Public Lecture | Leading With Compassion

Welcome to the Event

Introduction of the Speaker

• The event is held at Auditorium Gedungki Universitas Kristen Petra, Surabaya, featuring Ibu Shelly Coanda, an Economics graduate and Governor of Maluku Utara.

• Attendees are instructed to take their seats; VIP guests are seated in the first two rows.

• Students are advised to sit on the floor if seating is full and reminded about restroom access before the event starts.

• A pass card system for restroom access is introduced; attendees must carry it for re-entry into the auditorium.

• QR registration links will be displayed for attendees to check in and out; a note on Ibu Shelly's resilience despite challenges is shared.

Event Hosts Introduced

Host Introductions

• Gabriel Melki Orhartono introduces himself as one of the hosts alongside Livina Renata and other MCs.

• Livina emphasizes that they will guide through today's lecture titled "Leading with Compassion."

• Attendees are reminded again about filling out QR forms for questions, with incentives offered for selected inquiries.

• The audience's enthusiasm is noted, indicating high anticipation for Ibu Shelly’s arrival.

• Key university figures present include board members and deans, highlighting institutional support.

Understanding Servant Leadership

Concept of Servant Leadership

• The hosts discuss Ibu Shelly as a model of servant leadership—leading with compassion rather than authority alone.

• Audience engagement is encouraged by asking how many attendees follow Ibu Shelly on social media platforms.

• Attendees are prompted to take notes on leadership lessons from Ibu Shelly’s experiences during her talk.

• Questions can be prepared in advance by students who wish to engage directly with Ibu Shelly later in the session.

• Discussion around how servant leadership principles align with values taught at Universitas Kristen Petra.

Role of Moderators

Moderator Introduction

• Acknowledgment of a distinguished moderator from Universitas Kristen Petra who exemplifies servant leadership qualities.

• Audience participation is encouraged as they guess who the moderator might be based on promotional materials shared earlier.

• Excitement builds as it’s revealed that Ibu Sherly Cuanda has traveled from Maluku Utara specifically for this event.

• Hosts express admiration for Ibu Sherly's approachable nature and commitment to community service as a leader.

• Emphasis placed on understanding what it takes to lead effectively within challenging environments like provincial governance.

Preparing Questions

Engaging with the Speaker

• Recognition that leading a province requires wisdom and dedication, setting expectations for insights from Ibu Sherly.

• Encouragement directed towards students who aspire to future leadership roles within their communities or fields.

• Students motivated to ask questions related to becoming effective servant leaders during this unique opportunity.

• Reminder that thoughtful questions could yield valuable responses from Ibu Sherli Cuanda, enhancing learning outcomes.

• Final call made by hosts urging all participants to fill out question forms provided throughout the auditorium.

Welcoming Remarks and Introduction

Opening the Event

• The event begins with excitement as attendees express their anticipation for insights from Ibu Sherly Coanda, highlighting the unique opportunity to engage directly with her.

• The MC encourages everyone to prepare for Ibu Sherly's arrival, emphasizing the importance of this moment.

• Attendees are instructed to stand and applaud warmly when Ibu Sherly enters, creating an engaging atmosphere.

Anticipation Builds

• The MC checks in with the audience on the second floor to ensure they can hear well, indicating a large turnout.

• Discussion about various interesting locations within Universitas Kristen Petra where Ibu Sherly might have visited before arriving at the auditorium.

Engaging Audience Participation

Interactive Elements

• The MC shares information about a garden on the eighth floor that could be a pleasant spot for conversations during sunset.

• Mention of the third-floor cafeteria as a place where students can gather and share experiences, reflecting on how Ibu Sherly likely spent time there during her studies.

Building Community

• Encouragement for attendees to connect and exchange insights with one another, fostering a collaborative environment among students.

Trivia About Ibu Sherly Coanda

Fun Facts

• The audience is quizzed about which building Ibu Sherly studied in during her time at university, promoting engagement through trivia.

• Another question posed regarding her major, specifically targeting students from International Business Management (IBM).

Official Welcome of Ibu Sherly Coanda

Grand Entrance

• A formal invitation is extended for everyone to rise and welcome Ibu Sherly Coanda, highlighting her credentials as an esteemed guest and Governor of Maluku Utara.

Applause and Enthusiasm

• The audience is encouraged to give a warm round of applause upon her entrance into the auditorium.

Setting Expectations for the Event

Atmosphere of Anticipation

• Observations made about audience enthusiasm as they eagerly await interaction with Ibu Shirley Coanda.

Program Outline

• Announcement that after welcoming remarks, there will be prayers followed by singing Indonesia Raya and Petra Hymn before starting the main talk show segment.

Opening Prayer

Spiritual Reflection

• Bapak Ezra Iskandar leads an opening prayer expressing gratitude for gathering together in this significant event.

Leadership Themes

• Emphasis on leadership being more than just positions; it involves serving others compassionately and listening to those who are marginalized.

National Anthem Performance

Cultural Significance

• Attendees are invited to stand again for singing Indonesia Raya led by Bapak Aris Sudibyo, reinforcing national pride.

Introduction of Moderator

Transitioning Roles

• Dr. Riki is introduced as the moderator for today's discussion on compassionate leadership in the digital era.

Overview of Discussion Topic

Focus on Compassionate Leadership

• Dr. Riki highlights that today’s topic will revolve around "compassionate leadership," particularly relevant in today's digital landscape.

Reflections on Returning to Uka Petra

Impressions of Change

• Mr. Ricky expresses gratitude and notes significant changes in the campus since his graduation in 2004, highlighting that it is now larger, cooler, and more modern.

• He observes an increase in student population and compliments Mr. Ricky's unchanged handsome appearance over the years.

Introduction to Presentation

• After a brief reunion with college friends Ana and May, he transitions into the presentation segment, which is set for about 20 minutes.

Understanding Compassionate Leadership in the Digital Era

Defining Compassionate Leadership

• The speaker introduces the topic of compassionate leadership within the context of today's digital landscape, inviting stories related to this theme.

Engaging with Students

• She thanks various individuals for their invitation to speak at Petra University and greets students present in the room.

Student Experiences and Future Concerns

Relating to Student Life

• The speaker connects with students by recalling her own experiences as a student and asks about their academic standings (freshman through senior).

Navigating Future Uncertainties

• She discusses common anxieties among students regarding post-graduation plans—whether pursuing further education or enjoying life without immediate pressure.

Addressing Anxiety in Today's World

Rise of Anxiety Among Students

• The speaker notes that anxiety levels may be higher today due to rapid advancements in AI technology and its implications for future job markets.

Acknowledging Worries

• She prompts students about their feelings of worry regarding their futures, affirming that such feelings are universal across different life stages.

Embracing Faith Over Worry

Trusting Divine Plans

• The speaker emphasizes focusing energy on personal development rather than worry, suggesting faith in divine plans can alleviate anxiety.

Shifting Mindsets Towards Upskilling

Importance of Mindset

• She encourages attendees to reassess their mindsets as a means to combat anxiety while emphasizing upskilling and networking over worrying.

Distinguishing Yourself Amidst Competition

Value Proposition

• The speaker raises questions about individual value when competing against peers with similar qualifications, stressing the need for unique attributes beyond academic credentials.

AI as a Tool Rather Than a Replacement

Human-AI Collaboration

• She argues that AI will not replace humans but highlights that those who effectively utilize AI will have an advantage over those who do not understand its application.

Identifying Personal Value

Creating Unique Value

• Discussion centers around how individuals can create value that distinguishes them from others when competing against AI capabilities.

Job Market Readiness

Focusing on Value Creation

• Instead of fixating solely on potential job roles, she advises students to consider what value they can offer employers based on problem-solving abilities.

Learning Through Experience

Steps for Adding Value

• The speaker shares her personal journey emphasizing four key steps: learn, adapt, solve problems, and give value as essential components for success.

Problem Identification Skills

Developing Critical Thinking

• She stresses the importance of identifying unseen problems and asking pertinent questions as vital skills needed in both work environments and life situations.

Utilizing AI Effectively

Leveraging Technology

• Instead of fearing competition from AI tools, she advocates using them strategically to enhance productivity while mastering effective prompting techniques.

Invisible Score Concept

Measuring Personal Contribution

• Introduces an "invisible score" concept where proactive contributions without being asked add value within team dynamics or workplace settings.

Building Trust Through Value Creation

Establishing Relationships

• Concludes by sharing her experience as governor; trust is built through consistent problem-solving efforts which ultimately contribute positively within any ecosystem.

The Importance of Value in Life

Key Components of Value

• The speaker divides value into three categories: capability capital, trust capital, and relationship capital, which can be simplified to competence, integrity, and networking.

• Emphasizes the unpredictability of future connections; anyone in the room could become a significant figure like a governor or CEO.

• Integrity is built from small actions; even minor dishonesty can have long-term consequences on one's reputation.

Building Integrity

• Consistent participation and punctuality in group work are essential; being unreliable can hinder future opportunities.

• Integrity must be maintained consistently, both when visible and invisible, as it may be crucial later in life.

Networking as a Success Factor

Relationship Capital

• Networking is vital for success in Indonesia; it opens doors to opportunities that skills alone may not provide.

• A good track record combined with integrity allows individuals to access opportunities created by their competencies.

Consequences of Poor Integrity

• Having skills without integrity can lead to missed opportunities despite initial access due to capabilities.

• Maintaining integrity alongside networking is crucial for long-term success; poor past behavior can tarnish one’s reputation.

The Role of AI and Compassion

Leveraging Technology

• AI cannot replace human qualities like integrity and networking but can enhance productivity when used wisely.

Understanding Compassion

• Compassion goes beyond empathy; it involves taking action to improve others' lives rather than just feeling sorry for them.

• Empathy is feeling for someone while compassion involves executing solutions that lead to better living conditions.

Leadership Through Compassion

Practical Applications

• Effective leadership requires using technology (like AI), not just for efficiency but also for creating positive societal impacts.

Long-Term Vision

• Continuous learning and problem-solving should be part of daily routines across various environments such as classrooms or workplaces.

Embracing Uncertainty

Future Considerations

• Acknowledges uncertainty about personal futures but emphasizes maintaining a correct mindset focused on learning and helping others without seeking recognition.

True Networking Defined

• Real networking means being remembered positively by others when opportunities arise, rather than merely accumulating contacts.

Building Your Reputation

Personal Branding

• One's true CV consists of what people say about you when you're not present; this reflects your ability to solve problems and collaborate effectively.

Final Thoughts

• Encourages continuous skill development, maintaining integrity, leveraging AI wisely, and contributing positively to society as essential components for future success.

Discussion on Development Priorities in Maluku Utara

Short-term Dependence on Mining vs. Agriculture

• The speaker highlights a short-term reliance on mining, specifically nickel and tin, contrasting it with the belief that agriculture is the future as stated by Bu Gup.

Digitalization and Local Development

• There is a discussion about digitalization starting from rural areas, questioning the simplicity of the current blueprint being developed by local government.

Complexity of Issues

• The speaker emphasizes that while books may simplify problems, understanding the actual complexities requires deeper engagement with those affected.

Listening to Local Needs

• It’s crucial to listen to those facing issues; many farmers (60%) and fishermen (20%) struggle due to inadequate infrastructure preventing market access.

Infrastructure Investment for Economic Growth

• Investment in roads and bridges is necessary for improving internet access and electricity, which are vital for economic growth through downstream processing.

Simplifying Problems for Effective Solutions

Identifying Simple Solutions

• The speaker argues that all problems can be simplified; effective solutions often stem from directly asking communities what they need.

Focus Areas Based on Community Demographics

• With 60% of residents being farmers and fishermen, priorities should shift towards supporting agriculture and fisheries rather than solely focusing on industrialization.

Long-term Sustainability in Resource Management

Future Resource Considerations

• Acknowledgment that natural resources will deplete within 20–30 years necessitates a focus on sustainable food sources like agriculture and fisheries.

Economic Empowerment Through Technology

• Emphasizes leveraging economic opportunities through technology to ensure prosperity for farmers and fishermen in Maluku Utara.

Education Challenges in Maluku Utara

Quality vs. Accessibility in Education

• While education has become free, there are concerns regarding quality; simply making education accessible does not resolve underlying issues.

Current Educational Standards

• The province's high school performance score is low at 48 out of 100 compared to the national average of 84, indicating significant room for improvement.

Goals for Educational Improvement

Targeting Higher Standards

• The aim is to raise educational scores to 80 before completion of current initiatives, highlighting ongoing efforts toward improvement.

Collaboration Opportunities with UK Petra

Seeking Support from Academic Institutions

• Discussion about how UK Petra can assist local governance in addressing educational challenges through direct engagement with community needs.

Teacher Quality as a Key Issue

Importance of Educator Training

• Despite adequate school infrastructure, enhancing teacher quality remains critical for improving student learning outcomes.

Engaging Students Through Questions

Encouragement of Student Participation

• Students are invited to submit questions during discussions, fostering an interactive environment where their inquiries can shape dialogue.

Perspectives on MBG Program Implementation

Evaluation of MBG Concept

• The MBG program conceptually holds promise but faces practical challenges due to dependency on external food supplies affecting local productivity.

Managing Negative Feedback as a Leader

Coping Strategies for Criticism

• Bu Sherly discusses her approach to negative comments online—using constructive criticism as self-reflection while ignoring unfounded negativity.

Media Engagements Impacting Public Awareness

Increased Visibility Through Media Presence

• Bu Sherly notes her media presence has raised awareness about Maluku Utara significantly compared to prior recognition levels before her governorship.

Understanding Maluku and Public Perception

Misconceptions about Maluku

• Many people confuse Maluku with North Maluku, leading to a lack of awareness about the latter. Increased recognition has led to more programs and CSR initiatives in the region.

Social Media Challenges

• The rise of social media has brought negative comments and attacks from detractors, but the speaker chooses not to take these personally unless they are based on false information.

Leadership Decisions and Empathy

Balancing Compassion and Decision-Making

• The speaker discusses the importance of compassion in leadership while making tough decisions that may not please everyone. Data-driven decision-making is emphasized.

Prioritizing Impactful Choices

• When faced with choices, the speaker prioritizes decisions that benefit the majority rather than individuals or small groups.

Navigating Governance Challenges

Rapid Decision-Making in Governance

• As a governor, quick decision-making is crucial due to numerous responsibilities. Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) guide these decisions based on data analysis.

Addressing Performance Issues

• Concerns arise regarding individuals who perform well yet face removal from positions, prompting discussions on how youth can respond to such situations.

Perspectives on Leadership and Complexity

Different Viewpoints on Situations

• The analogy of viewing traffic congestion from different building floors illustrates how perspectives vary based on one's position and knowledge.

Embracing Complexity in Leadership

• Acknowledging that issues are complex encourages leaders to focus on optimizing their talents and resources rather than being deterred by challenges faced by others.

Business vs. Government Decision-Making

Distinctions Between Sectors

• In business, efficiency leads to profit maximization; however, government focuses on effective budget spending for community benefit rather than profit generation.

Budget Utilization Strategies

• Quick absorption of budgets is essential in government as it stimulates economic growth, contrasting with private sector objectives focused solely on profit margins.

Social Impact vs. Profitability in Governance

Choosing Between Profit and Social Good

• The speaker reflects on prioritizing social impact over financial gain when making governmental decisions, emphasizing community benefits derived from limited resources.

Overcoming Minority Challenges in Leadership

Unique Positioning as a Leader

• The speaker's identity as an ethnic Chinese woman leading a predominantly Muslim region presents unique challenges but also opportunities for courageous decision-making.

Historical Context of Minority Participation

• Historical barriers have limited minority participation in governance; thus, breaking through these barriers represents significant progress for representation within leadership roles.

Insights on Leadership and Identity in Indonesia

Embracing Tradition and Future Aspirations

• The speaker reflects on the enduring traditions in Indonesia despite its openness, emphasizing the importance of guidance from experienced individuals like Ibu Sherly for students.

• There is a call to action for future leaders to engage in governance, inspired by role models such as Bu Seri, who exemplifies leadership.

• The hope is expressed that more alumni from Petra will rise to significant positions in government over the next 10-15 years.

Overcoming Minority Challenges

• A personal anecdote illustrates a shift in perspective about being a minority; the speaker identifies as "Merah Putih" (Red and White), symbolizing national pride rather than focusing on minority status.

• The speaker discusses gender challenges, asserting that success does not require adopting male leadership styles but rather embracing complementary roles between genders.

Mindset and National Pride

• The importance of mindset is highlighted; true pride in Indonesia goes beyond words and requires actionable contributions towards improvement.

• Each individual should consider how they can contribute positively to Indonesia's future, regardless of their political aspirations.

Personal Values and Leadership Philosophy

• The speaker does not cite specific human leaders as inspirations but instead relies on biblical values taught by God as guiding principles.

• Following personal loss, there’s an emphasis on finding meaning in life through service and integrity while navigating bureaucratic challenges with love.

Compassionate Leadership Perspective

• A question arises regarding the practicality of leading with compassion amidst competitive environments like business; the response emphasizes that life is not solely about personal gain or success.

• Life's purpose extends beyond material wealth or fame; it involves serving others and creating value which fosters trust and networks leading to opportunities.

Resilience Through Adversity

• In moments of despair following her husband's death, the speaker learned that life is transient, prompting a focus on meaningful living rather than dwelling on loss.

• Recognizing shared struggles among women facing similar losses highlights a collective experience that transcends individual circumstances.

Growth Mindset for Success

• Difficulties are framed as opportunities for growth; adopting a proactive mindset helps overcome challenges without succumbing to victimhood.

• Every challenge faced contributes to personal development, enhancing resilience and wisdom for future endeavors.

Overcoming Presentation Anxiety

Personal Experience with Anxiety

• The speaker shares their experience of feeling intense anxiety while speaking on stage, describing physical symptoms like shaking and shortness of breath.

• They recount a challenging debate where they competed against experienced individuals despite feeling unprepared, highlighting the pressure of public speaking.

Growth Through Challenges

• The speaker references Ibu Shelly's quote about government work being a way to honor a deceased loved one, emphasizing personal motivation in public service.

Addressing National Challenges

Identifying Threats to Progress

• A question is posed regarding the greatest threat to Indonesia's progress towards its goals, prompting reflection on societal issues.

Social Media Impact

• The speaker discusses how misinformation spreads rapidly on social media, leading to negative judgments without verifying facts.

• They stress the importance of critical thinking before commenting negatively online, as it can have serious consequences for individuals affected by such comments.

Promoting Positive Online Behavior

Encouraging Fact-checking

• Emphasizing the need for fact-checking before sharing opinions or spreading negativity online to prevent harm to others.

Engaging with Audience Questions

Interactive Session Begins

• The speaker invites audience members to ask questions, encouraging concise inquiries from participants.

AI and Human Capability

Balancing Technology and Skills

• An audience member asks about the impact of AI on job replacement and whether humans should focus more on enhancing capabilities or building trust and relationships.

Importance of Skill Development

• The speaker explains that AI should be viewed as a tool that enhances human capacity rather than replacing it.

Networking vs. Competence

Building Reputation through Relationships

• They discuss how reputation and integrity are crucial for career advancement alongside skill development in leveraging opportunities created by AI.

Education and Vocational Training Needs

Addressing Local Educational Gaps

• Discussion shifts towards educational needs in Maluku Utara, focusing on vocational training over traditional degrees due to local job market demands.

Practical Skills Over Degrees

• The speaker highlights that many jobs require practical skills rather than academic qualifications, advocating for vocational education paths like SMK (Sekolah Menengah Kejuruan).

Teacher Qualifications in Early Education

Need for Qualified Educators

• There’s an emphasis on improving teacher qualifications in early childhood education (PAUD), noting that many teachers currently only hold high school diplomas.

Meritocracy in Government Positions

Ensuring Competence in Hiring Practices

• A question arises about networking leading to incompetence within government roles; the speaker asserts that merit-based evaluations are used for promotions based on competency scores.

The Importance of Credibility and Value

Building Trust in Relationships

• Emphasizes the necessity of being credible and having value when promoting others, indicating that one cannot endorse someone who lacks competence.

• Highlights that it's not about being smarter but about providing value to others, which encourages them to support or promote you positively.

Indicators of Genuine Development

• Questions the indicators for authentic community development beyond superficial success on paper.

• States that a straightforward indicator of success is increased financial stability among individuals in the community.

Financial Independence as a Measure

• Suggests that true progress can be seen when people can afford their own homes and vehicles, reflecting financial independence.

• Discusses the importance of maintaining character integrity alongside financial independence, warning against moral bankruptcy despite economic success.

Challenges within Bureaucratic Systems

Navigating Bureaucracy Effectively

• Expresses concern over losing authenticity due to bureaucratic systems that may hinder genuine engagement with communities.

• Discusses balancing administrative reporting requirements with effective fieldwork and maintaining authenticity in interactions with citizens.

Adapting to Administrative Demands

• Acknowledges the complexities introduced by laws and administrative checks while emphasizing acceptance of these realities.

• Conveys a sense of inevitability regarding bureaucratic processes, suggesting there’s no escape from these obligations.

Managing Personal Well-being as a Leader

Addressing Burnout

• Introduces a question about how leaders protect their mental energy amidst overwhelming responsibilities and challenges.

• Recognizes the unique pressures faced by female leaders, particularly single parents managing multiple roles.

Strategies for Enjoyment and Balance

• Shares personal strategies for enjoying work as a governor, transforming initial burdens into fulfilling responsibilities.

• Mentions learning to accept her role as part of life, leading to greater enjoyment and reduced burnout risk.

Maintaining Social Connections

Importance of Social Interactions

• Describes regular social engagements every two weeks with friends and family as essential for maintaining balance in life.

Event Conclusion and Recognition

Closing Remarks

• Notes an anticipated visit from Guf Sherly at an event which ultimately could not happen due to official duties.

Acknowledging Contributions

• Thanks Ibu Shirley Chwanda for her insights shared during the session, highlighting her contributions along with Dr. Ricky's moderation efforts.

Final Reflections and Prayer

Collective Gratitude

• Invites attendees to express gratitude through prayer led by Dr. Lim Peifun before concluding the event.

Vision for Future Leaders

• Encourages students present to find their purpose in life while contributing positively towards society's betterment.

Prayer for Leadership and Community

Importance of Divine Guidance

• A prayer is offered for health, strength, and safety for leaders, emphasizing the need for divine support in their leadership journey.

• The prayer requests that God guides every step of the leader, protecting them from dangers and providing peace amidst challenges.

Call to Action for the Community

• The speaker urges the community to not only pray for the nation but also to embody Christian values by being "salt and light" in society.

• Emphasis is placed on living with integrity, respecting laws, fostering unity, defending the weak, and demonstrating Christ's love through actions.

Commitment to Personal Renewal

Individual Responsibility

• Acknowledgment that national change relies not just on leaders but also on individual citizens fulfilling their responsibilities.

• The speaker calls for personal renewal starting from one's own heart and encourages perseverance in pursuing God's calling.

Conclusion of the Event

Gratitude Expressed

• Thanks are given to Dr. Ibu Limpefun and attendees for their participation in the event.

• Special appreciation is extended to Ibu Shelly Juanda, Governor of Maluku Utara, for sharing her experiences with Universitas Kristen Petra Surabaya.

Blessings and Apologies

• A blessing is invoked upon Ibu Juanda as she continues her service in Maluku Utara.

• The speakers express apologies for any shortcomings during the event while wishing blessings upon all participants.