PROCESSO PARA ENTENDER O CÔNJUGE Parte 5 LEQUE DA SABEDORIA CELESTIAL IVB Pr J Laerton 30 11 25

Understanding Wisdom in Parenting and Relationships

Acknowledgment of Support

• The speaker expresses gratitude towards Israel for his support in the church, highlighting the sacrifices made by him and his family to attend services regularly.

• The speaker notes that if their children are even half as supportive as Israel's, they will be great kids, emphasizing the importance of having children who contribute positively to ministry.

Principles of Parenting

• The discussion centers on understanding children, stressing that parents must first understand each other (husband and wife) before they can understand their children.

• Introduction of a study on wisdom from the Old Testament (Hebrew: roquma) and New Testament (Greek: notesia), indicating a rich concept of wisdom that cannot be captured by a single term.

Key Concepts of Wisdom

• Proverbs 1:7 is cited as a key verse linking fear of the Lord with the beginning of wisdom; this sets up a framework for understanding divine versus human wisdom.

• Upcoming discussions will compare human wisdom with divine wisdom using James 3:13-18, focusing on distinctions between knowledge, intelligence, and true understanding.

Distinctions Between Knowledge and Wisdom

• The speaker warns that possessing knowledge does not equate to being wise; knowledge can be misused for harmful purposes (e.g., creating weapons).

• Reference to "false intelligence" described by James as earthly, animalistic, or demonic; examples include historical events like Babel and Sodom which illustrate misuse of intelligence against God's purpose.

Characteristics of True Wisdom

• True wisdom is characterized as pure, peaceable, gentle, full of mercy and good fruits. In contrast, false wisdom leads to confusion.

• Plans to distribute study materials were postponed due to attendance issues; emphasis placed on continuing education about divine wisdom through structured studies.

Educational Initiatives in Church

• Discussion about producing educational materials for deeper discipleship within the church community; these resources aim to equip members for effective ministry.

• Encouragement for congregants to utilize these materials for personal growth and teaching opportunities within various church settings.

Prayer for Church Projects

• A prayer session led by Sister Lidiane focuses on gratitude for God's faithfulness while seeking blessings over church projects aimed at transforming lives through genuine gospel teachings.

Understanding Biblical Wisdom

The Nature of Divine Wisdom

• The speaker discusses the concept of wisdom from a biblical perspective, emphasizing that true wisdom is rooted in a relationship with God as described by James.

• The first aspect of biblical wisdom highlighted is "counsel," referencing Proverbs which states that one must receive instruction and correction to be wise for the future.

• There is criticism towards pastors who selectively preach parts of the Bible, failing to convey the entirety of God's counsel, which is deemed essential for spiritual growth.

Knowledge and Its Importance

• The second aspect discussed is "knowledge," derived from Hebrew meaning deep, experiential understanding. This knowledge comes from divine revelation about reality.

• The speaker argues that rejecting God's wisdom leads to folly, citing Psalm 53 where atheism is described as intellectual suicide due to its denial of an eternal creator.

Reality vs. Imagination

• Atheism is portrayed as a rejection of logical necessity; denying God equates to living in a distorted reality akin to claiming absurdities about nature.

• Modern society's abandonment of logic has led to fragmented knowledge influenced by cultural contexts rather than objective truth.

Experiential Knowledge

• True knowledge should be experiential and delightful; it enriches life and fosters deeper understanding rather than mere theoretical concepts.

• Proverbs 2:20 emphasizes that when wisdom enters one's heart, it transforms ignorance into pleasant knowledge.

Moral Decline and Perversion

• Historical references are made regarding societies in moral decline, suggesting that pervasive evil stems from corrupted imaginations leading to destructive behaviors.

• Current entertainment trends reflect this decline, with popular media often glorifying unrealistic superhero fantasies instead of grounding narratives in reality.

Biblical Worldview as Foundation

• For believers, true knowledge aligns with a biblical worldview based on God's revelation; this foundation supports righteous living and encourages moral integrity.

• Many individuals prefer fantasy over confronting reality; this escapism can lead to dissatisfaction even when real-life situations are favorable.

The Impact of Evolution Theory on Human Sciences

The Pervasive Influence of Evolution Theory

• Evolution theory is described as a "perverse imagination" that denies God, stemming from humanity's desire to avoid moral obligations.

• Charles Darwin's ideas are criticized for influencing various human sciences, including sociology and psychology, leading to distorted understandings of knowledge and wisdom.

Understanding Knowledge and Wisdom

• The speaker emphasizes the importance of true knowledge versus the flawed understanding associated with evolution theory. The Hebrew word for understanding (biná) is highlighted as crucial for discernment.

• Biblical wisdom involves the ability to discern right from wrong, good from evil, emphasizing the need for spiritual insight in decision-making.

Discernment Between Good and Evil

• There exists a fine line between good and evil; many things that appear correct may actually be wrong according to biblical standards. This highlights the necessity of discernment in life choices.

• Proverbs warns that paths which seem right can lead to death, underscoring the importance of seeking divine understanding rather than relying solely on human reasoning.

The Role of Intelligence in Wisdom

• True intelligence is defined as practical wisdom (sequel), which enables individuals to live piously and prudently according to God's commandments. This contrasts with foolishness that leads one into danger.

• The speaker notes that those who possess divine wisdom are regarded as truly intelligent among people, while secular experts often lack genuine insight into life's deeper issues.

Seeking Good Sense in Decision-Making

• The concept of "rasquel," or good sense, is introduced as essential for balanced judgment and moral discernment; it reflects a deeper understanding beyond mere surface-level observations.

• An illustration about effective communication suggests that presenting truth attractively (like honey) rather than harshly (like vinegar) can lead to better reception among others when sharing faith or insights.

A Discussion on Sensibility and Behavior

The Role of Good Sense in Relationships

• A narrative begins with a character reflecting on a past interaction, highlighting the absurdity of trying to deceive others without good sense.

• The speaker introduces the concept of "good sense," contrasting it with foolishness, using an anecdote about a brother who lacked wisdom.

• An example is given of an illiterate man who, despite his lack of formal education, possessed an innate understanding that allowed him to grasp spiritual truths.

Attitudes Towards Appearance and Modesty

• The discussion shifts to attitudes towards beauty and modesty, emphasizing that true beauty should not be aggressive or immodest.

• A personal experience is shared about encountering a woman whose provocative attire was deemed inappropriate for both church and home settings.

• Biblical references are made regarding women’s appearance, likening immodesty to jewelry on a pig's snout—beautiful but misplaced.

Consequences of Immodesty

• A story unfolds about a woman who entered the church provocatively dressed, causing discomfort among congregants; her situation reveals deeper issues she faced.

• It is revealed that this woman was struggling with suicidal thoughts due to personal crises but found hope through conversation and faith.

Insights on Sensibility in Women

• Criticism is directed at Christian women who fail to exhibit good sense in their dress choices; the importance of self-awareness is emphasized.

• A pastor's advice suggests that women should reflect on whether they draw attention for their beauty or sensuality when dressing.

Biblical Examples of Wisdom vs. Foolishness

• The biblical story of Nabal and Abigail illustrates the contrast between senselessness (Nabal) and wisdom (Abigail), showcasing how names reflect character traits in Hebrew culture.

• Nabal's actions lead to dire consequences as he disrespects David; his foolishness nearly results in disaster for himself and his household.

Final Reflections on Consequences of Insensibility

• Nabal’s demise serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of living without good sense; he ultimately suffers from divine judgment after disregarding wise counsel.

• The narrative concludes by reinforcing that insensate behavior leads to ruin while wise decisions can save lives, exemplified by Abigail’s intervention.

Insights on Communication and Wisdom in Relationships

The Importance of Consensus in Relationships

• The discussion begins with a contrast between the characters Nabal and Abigail, highlighting how lack of consensus can lead to destruction within relationships.

• Emphasizes the need for balance between truth and compassion, referencing Proverbs 24 which speaks about wisdom being given to the simple and young.

• Astuteness is often viewed negatively; however, it can represent wisdom and precaution when applied correctly in communication.

Effective Communication Strategies

• A humorous anecdote illustrates the importance of timing in communication, particularly during stressful situations.

• Discusses the concept of "tact," which involves knowing when to speak or remain silent. Silence is portrayed as valuable at appropriate times.

• Highlights that many conflicts arise from poor communication timing between couples and family members.

The Role of Silence and Listening

• Proverbs 17:28 suggests that silence can convey wisdom; even a fool appears wise when silent.

• Jesus' example before Herod demonstrates that strategic silence can be powerful in preserving one's image and authority.

• Encourages moderation in speech; those who control their words are deemed prudent according to Proverbs.

Discernment in Conversations

• Stresses the importance of listening before responding; impulsive speaking without understanding leads to shame.

• Defines discernment as an emotional skill essential for effective communication, emphasizing active listening as a key component.

Competence Through Wisdom

• Wisdom is linked to competence in personal relationships, suggesting that divine guidance leads to effective outcomes.

• Concludes with an analogy about agricultural practices illustrating that wisdom involves knowing the right time for actions like planting or harvesting.

Understanding Divine and Human Wisdom

The Call for Prudence and Wisdom

• Emphasis on the importance of being prudent individuals, both men and women, who seek divine wisdom.

• A cautionary note regarding human wisdom that does not consider God, highlighting its potential pitfalls.

• Anticipation of a future discussion focused on the practical applications of divine versus human wisdom.

• Encouragement to reflect on the nature of wisdom in daily life and decision-making processes.

• Concluding affirmation with "Amém," signaling a commitment to pursue deeper understanding in upcoming discussions.