desperation, the speaker disguised themselves as an elderly woman (Doña Chole), showcasing creativity and determination to gain entry into Telehit.
  • Despite initial rejection at Telehit, a chance encounter with a producer changed everything; this moment marked a turning point in their career.

Breaking Into Television

  • The opportunity at Telehit allowed the speaker's television career to begin; they reflect on how stepping out of their comfort zone was crucial for success.
  • The importance of visualization is emphasized; having set clear goals helped manifest their dreams into reality within six months.

Motivation and Determination

  • The speaker attributes their success not only to hard work but also to visualizing achievements ahead of time—an essential part of goal-setting.
  • They share personal anecdotes about promising their partner that they would return successful, illustrating how personal motivations can drive ambition.

Lessons from Boxing Champion Buster Douglas

  • Drawing parallels with boxer Buster Douglas's fight against Mike Tyson emphasizes that motivation can lead one through seemingly insurmountable challenges.

Mike Tyson vs. Buster Douglas: A Fight Against the Odds

The Fight Begins

  • Mike Tyson, despite being knocked down, remains standing and ready to fight as the ninth round begins against Buster Douglas.
  • The speaker reflects on personal struggles, emphasizing that everyone has faced challenges in life, akin to being "against the ropes" in a boxing match.

Overcoming Adversity

  • Buster Douglas exemplifies resilience by continuing to fight despite being cornered; he ultimately knocks out Mike Tyson, surprising everyone.
  • Douglas attributes his victory to a promise made to his mother, highlighting the importance of having a strong motivation or "why" behind one's actions.

The Power of Purpose

Video description

Talentoso actor mexicano conocido por sus dotes de comediante, su versatilidad y una encantadora personalidad, Omar es un magnate del mundo del entretenimiento en México y en el mercado hispano de los Estados Unidos. Sus diez millones de seguidores en redes sociales atestiguan su gran personalidad en pantalla. Entre sus roles para las pantallas internacionales están Stuck, dirigida por Michael Berry y ganadora de premios en festivales como Breckenridge y Napa Valley, y la cinta Show Dogs, dirigida por Raja Gosnell, donde compartió elenco con Will Arnett y Natasha Lyonne. Entre sus películas más recientes están Compadres, dirigida por Enrique Begne y protagonizada por Eric Roberts y Kevin Pollak; y No manches Frida, donde trabajó al lado de Martha Higareda. No manches Frida fue una de las cinco películas más taquilleras en México al momento de su estreno. El éxito de sus películas lo hace parte de la nueva ola de latinos que están cambiando el panorama de Hollywood actualmente. Omar recientemente participó en Detective Pikachu, donde compartió elenco con Ryan Reynolds y Justice Smith. En 2017, Omar agotó entradas en mas de 50 ciudades de Estados Unidos con su show Imparables, incluyendo el Dolby Theatre en Los Ángeles. Talentoso actor mexicano conocido por sus dotes de comediante, su versatilidad y una encantadora personalidad, Omar es un magnate del mundo del entretenimiento en México y en el mercado hispano de los Estados Unidos. Sus diez millones de seguidores en redes sociales atestiguan su gran personalidad en pantalla. Entre sus roles para las pantallas internacionales están Stuck, dirigida por Michael Berry y ganadora de premios en festivales como Breckenridge y Napa Valley, y la cinta Show Dogs, dirigida por Raja Gosnell, donde compartió elenco con Will Arnett y Natasha Lyonne. Entre sus películas más recientes están Compadres, dirigida por Enrique Begne y protagonizada por Eric Roberts y Kevin Pollak; y No manches Frida, donde trabajó al lado de Martha Higareda. No manches Frida fue una de las cinco películas más taquilleras en México al momento de su estreno. El éxito de sus películas lo hace parte de la nueva ola de latinos que están cambiando el panorama de Hollywood actualmente. Omar recientemente participó en Detective Pikachu, donde compartió elenco con Ryan Reynolds y Justice Smith. En 2017, Omar agotó entradas en mas de 50 ciudades de Estados Unidos con su show Imparables, incluyendo el Dolby Theatre en Los Ángeles. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx