Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss

Performance Psychologist Michael Gervais — Fear{less} with Tim Ferriss

Introduction

Tim Ferriss introduces himself and the show, Fearless. He explains that he will be interviewing world-class performers to uncover their specific tactics for overcoming doubt, tackling tough decisions, and ultimately succeeding on their own terms.

Tim Ferriss' Introduction

  • Tim Ferriss is an author, entrepreneur, angel investor, and TV host.
  • The show is called Fearless.
  • The goal of the show is to interview world-class performers to uncover their specific tactics for overcoming doubt, tackling tough decisions, and ultimately succeeding on their own terms.

Deconstructing World-Class Performers

Tim Ferriss continues his introduction by explaining that the goal of the show isn't to be fearless but rather to learn how to fear less. He then gives examples of scenarios where someone might need help preparing for a big event or competition.

Learning How To Fear Less

  • The goal of the show isn't to be fearless but rather to learn how to fear less.
  • Examples are given of scenarios where someone might need help preparing for a big event or competition.

Interview with Dr. Michael Gervais

Tim Ferriss introduces Dr. Michael Gervais as his guest for this episode. Dr. Gervais has an impressive client roster that includes Olympic gold medalists like Carrie Walsh Jennings and teams like the Seattle Seahawks and U.S Armed Forces.

Introduction of Dr. Michael Gervais

  • Dr. Michael Gervais is introduced as a guest on the show.
  • His client roster includes Olympic gold medalists like Carrie Walsh Jennings and teams like the Seattle Seahawks and U.S Armed Forces.

Video Introduction

A video is played that shows Felix Baumgartner jumping from 128,000 feet above the ground and becoming the first skydiver to break the sound barrier.

Felix Baumgartner's Record-Breaking Jump

  • A video is played showing Felix Baumgartner jumping from 128,000 feet above the ground.
  • He became the first skydiver to break the sound barrier.

Extinguishing Fear

Dr. Gervais discusses his experience helping Felix Baumgartner overcome his fear of being in a spacesuit for an extended period of time. He explains that it is possible to extinguish fear through systematic desensitization and flooding.

Overcoming Fear with Systematic Desensitization and Flooding

  • Dr. Gervais helped Felix Baumgartner overcome his fear of being in a spacesuit for an extended period of time.
  • It is possible to extinguish fear through systematic desensitization and flooding.
  • Flooding involves putting someone in an environment where they experience their fear response until they no longer have that response.

Understanding Fear and Anxiety

In this section, the speaker discusses how fear and anxiety work and how they can be re-circuited. He explains that tension and exit are looping behaviors of fear and anxiety, which can be rewired through systematic desensitization.

Recircuiting Fear Response

  • Tension and exit are looping behaviors of fear and anxiety.
  • Systematic desensitization is a way to re-circuit the fear response.
  • Arousal control (breathing techniques) and thought management (increasing awareness of one's thoughts) are mental skills used in systematic desensitization.
  • The person undergoing treatment lists their triggers from 0 to 100 or 0 to 10, then systematically puts themselves into those environments either in imagination or reality.
  • The person cannot leave stage three until they have brought their heart rate down to rewire the fear response.

Childhood Memories

In this section, the speaker talks about his childhood memories growing up in Warrenton, Virginia. He also shares an experience he had with fighting as a child.

Growing Up in Warrenton, Virginia

  • The speaker grew up in Warrenton, Virginia.
  • His father started working in corporate worlds before moving to California when he was young.
  • The speaker struggled with fitting in after moving from a farm to northern California.

Fighting Experience

  • As a child, the speaker was picked on by another kid who threatened to fight him after school.
  • The speaker's family taught him how to fight, including his grandmother who had a special move.
  • The speaker got into a scuffle with the other kid and threw some punches.

Transitioning to High School and Surfing

In this section, the speaker talks about his transition to high school and how he got into surfing. He also discusses his struggles with anxiety and not knowing himself.

Fighting in High School

  • The speaker got into a fight in high school with some older guys from a fight club.
  • He didn't know how to be himself in high school.
  • The person he fought became one of his closest friends later on.

Struggles with Anxiety

  • The speaker struggled with caring too much about what others thought of him.
  • This led to cognitive dissonance, where it was hard for him to be present in the moment.
  • His anxiety also affected his surfing, as he couldn't compete due to being consumed by anxious thoughts.

Discovering Surfing

  • The speaker had a negative reaction to being coached in traditional stick and ball sports.
  • He discovered surfing in high school and found that he enjoyed it because there was no coach telling him what to do.
  • Despite struggling with anxiety while competing, he surfed some of the biggest waves in high school.

Discovering Sports Psychology

In this section, the speaker talks about how he discovered sports psychology and found mentors who helped him discover his passion for studying the invisible aspects of performance.

Junior College Plans

  • The speaker initially planned on going to junior college just so he could surf as much as possible.

Meeting Mentors

  • Three professors at the speaker's college saw potential in him and took him under their wing.
  • They were a theologian, philosopher, and psychologist who showed him how to love and be fascinated by the invisible aspects of performance.

The Life-Changing Experience

In this section, the speaker talks about his experience of going to the bottom of the Grand Canyon for a week with only two books, a pencil, and a pad of paper. He describes how this experience changed him and led him to pursue an understanding of the human mind, body, and spirit.

Going to the Bottom of Grand Canyon

  • The speaker went to the bottom of the Grand Canyon for a week with only two books, a pencil, and a pad of paper.
  • The class was designed to teach them how to live on their own for a week.
  • There were about 15 people in the class.
  • The two books were very poetic and deep.

Life-Changing Experience

  • The only rule was that they could not see any other person for that week.
  • This experience was life-changing for the speaker.
  • He faced anxiety and fear while being alone in such an isolated place.
  • He had nothing else but his head, hands, feet, rich texts, and pad of paper.

Pursuing Understanding

  • After this experience, he felt a thirst and hunger to understand how the human experience works.
  • He pursued education in psychology and kinesiology but still felt like he didn't know anything.
  • He eventually discovered sports psychology or performance psychology through his mentor Gary De Blasio.

Using Sport Psychology to Teach Young Men

In this section, the speaker talks about using sport psychology to teach young men in Los Angeles every Saturday night. He explains how he took complex concepts from academia and made them accessible through sports.

Working Laboratory

  • The speaker used sport psychology as a working laboratory to take ivory tower concepts into practice.
  • His job involved teaching young men basic mechanics of how their minds work using sports as an example.

Successful Teaching

  • The speaker's teaching was wildly successful.
  • He used sports to teach young men about the mind and how it works.
  • He had a group of 100 or so kids that really didn't want to listen but wanted to play ball.

Example of Successful Talk

  • The speaker's most successful talk involved starting with figuring out who you are as the largest work you can do as a human.
  • He would take people on a journey to figure out how they could articulate who they are in 1 to 20 words.
  • The litmus test for this was imagining being met in a dark alley under duress.

Defining Philosophy

In this section, the speaker talks about the importance of having a philosophy and gives examples of influential people who have shaped global culture through their philosophies.

Examples of Philosophies

  • The speaker gives examples of Jesus' philosophy and Buddha's philosophy.
  • Martin Luther King Jr.'s philosophy is discussed as an example of a clear and effective philosophy.
  • The speaker shares his own personal philosophy, "Every day is an opportunity for a living masterpiece."

Personal Philosophy

In this section, the speaker discusses his personal philosophy and how it guides his decision-making.

Hope for the Best, Prepare for the Worst

  • The speaker's personal philosophy is "hope for the best, prepare for the worst."
  • He explains that when you find something that makes your heart skip a beat, you know you're on to something.

First Paid Gig with an Athlete

In this section, the speaker talks about his first paid gig with an athlete and how he helped him reach his potential.

Potential vs. Performance Anxiety

  • The speaker discusses how potential can be both great but also create performance anxiety.
  • He shares how he worked with a professional hockey player to help him reach his potential and celebrate his success.

Pre-performance Routines

In this section, the speaker talks about effective pre-performance routines to activate one's ideal competitive mindset.

Ideal Competitive Mindset

  • The speaker discusses the importance of having a routine to activate one's ideal competitive mindset.
  • He distinguishes between routines and superstitions.

Pre-Performance Routines

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of pre-performance routines and how they can help athletes and performers achieve their ideal competitive mindset.

Importance of Pre-Performance Routines

  • Having triggers to think a certain way and adjust body posture in alignment with an ideal competitive mindset is crucial.
  • Creating personal triggers for oneself, such as saying something to themselves when tying shoes or putting on gear, can help activate great thinking and body posture.
  • Pre-performance routines are a great strategy for athletes and performers to use early on in their careers.

Individual vs. Team Mindset

In this section, the speaker discusses the difference between individual and team mindsets, as well as the importance of culture in a team setting.

Individual vs. Team Mindset

  • There is a difference between individual and team mindsets; it's not simply individual multiplied by x number of team members.
  • A culture that allows people space or pressure to figure out their potential is important in creating an ecosystem where individuals can be their best selves.

Importance of Culture in a Team Setting

  • Coach Pete Carroll has created a relationship-based organization with the Seattle Seahawks.
  • The three rules within the organization are always protect your team, no whining or complaining or excuses, and be early.
  • Always protecting each other whether you're in gear or out of gear is crucial in creating an ecosystem where individuals can be their best selves.

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Importance of Mindfulness

In this section, the speaker talks about the importance of mindfulness and how it helps in exploring the depth of human experience.

Understanding Mindfulness

  • Mindfulness is an invisible process of becoming more aware.
  • The best way to start practicing mindfulness is by paying attention to one breath at a time.
  • The natural state of mind is like a drunk monkey that wanders. Bringing it back to the present moment is the work.

Insight and Wisdom through Mindfulness

  • The real purpose of mindfulness work is insight and wisdom.
  • Without awareness, it's difficult to reveal the wisdom and insight within oneself or others.
  • Awareness puts on prescriptive glasses that bring things into clarity, but one also needs to focus on the right areas personally.

Starting with Mindfulness

  • There are various ways to begin practicing mindfulness such as reading about it, using a digital coach (app), or simply sitting down and paying attention to one breath at a time.
  • The process of mindfulness involves beginning a thousand times over and over again.

Knowing When to Draw the Line

In this section, Joe Rogan discusses how he helps people in dangerous activities and when he knows where to draw the line. He also talks about his experience with Luke Akins who jumped out of an airplane at 25,000 feet without a parachute.

Helping People in Dangerous Activities

  • Robert McBride asks Joe Rogan how he knows when to draw the line in dangerous activities.
  • Joe Rogan shares his thoughts on helping people in dangerous activities and unlocking ways of thinking that create safety for them.
  • He explains that these are grown adults who have a real thing they want to do that is meaningful to them, and he feels privileged to be intimate with such skilled individuals.
  • Joe Rogan talks about his experience with Luke Akins who jumped out of an airplane at 25,000 feet without a parachute into a net that he designed and rigged.

Learning from People Who Push the Frontier

  • Joe Rogan explains that he is more interested in environments where consequences are on the line because there is so much more to learn.
  • He believes we need fractional frontier explorers because they teach us about the frontier when they come back.

Something Everyone Should Do Every Day

In this section, Joe Rogan answers Jeffrey N's question about something everyone should do every day.

Practicing Openness and Vulnerability

  • Jeffrey N asks what is something everyone should do every day.
  • Joe Rogan advises deeply loving others by practicing openness, vulnerability, saying difficult things, and being present with people.

Coming Back from Massive Failure

In this section, Joe Rogan answers Michael Charles' question about the first step to coming back from massive failure.

Front Loading a Philosophy

  • Michael Charles asks what is the first step to coming back from massive failure.
  • Joe Rogan talks about front loading a philosophy and how it can help in dealing with failure.

Dealing with Failure

In this section, the speaker talks about how to deal with failure and why it is important to feel the pain that comes with it.

Feeling the Pain of Failure

  • The speaker believes that playing it safe and small is a form of massive failure.
  • People change because of pain, so feeling the pain of failure is necessary for growth.
  • The speaker advises people not to try to lock out or push away their pain.

Advice for Everyday Workers

In this section, the speaker gives advice on how everyday workers can improve their performance in their jobs.

Building Relationships

  • The speaker suggests building relationships where people genuinely care about your success.
  • These relationships should involve stimulating conversations and questions that get to the center of things.

Being Present

  • The speaker emphasizes the importance of being present in one's life.
  • Mindfulness and conversation are two ways to enhance one's ability to be present.

Knowing Yourself

  • The speaker advises people to know who they are and refuse to let someone else dictate their experience in life.
  • This involves putting oneself in emotionally uncomfortable situations where they can learn more about themselves.

Stoicism and Mastery

In this section, the speaker discusses stoicism as an idea and its role in achieving mastery.

Control What You Can

  • The speaker believes that the center of stoicism is controlling what you can.
  • This involves focusing on great thoughts, actions, effort, and attitude while ignoring all other noise.

Putting a Message on a Billboard

In this section, the speaker talks about what message they would put on a billboard if given the opportunity.

Controlling Your Experience

  • The speaker would put a message encouraging people to know who they are and refuse to let someone else dictate their experience in life.

Making Decisions and Embracing Self-Discovery

In this section, the speaker talks about making decisions, embracing self-discovery, and being present in the moment.

Making Decisions

  • The speaker suggests making a decision and building capacity.
  • He encourages testing oneself to build capacity.

Embracing Self-Discovery

  • The journey of life is a journey of self-discovery.
  • Authenticity is key to self-discovery.
  • The speaker encourages people to embrace an authentic journey of self-discovery.
  • Sharing insights and gifts with others amplifies authenticity.

Being Present in the Moment

  • The speaker advises learning how to be present in the moment.
  • Increasing the frequency of being present across different environments is important.
  • Getting rugged and hostile experiences can help one appreciate being present in the moment.

Three Things for Success

In this section, the speaker shares three things that can lead to success.

Test Yourself

  • Testing oneself helps build capacity.

Authentic Journey of Self-discovery

  • An authentic journey of self-discovery leads to sharing insights and gifts with others.

Be Here Now

-Learning how to work with your own mind to be in the present moment increases frequency across many different environments.