"Sexual Wholeness" - Touré Roberts

Introduction to the Message

Overview of Upcoming Book

• Pastor Toure introduces his new book, Wholeness: Winning in Life from the Inside Out, set for release on February 6. Pre-orders are available at a discount.

• The book emphasizes that external expectations and hopes often stem from internal conditions.

Theme for 2018

• The pastor expresses excitement about entering 2018, referring to it as a year of "becoming." He feels led by God to discuss an unusual topic: sexual wholeness.

Understanding Sexual Wholeness

Importance of Perspective on Sex

• Pastor Toure stresses that having a correct understanding of sex is crucial; otherwise, it can control individuals negatively. He reflects on his own lack of guidance regarding sex during his formative years.

• He defines "perverted" sex as seeing it in the wrong way, emphasizing that many people misunderstand its true nature and purpose.

Spiritual vs Physical Aspects

• The pastor argues that most discussions around sex focus on physical pleasure (stimuli), but scripture does not emphasize this aspect; instead, it highlights the spiritual significance of sex.

• He references Genesis to illustrate that God's creation of man and woman signifies unity rather than mere physical interaction. This unity is described as becoming "one flesh."

The Purpose and Power of Sex

Unity Over Recreation

• Pastor Toure asserts that the primary purpose of sex is not recreation or stimulation but rather unity between partners in a covenant relationship with God. This creates a soul tie, which he describes as significant and powerful.

• He warns against casual or trivial sexual encounters because they can lead to unhealthy soul ties with unsuitable partners, complicating emotional and spiritual well-being.

Consequences of Soul Ties

• Engaging in casual relationships can create confusion and emotional turmoil when one realizes they are tied spiritually to someone who may not be good for them. This leads to feelings akin to being trapped despite knowing it's wrong.

Reclaiming Sexual Integrity

Personal Testimony

• Pastor Toure shares his personal journey with sexuality, recounting how early experiences shaped his understanding and struggles until he sought freedom through God at age 26. His desire for God eventually surpassed his desire for sexual encounters, leading him toward healing and clarity in life choices related to sexuality.

Call for Prayer and Healing

• In closing, he invites those struggling with their sexual integrity or seeking deeper connections with God to come forward for prayer, emphasizing the importance of breaking free from unhealthy patterns associated with sexuality so they can move forward into their destinies without hindrance from past behaviors or beliefs about sex.

Breaking Soul Ties and Understanding Sexuality

The Invitation to Healing

• The speaker invites individuals who feel spiritually hindered by past relationships to seek healing, emphasizing the spiritual evolution of sexuality.

• Acknowledges the struggle of letting go of toxic relationships despite knowing they are harmful, attributing this to soul ties that need breaking.

Recognizing Soul Ties

• Describes how individuals often feel trapped in unhealthy connections, leading to emotional pain and confusion about their destiny.

• Explains that opening oneself physically or emotionally can create strong spiritual ties, which may be more powerful than natural bonds.

Understanding the Purpose of Sex

• Clarifies that sex is not merely for pleasure or procreation but primarily about achieving oneness with a divinely ordained partner.

• Emphasizes that sexual connection extends beyond physical acts; mental engagement (like sexting or fantasizing) can also form soul ties.

Confession and Cleansing

• Encourages participants to confess their misunderstandings about sexuality and recognize violations of spiritual laws regarding sex.

• Invites attendees to renounce unhealthy connections and reclaim their sexuality through prayer, seeking divine cleansing and strength.

Breaking Chains Through Worship

• Participants are encouraged to actively break soul ties during worship by recalling past connections and declaring freedom from them.

• Engages the congregation in a "praise party," reinforcing the idea that worship can facilitate breaking free from spiritual bondage.

Affirmation of Freedom

• The speaker declares freedom over attendees, encouraging them to embrace a new season without shame or condemnation.

• Reiterates God's promise of empowerment over darkness, affirming that generational curses are broken through faith in Jesus Christ.

Closing Benediction

• Concludes with an invitation for personal prayer as attendees receive blessings and healing from God’s presence.

• Expresses gratitude for the experience shared during the service while encouraging continued growth in faith.