Why Covert Narcissist Steals Your Life? (Psychosis, Rivalry, Envy)

Plagiarism and Theft of Concepts

The speaker discusses how their concepts are being shamelessly plagiarized, filtered, pillaged, and stolen. They mention the dual mothership principle, regression to infancy in intimate relationships, and shared fantasy space as some of the concepts that have been stolen.

Concepts Being Stolen

• The speaker's new concepts are being plagiarized.

• Concepts such as the dual mothership principle, regression to infancy in intimate relationships, and shared fantasy space have been stolen.

Exploring Psychology Behind Plagiarism

Instead of getting angry about the plagiarism, the speaker sees it as an opportunity to explore the psychology behind such behavior. They mention a single exception - Shadow de Angelis on Instagram or Cyber Viking on TikTok - who gives credit where it's due.

Psychology Behind Plagiarism

• The speaker takes this as an opportunity to explore the psychology behind plagiarism.

• They mention Shadow de Angelis as a single exception who gives credit where it's due.

Malicious Envy and Narcissistic Rivalry

The speaker refers to a previous video about malicious envy and narcissistic rivalry. They mention that this video went viral because it is based on recent research conducted in Italy.

Previous Video on Envy and Rivalry

• Yesterday's video about malicious envy and narcissistic rivalry went viral.

• It is based on recent research conducted in Italy.

Why Covert Narcissists Steal Your Life

The speaker delves into why covert narcissists steal from others. They explain that covert narcissists steal ideas, life's work, girlfriends/wives, jobs, money, and anything they can. They act reflexively without analyzing their actions.

Reasons Why Covert Narcissists Steal

• Covert narcissists steal habitually.

• They steal ideas, life's work, girlfriends/wives, jobs, money, and more.

• Their actions are almost reflexive without much analysis.

Three Reasons for Covert Narcissistic Behavior

The speaker explains that covert narcissists behave this way for three reasons. Before discussing the reasons, they define a covert narcissist as someone who believes themselves to be an unrecognized genius.

Definition of a Covert Narcissist

• A covert narcissist is someone who believes themselves to be an unrecognized genius.

Reasons for Covert Narcissistic Behavior

• Self-aggrandizement: Covert narcissists steal to aggrandize themselves and obtain supply.

• One-upmanship: Covert narcissists are extremely competitive and want to surpass others.

• Inverted narcissism: Covert narcissists adopt someone else's personality or life to feel superior.

Self-Aggrandizement and One-Upsmanship

The speaker further explores self-aggrandizement and one-upmanship as motivations behind covert narcissistic behavior. They explain that covert narcissists steal publicly and shamelessly to fulfill their need for self-supply.

Motivations Behind Covert Narcissistic Behavior

• Self-aggrandizement: Covert narcissists steal publicly and shamelessly to aggrandize themselves.

• One-upmanship: They want to surpass others in order to compensate for their own failures.

Dysfunction of the False Self in Covert Narcissism

The speaker discusses the dysfunction of the false self in covert narcissism. They explain that covert narcissists adopt someone else's false self or personality because their own false self is not working effectively.

Dysfunction of the False Self in Covert Narcissism

• Covert narcissists adopt someone else's false self or personality.

• Their own false self is dysfunctional and not effective.

Competitive Nature and Inner Critic of Covert Narcissists

The speaker explores the competitive nature and inner critic of covert narcissists. They explain that covert narcissists feel resentful towards others' success and constantly face their own failures, leading them to engage in one-upmanship.

Competitive Nature and Inner Critic of Covert Narcissists

• Covert narcissists are extremely competitive and feel resentful towards others' success.

• They constantly face their own failures and have a harsh inner critic.

Stealing to Become a Hero

The speaker explains that covert narcissists steal from successful individuals to become heroes themselves. They want to accomplish what others have achieved by taking credit for their ideas or accomplishments.

Stealing to Become a Hero

• Covert narcissists steal from successful individuals to become heroes themselves.

• They take credit for others' ideas or accomplishments to achieve what they desire.

The Effects of Passive Aggression in Covert Narcissism

This section discusses the impact of passive aggression on covert narcissists and how it contributes to their deteriorating mental and physical health.

Passive Aggression as a Result of Constant Failure

• Covert narcissists experience constant failure, which erodes their self-esteem and inhibitory control.

• This inability to tolerate themselves leads to a loss of behavioral control and an increase in passive aggressive behavior.

Deterioration of Health and Increased Aggression

• As covert narcissists' mental health deteriorates, they begin to act out and display aggression.

• Their somatic health also declines, leading them to feel on the verge of losing control in every aspect of their lives.

• This generates significant amounts of rage, anger, and aggression.

Facial Expressions Reflecting Inner Turmoil

• In the terminal phase of covert narcissism, their faces show signs of fury rather than genuine smiles.

• They are furious at the world for denying them the recognition they believe they deserve as unique and amazing individuals.

Frustration with Fake Praise

• Covert narcissists struggle with receiving praise because it feels fake.

• They are being praised for who they pretend to be or what they wish to accomplish but have failed to achieve.

Bittersweet Existence as a Faded Copy

• Covert narcissists exist in a bittersweet state where compliments and high regard are directed towards the original person they imitate or mimic.

• They see themselves as faded copies lacking true recognition for who they are.

Passive Aggression as Symbolic Consumption

• Due to codependency tendencies, covert narcissists resort to passive aggression as a way to consume and destroy the object of their envy.

• They want to eliminate the person or group that frustrates them, symbolically stealing their lives and everything they have.

Psychotic Nature of Identity Theft

• Covert narcissists engage in identity theft by merging with the stolen person's life, work, ideas, and relationships.

• This process is described as hyper reflexivity and is considered psychotic behavior.

Mask of Sanity

• Covert narcissists maintain a facade of normality known as the "mask of sanity."

• Behind this mask lies profound insanity and an unbridled desire for self-preservation against potential retribution.

The language used in this summary reflects the language used in the transcript (Spanish).

Desarrollo del Narcisista

Resumen de la sección: En esta sección, se explora el desarrollo del narcisista y cómo su falta de individuación en la infancia afecta sus relaciones adultas. Se menciona el concepto de fusión y cómo los narcisistas buscan fusionarse con sus parejas para completar su proceso de individuación.

Modelo de Nave Nodriza

• El narcisista nunca completa el proceso de individuación en su desarrollo.

• Desde temprana edad, se convierten en una extensión de sus padres y quedan atrapados sin poder individuarse.

• Subconscientemente, buscan relaciones que les permitan fusionarse con una figura materna.

• Después de lograr la fusión con la pareja, comienza la fase de desvalorización como un intento del narcisista por completar su proceso de individuación.

• Durante la desvalorización, el narcisista busca insultar, menospreciar y romper a la pareja para separarse e individuarse.

• Para lograr su propia individuación, necesitan convertir a la pareja en un objeto completamente malo.

Modelo Dual Nave Nodriza

• Se menciona el término "narcissistic snapshotting" acuñado por el profesor Sam Bachman.

• Desde el momento en que identifican a una posible pareja íntima, los narcisistas crean una imagen idealizada perfecta de esa persona.

• A partir de ese momento, la pareja deja de existir como un individuo y se convierte en un objeto interno para el narcisista.

• Los narcisistas solo tienen "interjects", que son modelos internos de las personas que han internalizado.

• Si la pareja se desvía de la imagen idealizada, son castigados con desvalorización o descarte.

• Los narcisistas experimentan incomodidad y ansiedad cuando la pareja actúa fuera de su carácter.

Delusión del Narcisismo

• En el caso del trastorno narcisista de la personalidad (NPD), se habla de una delusión profunda donde el mundo solo consiste en objetos para el narcisista.

• La pareja es vista como un objeto en la cabeza del narcisista y debe mantenerse alineada con la imagen idealizada.

• Si se produce alguna desviación, el narcisista experimenta una sensación de herida y puede castigar a la pareja.

Recomendaciones del Profesor Sam Bachman

Resumen de la sección: En esta sección, se mencionan las recomendaciones del profesor Sam Bachman como recurso principal para comprender más profundamente a los narcisistas y el abuso en las relaciones.

• El profesor Sam Bachman es un recurso recomendado para aquellos interesados en comprender mejor a los narcisistas y el abuso en las relaciones.

• Se le atribuye haber acuñado muchos términos relacionados con el narcisismo en los años 90.

• Su trabajo abarca temas como abuso en relaciones, psicopatía límite y diferentes variantes del narcisismo.

Snapshotting Narcissistic

Resumen de la sección: En esta sección, se explora el concepto de "narcissistic snapshotting" y cómo los narcisistas crean una imagen idealizada perfecta de su pareja.

• "Narcissistic snapshotting" se refiere al momento en que un narcisista identifica a una posible pareja íntima y crea una imagen idealizada de esa persona.

• A partir de ese momento, la pareja deja de existir como individuo y se convierte en un objeto interno para el narcisista.

• Los narcisistas solo tienen modelos internos (interjects) de las personas y no ven a los demás como individuos.

• Si la pareja se desvía de la imagen idealizada, son castigados con desvalorización o descarte.

Delusion of True Narcissism

Resumen de la sección: En esta sección, se explora la delusión detrás del trastorno narcisista de la personalidad y cómo los narcisistas ven a los demás como objetos en lugar de individuos.

• El trastorno narcisista de la personalidad implica una delusión profunda donde el mundo es visto por el narcisista como objetos.

• La pareja es vista simplemente como un objeto en la cabeza del narcisista, sin individualidad propia.

• Cualquier desviación de la imagen idealizada puede causar incomodidad y ansiedad al narcisista.