The Savings Expert: “Do Not Buy A House!” Do THIS Instead! - Morgan Housel

The Savings Expert: “Do Not Buy A House!” Do THIS Instead! - Morgan Housel

Introduction to the Psychology of Money

In this section, the speaker introduces the concept of the psychology of money and how it can help individuals build wealth and change their lives. The importance of understanding when to start and stop making money is highlighted.

The Opportunity for Wealth Creation

  • People often feel stuck in low-income jobs and believe they don't have opportunities to generate wealth.
  • However, opportunities are available for everyone, allowing individuals to choose where they want to live, what job they want, and when they retire.
  • Examples are given of individuals like Ronald Reed, a janitor who amassed an $8 million fortune, and Warren Buffett, worth $100 billion.

Building Wealth without Financial Background

  • It is not necessary to be a genius or have extensive financial knowledge to do well with money.
  • Endurance in investing is key to achieving financial success.
  • Many successful investors started with minimal financial interest or background but were able to become skilled through experience.

Understanding Your Relationship with Money

This section explores the importance of understanding one's relationship with money and managing expectations. It emphasizes that being wealthy does not necessarily mean spending extravagantly.

Managing Expectations

  • Many people aspire to be millionaires but often focus on spending rather than building wealth.
  • If expectations rise faster than income, it becomes difficult to find happiness with money.

Taking Simple Steps

  • When starting with a small amount of money (e.g., $100), it is important to keep things simple.
  • Understanding one's own relationship with money is crucial before making any decisions about how to use it effectively.

The Impact of "The Psychology of Money" Book

The speaker shares his personal experience with the book "The Psychology of Money" and how it transformed his understanding of money, investing, and wealth preservation.

Life-Changing Book

  • The speaker's brother recommended reading "The Psychology of Money" to prevent him from losing the money he had earned.
  • This book significantly impacted the speaker's life and became a source of inspiration for discussing money-related topics.

Writing Books on Money and Finance

The speaker explains why he writes books on money and finance, emphasizing that he writes for himself rather than a specific audience. He believes in solving his own problems and sharing his insights with others.

Selfish Writing

  • The speaker considers his writing as selfish because he writes for an audience of one - himself.
  • He focuses on topics that interest him personally and tries to solve his own problems through writing.
  • By sharing his thoughts, experiences, and solutions, he hopes to help others who may find them interesting or beneficial.

Benefits of Understanding the Psychology of Money

The speaker discusses the benefits readers can gain from understanding the concepts presented in "The Psychology of Money." It goes beyond traditional finance books by encouraging introspection about personal values and goals.

Introspection and Self-awareness

  • Unlike traditional finance books that focus on specific financial skills, this book encourages readers to reflect on their own identities, desires, insecurities, and motivations.
  • By becoming more introspective about who they are and what they want out of life, readers can better understand the role money plays in their lives.

Conclusion

The speaker concludes by highlighting that "The Psychology of Money" aims to help individuals become more self-aware about their relationship with money. It encourages readers to question their values, desires, and insecurities related to wealth.

Understanding Personal Goals

  • The book prompts readers to consider what they truly want out of life and how money can help or hinder those goals.
  • By gaining a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationship with money, individuals can make more informed decisions about their financial well-being.

What is Wealth?

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of wealth and its definition.

Defining Rich and Wealth

  • Rich is defined as having enough money to cover expenses such as mortgage, car payments, and social activities.
  • Wealth, on the other hand, refers to money that is not spent. It is hidden and saved up for future use.
  • Accumulating wealth provides independence, autonomy, and the freedom to do whatever one wants with their life.

The Goal of Being a Millionaire

  • Many people associate being a millionaire with spending a million dollars.
  • However, true wealth lies in having a million dollars that one chooses not to spend.
  • This accumulated wealth serves as a cushion and grants independence and autonomy in decision-making.

Importance of Independence

  • The speaker emphasizes the importance of independence in various aspects of life - work, family, health, and mental well-being.
  • The goal is to have control over one's choices without external influence or restrictions.

Personal Experience with Frugality

In this section, the speaker shares their personal experience growing up with frugal parents who prioritized saving money.

Childhood Background

  • During their early childhood years when their parents were students living off loans and grants, they experienced financial hardship.
  • However, when their father became a doctor later on, things improved but frugality remained an important value in their family.

Living Below Means

  • Despite having more financial stability after becoming a doctor, the speaker's parents continued to live below their means.
  • They did not indulge in extravagant purchases like luxury cars or big houses.
  • This frugal mindset was initially confusing for the speaker during adolescence when they desired better material possessions.

Understanding Frugality

  • About 10 years ago, it clicked for the speaker why their parents maintained a frugal lifestyle.
  • Their father, an ER doctor with a highly stressful job, decided to retire after 20 years of service.
  • The ability to retire early was possible due to their high savings rate and living below their means.

Conclusion

The transcript highlights the importance of defining wealth beyond material possessions and focusing on accumulating savings for independence and autonomy. It also emphasizes the value of frugality in achieving financial security and early retirement.

The Importance of Control and Autonomy in Life

This section discusses the significance of having control over one's life and the negative impact of lacking control. It highlights how autonomy and control contribute to happiness, physical health, and overall well-being.

The Impact of Control on Happiness and Unhappiness

  • Studies show that having control over what one does in life is a key factor in happiness.
  • Conversely, not having control over future outcomes can lead to unhappiness.
  • Lack of control over one's schedule, job security, and uncertainty about the future can be highly stressful and detrimental to mental and physical health.

Autonomy as a Professional Requirement for Loving One's Work

  • Autonomy is identified as one of the essential elements for individuals to love their work.
  • Research indicates that jobs with low autonomy and control have physiological consequences such as increased risk of disease, higher stress levels, cardiovascular problems, and heart disease.
  • Not having control in life can lead to significant physiological responses to stress.

The Relationship Between Control and Longevity

  • John D. Rockefeller, known as the richest man in the world during his time, lived until his late 90s.
  • His doctor attributed his longevity to never letting anything bother him, spending time outdoors, and leaving the table slightly hungry.
  • Having control over one's emotions and reactions contributes positively to both business success and overall health.

Stress Reduction through Control

  • Lowering stress levels is crucial for maintaining good physical health.
  • Not having control over what one does in life increases stress significantly.
  • Warren Buffett exemplifies someone who has achieved both financial success (worth billions) while maintaining total control (100% autonomy) over his daily activities.

The Negative Effects of Lack of Control Over Time

This section explores the negative consequences of not having control over one's time and schedule. It compares the experiences of CEOs who lack control despite their high salaries to individuals with lower incomes but greater autonomy.

CEOs and Lack of Control

  • Some CEOs earn millions of dollars annually but have no control over their time.
  • Their schedules are meticulously planned, leaving little room for personal preferences or self-care.
  • They must attend meetings even when tired or exhausted, travel extensively, and have limited freedom in deciding how to spend their time.

Autonomy and Freedom in Daily Life

  • Individuals with lower incomes but greater autonomy can wake up and choose how they want to spend their day.
  • Warren Buffett is an example of a CEO who has structured his life to maintain total control over his activities.
  • Having the freedom to decide what one wants to do each day contributes significantly to overall well-being.

Balancing Professional Success with Personal Autonomy

This section delves into the speaker's personal experience as a successful professional whose calendar controls their life. It highlights the need for moments of autonomy and self-care amidst a busy schedule.

Losing Control Over Time as Professional Success Increases

  • As professional success grows, there is often a loss of control over one's time.
  • The speaker relates to feeling like a puppet controlled by their Google Calendar, constantly being dragged around by appointments and obligations.

Seeking Moments of Autonomy

  • The speaker requested their assistant to schedule lunch breaks daily at the same time, allowing them a moment of respite amidst a busy schedule.
  • They also incorporated personal training sessions into their calendar as an intentional act of self-care.
  • These small moments provide opportunities for breathing space and regaining some sense of control.

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The Importance of Controlling Money

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of control over money and its impact on happiness and wealth. They mention a quote from Nin Talb about the taste of denied money being better than accepted money.

Control Over Money

  • Having control over money is seen as a positive thing.
  • Nin Talb's quote suggests that denying money can be more satisfying than accepting it.
  • The speaker emphasizes the importance of finding satisfaction in saying no to certain business deals or opportunities.

Knowing When to Stop Making Money

This section explores the idea that there are people who don't know when to stop making money. The speaker mentions a quote from Tedward about two types of people in terms of making money.

Two Types of People Regarding Making Money

  • Tedward's quote states that there are people who don't know how to start making money and those who don't know when to stop making money.
  • Many individuals in certain fields may fall into the latter category, where they have more money than they expected but keep moving their goals further ahead.

Moving Goalposts and Financial Satisfaction

This section focuses on individuals who continuously move their financial goalposts even after achieving significant wealth. It highlights the challenge of stopping the goalpost from constantly shifting.

Moving Goalposts and Financial Satisfaction

  • Many people believe that reaching a specific net worth or income level will solve all their problems and bring happiness.
  • However, once they reach that goal, they often find themselves setting new goals and pushing for more.
  • The speaker mentions that getting the goalpost to stop moving is one of the hardest financial skills.

The Illusion of Financial Satisfaction

This section explores the illusion of financial satisfaction and how it is not necessarily achieved even after reaching a desired net worth or income level.

Illusion of Financial Satisfaction

  • Many individuals believe that achieving a certain net worth or income level will bring happiness and solve all their problems.
  • However, once they reach that point, they realize it's not the case, and they continue to push for more.
  • The speaker mentions that this phenomenon applies to almost everyone, as people tend to adjust their expectations based on what others have.

Happiness and Income Growth

This section discusses the relationship between income growth and happiness. It highlights statistics showing that despite increased incomes over time, people are less happy compared to previous generations.

Happiness and Income Growth

  • In America today, the average household's income has doubled since the 1950s when adjusted for inflation.
  • However, studies measuring happiness over time indicate that people are less happy now than in previous decades.
  • While money can buy some level of happiness, comparing oneself to others and adjusting expectations based on societal changes diminishes its impact.

Adjusting Expectations with Wealth Comparison

This section emphasizes how individuals automatically adjust their expectations based on what others have. It uses examples like John D. Rockefeller's wealth comparison to illustrate this point.

Adjusting Expectations with Wealth Comparison

  • People tend to compare themselves with others when assessing their own wealth and happiness.
  • Even though advancements in technology and access to various resources have improved living standards compared to the past, individuals still base their satisfaction on what others possess.
  • The speaker mentions John D. Rockefeller as an example of someone who had immense wealth during his time but lacked access to many modern conveniences.

The Impact of Technological Advancements on Happiness

This section discusses how technological advancements can become the new baseline for future generations, diminishing their impact on happiness.

Impact of Technological Advancements on Happiness

  • As society progresses and new technologies emerge, people's expectations and baselines change.
  • What was once considered a luxury or advancement becomes the norm, and individuals no longer appreciate it.
  • The speaker suggests that future generations may earn more than their predecessors but still not experience increased happiness due to the ever-changing baseline.

Gratitude and Acceptance of New Baselines

This section highlights the importance of gratitude and acceptance towards new baselines in terms of technology and advancements. It references a story about Stephen Hawking as an example.

Gratitude and Acceptance of New Baselines

  • People often take for granted the technological advancements and medical discoveries available today.
  • These advancements, which were unimaginable in the past, are now seen as normal.
  • The speaker mentions Stephen Hawking as someone who appreciated these advancements despite his physical limitations.

Low Expectations for Happiness

This section explores the concept of low expectations being essential for happiness. It refers to a quote from the speaker's upcoming book about setting realistic expectations.

Low Expectations for Happiness

  • The first rule of happiness is having low expectations.
  • While ambition and striving for success are important, keeping expectations in check is equally crucial.
  • The gap between ambition and expectation contributes to long-term happiness.

Learning About Low Expectations

This section discusses how the speaker learned about the importance of low expectations and shares a story about Stephen Hawking.

Learning About Low Expectations

  • The speaker mentions that they learned about the significance of low expectations through various stories and experiences.
  • One story that stood out was about Stephen Hawking, who despite his intelligence, faced physical limitations and appreciated the small things in life.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of managing expectations and how it can lead to happiness.

The Importance of Managing Expectations

  • The speaker mentions a person who had a challenging life due to a disease but still expressed happiness during an interview with the New York Times.
  • The person's secret to happiness was having reduced expectations since the age of 21 when he got his disease.
  • Despite facing difficult circumstances, this person found joy in simple things like waking up in the morning and seeing the sunrise.
  • The speaker highlights that many people who seemingly have everything may not be happy because their expectations rise along with their circumstances.
  • It is emphasized that managing one's own expectations is more within our control than managing external circumstances like income or possessions.

Keeping Expectations Below Circumstances

  • The speaker shares a personal experience as a valet in Los Angeles where he realized that people cared more about being seen as cool by others rather than caring about the driver of an expensive car.
  • Understanding this societal game of wanting to impress others helps reduce the desire to show off and impress others.
  • The speaker suggests that not needing to impress other people is a valuable financial skill worth more than any material possession.

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In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of managing expectations at an individual level for a better quality of life.

Managing Expectations at an Individual Level

  • While society may continue to prioritize showing off and seeking attention, individuals can make significant changes by managing their expectations.
  • The speaker acknowledges that it may not be easy, but recognizing the game being played in society can lead to a decrease in the desire to impress others.

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The Desire to Impress Others and the Definition of Success

In this section, the speaker discusses the negative impact of trying to impress others and shares Warren Buffett's definition of success.

Desire for External Validation

  • Trying to impress people we don't need or want to love us leads to a net loss in our lives.
  • Warren Buffett defines success as when the people we want to love us actually do love us.
  • The speaker identifies their parents, spouse, and children as the five people they want to love them.

Marriage and Serving Each Other

  • The speaker's friend Brent has a theory on marriage: it only works if both partners want to serve each other without expecting anything in return.
  • By waking up every morning with the intention of serving their spouse without any expectations, both partners are pleasantly surprised by each other's actions.
  • Needy behavior and high expectations can break down a marriage or any relationship.

Toxic Relationships and Need for Validation

This section explores how toxic relationships and the need for validation can affect our happiness and well-being.

Needy Behavior and High Expectations

  • Needy behavior stems from having excessively high expectations in a relationship.
  • Expecting external factors, such as our partner, to validate us is detrimental to our happiness.
  • Breaking free from the need for validation is crucial for personal growth.

Money Stories, Gambling Shops, and Validation

Here, the speaker delves into money stories, gambling shops in low-income areas, and our need for validation through material possessions.

Money Stories and Low-Income Areas

  • The speaker observes that low-income areas often have more gambling shops than other areas.
  • They share a personal experience of putting their entire student loan payment on a bet when they were struggling financially.
  • Reckless behavior with money can be a result of not having enough and seeking validation through material possessions.

Need for Validation

  • The speaker suggests that everyone wants respect and admiration from others.
  • If we can gain respect and admiration through qualities like wisdom, love, or friendship, we won't feel the need to show off material possessions.
  • However, if we lack these qualities, we may resort to displaying our material wealth as a means of gaining validation.

Success, Material Desires, and Recklessness

This section explores the relationship between success, material desires, and recklessness with money.

Success Diminishing Desire to Show Off

  • As individuals become more successful in areas like business or personal growth, their desire to show off diminishes.
  • Respect and admiration gained through non-material achievements fulfill the need for validation.

Recklessness with Money

  • The speaker highlights a statistic that shows low-income individuals buying a significant portion of lottery tickets despite struggling financially.
  • Rather than judging them as "morons," the speaker encourages empathy by considering their limited opportunities for upward mobility.
  • Reckless behavior with money may stem from feeling trapped in low-income jobs without avenues for improvement.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the relationship between poverty, crime, and hope. They also touch upon the impact of low-income jobs on health and decision-making.

The Relationship Between Poverty, Crime, and Hope

  • The speaker mentions that when people feel that the world is unfair, they may be more inclined to cheat or engage in criminal activities as a way to cope with their circumstances. This could explain the connection between poverty and crime.
  • Having even a small glimmer of hope can make a significant difference in someone's life. If individuals in poverty find pleasure or hope in certain activities like gambling or substance use, it is important to understand their motivations rather than simply judging their decisions.
  • Low-income jobs often come with long hours, exhaustion, and limited opportunities for personal enjoyment. Engaging in activities like smoking or drinking may provide temporary pleasure for those who have few other sources of happiness in their daily lives.
  • It is crucial not to underestimate the desire for hope and pleasure among individuals living in poverty. Instead of criticizing their choices, it is important to recognize that these may be their only avenues for experiencing joy or relief from difficult circumstances.

New Section

In this section, the speaker requests viewers to subscribe to their YouTube channel while emphasizing how it helps them grow and improve their content.

Requesting Subscriptions for Channel Growth

  • The speaker notes that a significant percentage of viewers who frequently watch the channel have not yet subscribed. They kindly ask viewers who enjoy the content to consider subscribing as it greatly supports channel growth and production quality improvements.
  • By subscribing, viewers contribute to scaling up the channel and making it more successful. The speaker promises to reciprocate this gesture by continuously striving to enhance the content and overall experience for subscribers.

New Section

In this section, the speaker reflects on their own experiences with financial struggles and offers advice on how to transition from a low-income position to one of wealth.

Transitioning from Low-Income to Wealth

  • The speaker suggests that gaining control over one's financial situation is crucial for reducing stress and achieving independence. Viewing every dollar saved as a form of ownership and control over one's future can lead to a significant mindset shift.
  • The key to escaping a low-income position is not material possessions like cars or houses but rather achieving financial independence. Having enough savings provides the freedom to choose where one wants to live, what job they want, and even prepares for unexpected events like illness or retirement. Saving money is emphasized as the most important step towards building wealth.
  • There are three types of people when it comes to saving: those who save, those who don't believe they can save, and those who don't think they need to save. It is essential for individuals in low-income positions to recognize the importance of saving money as a means of securing their future and gaining independence.

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In this section, the speaker discusses different perspectives on personal finance based on individual characteristics.

Nature vs Nurture in Personal Finance

  • The speaker mentions that some individuals naturally possess a "money mind," meaning they have an innate understanding of finances, while others may never fully grasp financial concepts. However, the speaker disagrees with this black-and-white perspective, suggesting that personal finance is influenced by both nature and nurture.
  • While some people may naturally have a knack for financial matters, it is possible to learn and develop financial skills regardless of one's initial inclinations. The speaker believes that personal finance is not solely determined by nature but can be influenced and improved through education and experience.

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In this section, the speaker discusses their personal experience with saving money and the impact of a tragic event on their attitude towards risk and money.

Impact of Personal Experience (0:34:46 - 0:37:57)

  • The speaker reflects on their past belief that they couldn't save money because they didn't have much. However, looking back, they realize that even small amounts could have been saved.
  • They mention not understanding the value of saving small numbers and not grasping the concept of compounding returns.
  • The speaker shares a story about two friends who died in a skiing accident when they were younger. This event had a profound impact on their risk appetite and attitude towards money.
  • They recall how hitting rock bottom can serve as a powerful incentive for change in one's life.
  • The speaker describes the details of the skiing trip, including skiing out of bounds and triggering a small avalanche.
  • They vividly remember the sensation of being pushed by the ground during an avalanche and losing control while skiing.
  • After surviving the incident, the speaker decided not to ski again but offered to pick up their friends later. However, their friends never showed up at the designated spot.
  • Concern grew as time passed, leading to involvement from search and rescue teams. Unfortunately, it was discovered that both friends had been buried under six feet of snow and killed by a massive avalanche.

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In this section, the speaker reflects on experiencing loss for the first time due to the tragic skiing accident involving their two friends.

First Experience with Loss (0:38:10 - 0:38:57)

  • The speaker acknowledges that most people have experienced losing someone close to them, emphasizing that their experience was not unique in that regard.
  • They recall calling one friend's voicemail, leaving a message expressing hope for their well-being, not realizing it would be their last communication.
  • The speaker describes the moment when Brian's mother called, informing them that Brian had not shown up for work and asking if they knew his whereabouts.
  • Search and rescue teams were eventually involved, leading to the discovery of their friends buried under snow and killed by the avalanche.
  • This experience marked the speaker's first encounter with loss and had a profound impact on their perspective.

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New Section

In this section, the speaker reflects on a decision that had a significant impact on their life and emphasizes the importance of small decisions that can change the course of one's life.

Decision with Life-Changing Consequences

  • The speaker recalls a decision they made to not go on a second run with their friends, which turned out to be a life-saving choice.
  • This decision was made without much thought or analysis but ended up being the most important decision in their life.
  • Reflecting on this experience, the speaker realizes that even seemingly insignificant decisions can have profound effects on one's life.
  • They emphasize the fragility of the world and how unpredictable events can shape our lives.

New Section

In this section, the speaker discusses how accepting the unpredictability of life can lead to humility and caution when making forecasts about the future.

Embracing Uncertainty

  • The speaker highlights that we cannot accurately predict major events or outcomes in our lives due to unforeseen circumstances and small decisions that can have significant impacts.
  • They mention how people often try to predict future events such as market trends or economic changes but fail to consider unexpected risks.
  • The speaker argues against excessive efforts to forecast and predicts future outcomes, emphasizing that we cannot fully comprehend or anticipate all potential risks and their consequences.

New Section

In this section, the speaker explains how major risks and impactful events are often unforeseen and occur within seconds, challenging our ability to predict them accurately.

Unpredictability of Major Risks

  • The speaker cites historical examples like Pearl Harbor, 9/11, and the 2008 financial crisis, highlighting that these significant risks were not anticipated or predicted by experts.
  • They emphasize that the biggest news stories and risks in the future will likely be something nobody is currently discussing or foreseeing.
  • The speaker mentions a quote from a financial adviser about risk being what we don't see or anticipate, reinforcing the notion that we cannot plan for all potential risks in our lives.

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In this section, the speaker reflects on the relief of accepting uncertainty and not obsessively trying to predict future outcomes.

Embracing Risk and Uncertainty

  • The speaker finds it relieving that we don't have to put excessive effort into predicting stock market trends or economic changes because major risks are often unforeseeable.
  • They mention how even experts can't accurately predict specific details of impactful events like viral pandemics.
  • The speaker encourages embracing uncertainty and avoiding over-reliance on forecasting models when it comes to future predictions.

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In this section, the speaker concludes by emphasizing that risk is inherently unpredictable and cannot be fully planned for.

Final Thoughts on Risk

  • The speaker reiterates that risk is what remains after considering all known factors and uncertainties. It is impossible to plan or imagine all potential risks in our lives.
  • They acknowledge that while accepting this unpredictability may be terrifying, it also relieves us from futile attempts to predict every aspect of our lives.
  • The speaker suggests that instead of trying to predict the future, it is more important to focus on adapting and responding effectively to unforeseen events.

Invest in Preparedness, Not Prediction

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of investing in preparedness rather than trying to predict future outcomes. They discuss the significance of having a financial buffer and being cautious about debt.

Investing in Preparedness

  • The speaker suggests focusing on preparedness instead of prediction when it comes to investing.
  • It is advised to have a sufficient financial buffer and cash liquidity to withstand any unforeseen events or market fluctuations.
  • Having an excess amount of cash can provide a fighting chance to endure unexpected crises like 9/11 or COVID-19.
  • People may question why someone has a significant amount of cash in their asset allocation, but it is essential for preparing for unknown risks.

Simple Capital Allocation Strategy

  • The speaker's capital allocation strategy is straightforward: cash, a house, index funds, and some shares of specific companies.
  • They prefer index funds because they aim for simplicity and do not try to pick individual stocks anymore.
  • The decision to invest heavily in Ethereum was influenced by their involvement in a software business related to blockchain technology.

Endurance as the Key Metric

  • The speaker prioritizes endurance as the main metric for their investments rather than trying to beat the market.
  • Earning average returns consistently over an extended period can lead to significant success as an investor.
  • Dollar cost averaging is explained as buying the same dollar amount of investments regularly regardless of market conditions.

The Power of Index Funds

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of dollar cost averaging and explains the benefits of investing in index funds.

Dollar Cost Averaging

  • Dollar cost averaging involves consistently investing a fixed amount of money into investments on a regular basis.
  • This strategy helps to mitigate the impact of market fluctuations and removes the need for timing the market.

Index Funds

  • Index funds are mentioned as a preferred investment choice due to their simplicity and broad market exposure.
  • The speaker highlights that many people unknowingly practice dollar cost averaging through their 401(k) contributions.

Conclusion

The speaker emphasizes the importance of investing in preparedness rather than trying to predict future outcomes. They advocate for having a financial buffer, being cautious about debt, and simplifying investment strategies by focusing on cash, index funds, and long-term endurance. Additionally, they highlight the benefits of dollar cost averaging and investing in index funds for consistent returns over time.

Understanding Long-Term Wealth Creation

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of owning a slice of the global economy and how it relates to long-term wealth creation. The importance of endurance and sustained returns over time is emphasized.

Owning a Slice of Capitalism

  • Owning stocks means owning a slice of the global economy.
  • It's not about individual stocks like Tesla or Apple, but rather about owning a piece of capitalism itself.

Endurance and Sustained Returns

  • Long-term wealth generation is not dependent on short-term performance.
  • The ability to generate wealth over one or five years has no impact on lifetime wealth accumulation.
  • What matters is the ability to sustain returns for an extended period.
  • Compounding plays a crucial role in long-term wealth creation, with time being a significant factor.

Warren Buffett as an Example

  • Warren Buffett's success lies in his endurance as an investor.
  • 99% of his net worth was accumulated after he turned 60 years old.
  • Holding investments for longer periods allows for exponential growth and compounding effects.

Patience and Endurance

  • Patience and endurance are more important than trying to pick the right stocks every day.
  • Professional investors often struggle to consistently beat the market even after years of effort.
  • Having endurance in investing can outperform most stock pickers.

Case Study: Ronald James Reed

  • Ronald James Reed, a janitor, accumulated over $8 million in net worth by investing patiently for 70 years.
  • Endurance in investing can lead to significant wealth accumulation without needing exceptional stock-picking skills.

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Understanding the Concept of "Enough" and Independence

The speaker discusses the concept of having enough in life and the importance of independence. They highlight how societal expectations can influence our definition of happiness and emphasize the need to identify what truly makes us happy.

Knowing What Makes You Happy

  • Many people have a misconception that they need to be wealthy at a young age to enjoy life fully.
  • Financial advisers often struggle with getting clients to spend money because they have been conditioned to save excessively.
  • RIT Siti, an author, emphasizes the importance of learning how to live a rich life based on individual preferences and desires.
  • Society often dictates what we should do to be happy, such as owning expensive cars, big houses, or wearing fashionable clothes.
  • It is crucial to figure out the little things that bring personal happiness rather than conforming to societal expectations.

Finding Your Rich Life

  • Each person's definition of a rich life may vary. For some, it could be simple activities like reading a book or going for a walk with loved ones.
  • The speaker mentions RIT Siti's example of finding richness in flying first class and dressing well while driving a beat-up Honda.
  • Society's pressure to conform can lead people astray from their true sources of happiness.

Recognizing When Enough is Enough

  • One challenge in life is knowing when we have reached a point where we have enough.
  • The speaker shares their father's experience of realizing he had done something for long enough and deciding it was time for change.
  • Being independent doesn't mean stopping work altogether; it means choosing only the work that brings fulfillment and joy.

Productivity and Having Enough

  • Many individuals who retire early after achieving financial independence find themselves bored or even clinically depressed after a short period of time.
  • Most people desire to be productive and engaged in meaningful work.
  • Having enough means being able to select the projects or positions that align with personal interests and passions.

Reflecting on Regrets

  • It is often too late in life when we realize the cost of never having enough.
  • The speaker mentions Bronnie Ware's interviews with people on their deathbeds, where the biggest regret was not living a life true to themselves and working excessively.
  • Considering what one might regret on their deathbed can provide perspective on priorities and values.

Understanding When Enough is Enough

The speaker delves deeper into the concept of knowing when enough is enough in life. They discuss how external narratives can influence our perception of what we need for happiness and reflect on personal regrets.

Recognizing External Narratives

  • Society often imposes expectations about what constitutes a successful and fulfilling life, leading individuals to pursue material possessions or excessive work.
  • It is essential to question these external narratives and determine what truly brings us happiness and fulfillment.

Personal Reflections

  • The speaker contemplates whether they would regret working hard and saving money if they were on their deathbed tomorrow. Their answer is no, as it provides them with a sense of security and peace of mind.

Understanding Regret

  • Many people only realize the cost of never having enough when it's too late, such as sacrificing time with family or neglecting health.
  • Reflecting on regrets can help prioritize what truly matters in life.

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The Value of High Savings Rate

In this section, the speaker discusses the misconception that having a high savings rate leads to regret later in life. They express that taking care of their family brings them happiness and pleasure, and they wouldn't regret not spending on material possessions.

The Happiness of Taking Care of Family

  • Having a high savings rate brings happiness and pleasure through taking care of one's family.
  • The speaker believes they would not regret not buying expensive items like cars, big houses, or fancy clothes.
  • Prioritizing financial decisions based on taking care of loved ones rather than indulging in unnecessary purchases is important.

Financial Decision-Making and Priorities

This section explores the importance of considering long-term financial priorities when making decisions. It highlights the concept of saving for loved ones' future needs instead of indulging in depreciating assets.

Saving for Future Needs vs. Material Possessions

  • Many people save up to buy things that will eventually lose value.
  • The speaker suggests considering whether it is better to have a nest egg for loved ones or spend money on luxury items like a Lamborghini.
  • The book "Die Broke" emphasizes giving money to family members when they need it most, such as during their 30s and 40s, rather than waiting until death.

Giving Money to Family When It Matters

This section discusses the idea of providing financial support to family members when they need it most instead of waiting until death. It challenges the notion of inheritance timing and highlights the importance of supporting children during their own journey into adulthood.

Timely Financial Support for Family

  • Instead of waiting until old age to pass on inheritance, it is suggested to give money to family members when they need it most, typically during their 30s and 40s.
  • Waiting until old age may result in children receiving the inheritance when they are already older themselves, potentially diminishing its impact.
  • The speaker reflects on whether to provide financial support to their future children for driving lessons or housing, considering the balance between helping them and allowing them to learn from experiences.

Balancing Financial Support and Life Lessons

This section delves into the dilemma of providing financial support to children while also teaching them important life lessons about money management and appreciating value.

Teaching Value and Responsibility

  • The speaker contemplates whether to pay for certain expenses for their future children or let them learn the hard way.
  • They share an anecdote about flying first class with their young son and realizing how quickly someone can become spoiled or use privilege as a means of superiority.
  • The speaker discusses making decisions that balance providing opportunities with instilling values of hard work and appreciation for what one has.

Passing Wealth to Children

This section explores the potential impact of passing wealth onto children. It considers the trade-off between preserving ambition and avoiding strife within family dynamics.

Impact of Inherited Wealth on Ambition

  • Passing wealth onto children can potentially affect their ambition levels.
  • While some wealthy individuals worry that giving all their money to their kids might ruin their drive, it is suggested that doing so is necessary because not doing it may lead to resentment from the children.
  • However, this perspective may not apply universally, as exceptional individuals like Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg would likely remain ambitious regardless of inherited wealth.

Making Money vs. Keeping Money

This section highlights the distinction between making money and keeping money, emphasizing the importance of endurance and patience in wealth management.

Endurance and Patience in Wealth Management

  • Making money requires different skills than keeping money.
  • The speaker emphasizes the importance of endurance and patience, regardless of market volatility or external circumstances.
  • They recall a quote from Charlie Munger about passing on wealth to children, acknowledging that it may hinder their ambition but still needs to be done to maintain a healthy relationship with them.

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The Importance of Patience and Cash in Investing

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the significance of patience and having cash reserves in investing. They mention Warren Buffett's company, Berkshire Hathaway, which currently holds around $150 billion in cash. The ability to wait for opportunities and build up cash is a key strategy employed by successful investors.

Being a Great Investor Requires Patience and Cash

  • A quote from AER states that being a great investor means being able to sit on your hands and do nothing.
  • Berkshire Hathaway, Warren Buffett's company, currently has approximately $150 billion in cash.
  • Throughout its 60-year history, Berkshire Hathaway has accumulated a significant amount of cash and waits for the right opportunity to deploy it.
  • Good investment opportunities are rare and should not be easily accessible to everyone.

Endurance and Patience Are Essential Skills for Investors

  • Endurance and patience are crucial skills for ordinary individuals looking to accumulate wealth through investments.
  • Low-cost index funds provide investment opportunities that are available to everyone with access to a smartphone or computer.
  • Two decades ago, investing was limited to those with substantial funds who could afford brokers' fees. The accessibility of investing has significantly improved since then.

The Skill of Keeping Money: Endurance and Survival Financially

This section highlights the importance of endurance, survival financially, and enduring unpredictable events as key factors in achieving financial success. It also discusses the difference between gaining money (optimism) and keeping money (conservatism).

Financial Success Relies on Endurance

  • Financial success is heavily dependent on an individual's ability to endure unpredictable events such as Pearl Harbor or 9/11.
  • Enduring these challenges constitutes approximately 90% of financial and investing success.
  • Gaining money requires optimism and taking risks, while keeping money necessitates a conservative approach and awareness of unknown risks.

Advice for Young Individuals to Create Wealth

  • For young individuals without significant financial responsibilities, it is recommended to prioritize financial flexibility by building up cash reserves.
  • Having liquidity provides the ability to navigate through potential career changes, layoffs, or personal life challenges.
  • When starting a career, consider working for a startup or unconventional company rather than opting for a safe job at a large corporation. The proximity to failure in startups offers valuable learning experiences.

Choosing Career Paths: Opting for Unconventional Companies

This section discusses the benefits of choosing unconventional companies over safe jobs at big corporations when starting a career. It emphasizes the value of learning from failure and gaining diverse experiences early on.

Opting for Unconventional Companies Early in Your Career

  • Instead of pursuing safe jobs at established companies like Goldman Sachs or Apple, consider joining unconventional startups.
  • Working for a weird or unique company provides opportunities to learn something completely different and gain diverse experiences.
  • Conventional career paths often limit upside potential, while unconventional companies offer the chance to either learn from failure or experience significant growth.

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The Regret of Staying in a Safe Company

The speaker discusses the potential regret of staying in a safe company and getting trapped by golden handcuffs. They highlight the importance of considering one's personality and desires for working at a more dynamic or unconventional company.

The Dilemma of Golden Handcuffs

  • Staying in a safe company may lead to regrets later in life.
  • Some individuals may feel trapped due to financial commitments like mortgages, children, and retirement savings.
  • There is a higher level of regret for those who realize their desire to work at a more exciting or innovative company when it's too late.

Lessons from Venture Capital and Tails

The speaker introduces the concept of "tails" in venture capital investments and how it changed their investment strategy. They emphasize that this lesson applies not only to finance but also to life.

Venture Capital Example

  • In venture capital, statistically half of the investments fail completely, while one or two make huge profits that drive most returns.
  • This lesson about investing also applies to life decisions.

Tails Explained

  • A few key factors often explain 90% or 99% of what truly matters.
  • In business, despite thousands of public companies available for investment, only a handful significantly contribute to overall market value (e.g., Apple, Tesla, Microsoft).
  • Focusing on these key players can yield better returns than trying to predict future successes retrospectively.

Humility and Uncertainty in Investing

The speaker emphasizes the importance of humility in investing and acknowledges that nobody truly knows what will happen. They draw parallels between investing and horoscopes as ways people seek comfort by reducing uncertainty.

  • Investing, like life, is uncertain and unknowable.
  • Many people seek investment forecasts to reduce the stress caused by uncertainty.
  • The speaker highlights that nobody truly knows what will happen in the market, and others are also "bullshitting" their way through investing.

Embracing Uncertainty and Accepting Unknowns

The speaker shares their biggest takeaway from a book they wrote for themselves, which is embracing the unknown. They discuss how even successful companies like Amazon embrace failure as part of their strategy.

  • Embracing failure and having the mentality to fail is crucial for success.
  • Companies like Amazon are willing to try many things, knowing that most will fail but a few will be massive successes (e.g., AWS).
  • Taking small risks consistently can lead to significant opportunities due to optionality.
  • The analogy of buying thousands or millions of lottery tickets applies here – taking enough swings increases the chances of hitting a winner eventually.

Failure Rate and Innovation

The speaker discusses how some companies may appear innovative or successful but have a high failure rate. They provide an example from Netflix where most new movies produced were successful.

  • Some companies may seem innovative or successful, but their failure rate can be massive.
  • An example from Netflix demonstrates that not all projects or ventures within a company are equally successful.

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The Importance of Trying Something New

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of trying new things and taking risks in order to avoid complacency and maintain a competitive advantage.

Trying Something New

  • It is important to try something new and not always aim for complete success.
  • Having some empty rooms in a hotel indicates that the pricing is set at an optimal level.
  • There will always be some level of failure when taking risks, which is necessary for growth.
  • At Spotify, one of the important metrics is the mistake rate, as it signifies maintaining a startup mentality.

The Need to Keep Running

This section explores the concept of continuously moving forward and avoiding complacency in order to stay successful.

Avoiding Complacency

  • The book "Same as Ever" emphasizes the need to keep running and avoid becoming complacent.
  • Success can lead to laziness and playing defense instead of offense.
  • Competitive advantages tend to be short-lived because success can plant the seeds of decline.
  • Many forces pull companies away from their competitive advantage, with laziness being a significant source of gravity.

Falling into Complacency Trap

This section highlights examples where success led to complacency and how it can hinder further growth.

Examples of Complacency

  • Jerry Seinfeld quit his show when he sensed that what made it successful was starting to fade away. Fame prevented him from observing society like before.
  • Many CEOs face challenges when they transition from being scrappy startup founders to managing larger companies. They get pulled away from what they are good at.
  • Travis Kalanick, founder of Uber, excelled at scaling but struggled with managing a big company. Success in one area doesn't guarantee success in another phase of the company's life.

Advice on Avoiding Complacency

This section provides advice on avoiding complacency and staying hungry for continued success.

Staying Hungry

  • Shaquille Khan, an investor in Spotify, advised the speaker to realize that his hunger for success may change over time.
  • After leaving his previous company, the speaker was advised to take time off and not rush into starting a new business.
  • Success can lead to a lack of discipline and focus, so it is important to reassess goals and motivations.

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Understanding Evolving Motivations

In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of recognizing that motivations evolve and change over time. They emphasize that what made someone successful in the past may not guarantee success in a new venture. It is crucial to accept and understand this evolution to avoid potential pitfalls.

Recognizing Changing Motivations

  • The need to understand that motivations evolve and change over time.
  • What made someone successful in the past may not be applicable to future ventures.
  • Some individuals can maintain their drive and success consistently, like Elon Musk who works 100 hours a week despite being worth a quarter of a trillion dollars.
  • For many people, it should not be scary to realize that after achieving success and wealth, they may not feel as hungry or motivated as before.

Dangers of Ignoring Changing Motivations

  • It becomes dangerous when people fail to recognize their diminishing hunger and motivation.
  • Some individuals continue to start new businesses even though they no longer need it, leading to potential failure.
  • Taking on new challenges or "moonshots" can reignite motivation and hunger for success.
  • Elon Musk's example of buying Twitter after becoming the richest man in the world showcases his desire for big, scary goals.

Insatiable Hunger for More

  • Successful individuals often have an insatiable hunger for more achievements.
  • Most people would quit pursuing ambitious goals once they reach a net worth of 10 million or less, but those with higher net worths continue pushing themselves.
  • Meeting billionaires who were still driven by competition rather than money highlighted their relentless pursuit of success.

The Mindset of Successful Individuals

  • Successful individuals possess a mindset that drives them beyond contentment with current accomplishments.
  • They are unlikely to retire early or settle for a comfortable life because they thrive on challenges and pushing boundaries.
  • Elon Musk's mindset of taking on giants like GM, Ford, Chrysler, and NASA at a young age exemplifies this relentless pursuit.

The Tortured Nature of Success

  • Many highly successful individuals wake up every morning feeling tortured by the problems they aspire to solve.
  • Biographies of successful people rarely depict a life that sounds great; instead, they reveal the immense pressure and constant drive for improvement.
  • Meeting billionaires who appeared miserable despite their wealth highlighted the sacrifices and challenges they face.

Contrasting Lives of Success

  • Comparing the lives of Tom, the founder of Myspace who sold it for a substantial but not extraordinary sum, and Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Facebook, showcases different levels of stress and pressure.
  • Tom enjoys an apparently amazing life traveling with his girlfriend based on his Instagram posts.
  • In contrast, Mark Zuckerberg faces scrutiny and criticism from Congress while dealing with Facebook's declining stock value.

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This section continues to explore the contrasting lives of success by discussing the experiences of Tom (founder of Myspace) and Mark Zuckerberg (CEO of Facebook). It highlights how external perceptions may differ from internal realities in terms of stress and pressure.

Contrasting Lives After Success

  • Tom, founder of Myspace, appears to live an amazing life filled with travel adventures based on his Instagram posts.
  • In comparison, Mark Zuckerberg faces regular Congressional hearings where he is blamed for societal issues caused by Facebook.
  • Despite facing immense pressure and criticism, Zuckerberg continues to shoulder significant responsibilities.

Personal Preference in Success

  • Given the choice between Tom's seemingly carefree life with $50 million or Mark Zuckerberg's stressful position as CEO of Facebook, personal preferences may vary.
  • Each individual has different priorities when it comes to success and happiness.

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The Relationship Between Challenge and Motivation

In this section, the speaker discusses the relationship between challenge and motivation, drawing insights from psychology and game psychology.

The Need for Increasing Challenge Levels to Stay Engaged

  • When people are not sufficiently challenged, they tend to lose motivation.
  • To stay engaged with a task, the level of challenge needs to increase gradually.
  • This concept can be observed in game psychology where levels become progressively harder to maintain engagement.

CEOs and Their Growing Challenge Appetite

  • Successful CEOs often develop an increasing appetite for challenges.
  • They constantly seek bigger problems to solve and stay engaged.
  • Examples like Bill Gates demonstrate how successful individuals transition from one challenge to another without retiring or settling.

The Addiction to Challenges

  • The speaker suggests that everyone has a certain level of addiction to challenges.
  • Even though extreme examples like Elon Musk and Bill Gates exist, this applies to most individuals.
  • Minimum stress or conflict is necessary for personal growth and fulfillment.

Creating Fake Problems Due to Lack of Real Challenges

This section explores the idea that some individuals create fake problems when they lack real challenges in their lives.

Dreaming of Eliminating Stress vs. Embracing It

  • Many people dream of eliminating stress entirely from their lives.
  • However, stress and challenges are essential for personal development.
  • Some individuals who lack real challenges may invent trivial problems as a substitute for genuine stress.

Complacency and Overconfidence Among Successful Individuals

This section discusses complacency and overconfidence as potential pitfalls for successful individuals.

Falling Victim to One's Own Correctness

  • Successful people can become victims of their own correctness.
  • Being right in several decisions can lead to overconfidence and assumptions of being right in other areas as well.
  • This can be detrimental when individuals venture into unfamiliar territories without recognizing the role luck may have played.

Overconfidence and Investing

  • Many successful professionals, such as doctors, may exhibit overconfidence in unrelated fields like investing.
  • Assuming intelligence in one area translates to expertise in another can lead to poor decision-making.
  • The speaker highlights the example of doctors who believe their success qualifies them to pick stocks.

The Story of Jesse Livermore: Success and Failure

This section recounts the story of Jesse Livermore, a highly successful investor who experienced repeated cycles of success and failure.

Jesse Livermore's Financial Rollercoaster

  • In the 1920s, Jesse Livermore was considered the most successful investor globally.
  • Despite his ability to make money, he had no skill at preserving it.
  • He became a billionaire multiple times but went bankrupt on four separate occasions.
  • Livermore's insatiable desire for more wealth led him to take greater risks each time.
  • Ultimately, his inability to know when enough was enough resulted in his tragic downfall.

Increasing Confidence vs. Increasing Ability

This section explores how increasing success can boost confidence more than actual ability, leading individuals into potential pitfalls.

The Paradox of Success and Confidence

  • As individuals experience more success, their confidence tends to increase disproportionately compared to their actual abilities.
  • People often fail to recognize this problem since they attribute their confidence solely to their skills and knowledge.
  • Increased success increases the likelihood that overconfidence will eventually lead to failure.

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The Importance of Humility in Success

In this section, the speaker discusses the significance of humility in achieving success and how it can help individuals stay grounded.

Humility as a Counterbalance to Overconfidence

  • Humility plays a crucial role in counterbalancing overconfidence.
  • It is important to remind oneself of humility even after achieving success.
  • Roman warriors had someone whispering in their ear during parades to remind them that they are not as great as they may think.
  • Great entrepreneurs and investors often have partners who keep them grounded and challenge their ideas.

Sponsorship Interruption - British Airways

This section includes a sponsorship interruption by British Airways, promoting their business class sale and travel packages.

British Airways Business Class Sale

  • The British Airways business class sale offers significant savings on return flights to destinations like New York, Boston, and Chicago.
  • Travel packages to both the USA and Europe are also available at discounted rates.
  • Flying business class with British Airways provides a unique experience beyond comfortable seating, including personalized service and premium amenities.

Sponsorship Interruption - Eight Sleep

In this section, the speaker introduces Eight Sleep as a sponsor and highlights the benefits of their product for improving sleep quality.

Eight Sleep Pod Cover for Better Sleep

  • The Eight Sleep Pod Cover is a fitted sheet that controls bed temperature throughout the night based on natural sleep rhythms.
  • It starts cool, gets colder during different sleep phases, and slightly heats up upon waking up for a more restorative sleep experience.
  • Quality sleep is considered one of the most important factors for overall health and productivity.
  • Listeners can visit 8sleep.com using the provided discount code to save $150 on the Pod cover.

Staying Grounded and Avoiding Blind Spots

In this section, the speaker reflects on the importance of staying humble and self-aware, especially during moments of success, to avoid blind spots.

The Danger of Overconfidence

  • Confidence derived from success can lead to blind spots.
  • It is crucial to stay aware of these blind spots in various areas of life.
  • Saving money and being financially prepared for potential setbacks is a form of humility.
  • A quote from Denzel Washington emphasizes that high points in one's career can be vulnerable moments where overconfidence can lead to trouble.

False Humility vs. Genuine Humility

This section explores the difference between false humility and genuine humility, emphasizing the importance of maintaining authenticity.

Differentiating False Humility

  • False humility involves denying personal contributions and attributing success solely to luck.
  • Genuine humility acknowledges personal achievements while recognizing fallibility.
  • Striving for genuine humility helps individuals maintain perspective and avoid arrogance.

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The Cost of Success and Volatility

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of volatility as a cost of admission to wealth and success. They emphasize that there is always a cost associated with achieving anything good in life, such as enduring unknowns, volatility, booms, busts, and other challenges in investing, career, and relationships.

Understanding the Cost of Success

  • Volatility is seen as a necessary part of achieving wealth and success.
  • Success in investing requires putting up with market volatility.
  • A successful career may require sacrificing long hours away from family.
  • Relationships often involve compromise and sacrifice for the other person.

Identifying Worthwhile Costs

  • It is important to identify the costs associated with different aspects of life.
  • Putting up with stock market fluctuations can be worth it in the long run.
  • The compromises made for successful relationships are often worthwhile.
  • Recognizing time horizons helps determine what costs are worth paying.

Understanding Time Horizons

This section focuses on understanding time horizons and their importance in setting goals. The speaker explains that everyone has different time horizons based on their goals and circumstances. They share personal examples of various time horizons they have set for themselves.

Defining Time Horizons

  • Time horizon refers to the amount of time between now and a specific goal.
  • Time horizons vary for each individual based on factors like age or retirement plans.
  • Personal examples include career milestones, being present for children during their teenage years, transitioning to new endeavors after accomplishing current goals, and taking care of aging parents.

Buying a House as a Financial Decision

This section explores whether buying a house is a good or bad financial decision. The speaker shares their personal experience and perspective on the matter, highlighting the importance of considering individual circumstances and priorities.

Personal Experience with Homeownership

  • In their 20s and early 30s, the speaker valued the flexibility of renting in different cities.
  • After having children, having an established home base became more important.
  • Stability for children's education, neighbors, and long-term friendships became a priority.
  • The speaker's brother advised against buying houses solely for financial gain.

Renting vs Buying with Kids

This section discusses the considerations between renting and buying a home when raising children. The speaker shares their perspective on stability being crucial when kids are involved.

Stability for Children

  • Having stable schools, knowing neighbors, and long-lasting friendships become important with kids.
  • While investing in real estate can be financially beneficial, stability takes precedence when raising children.
  • The speaker acknowledges differing opinions on renting versus buying but emphasizes the importance of considering personal circumstances.

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Renting vs Buying a House

In this section, the speaker discusses the common mistake of buying a house for financial gain instead of considering the practicality and stability it offers.

Renting vs Buying

  • Many people make the mistake of buying a house when they should be renting due to their need for mobility.
  • The speaker owns a house but emphasizes that making money from it is not the primary reason for owning it.
  • Owning a house provides stability for the family rather than being an investment opportunity.
  • The decision to buy a house is often driven by emotional and social factors rather than financial ones.
  • Historical data shows that housing prices, adjusted for inflation, have remained relatively flat over time.
  • Owning a house has only recently been seen as a profitable investment, which is an anomaly in historical trends.

Rentals as Viable Options

This section highlights how rentals have evolved over time and are now viable options with luxury apartments available in city centers.

Changing Perception of Rentals

  • In the past, rentals were often associated with low-quality housing options.
  • However, in recent years, many cities offer luxury apartments in city centers as rental options.
  • People should not fall into the misconception that renting means compromising on quality of life.
  • Financially, borrowing large sums of money for an investment like buying a house may not be wise given its historical performance.

The Power of Storytelling

The speaker emphasizes the power of storytelling in various aspects such as entrepreneurship, investing, pitching, and sales.

The Best Story Wins

  • Leading with facts and figures may not be as effective as telling compelling stories when it comes to entrepreneurship or sales.
  • The best story is not necessarily the one with the right or best answer, but the one that resonates with people and gets them to nod in agreement.
  • Examples of successful storytelling can be seen in the work of renowned documentary filmmaker Ken Burns.

Introduction to "The Best Story Wins"

The speaker introduces their new book, which explores timeless aspects of life through 23 short stories.

"The Best Story Wins" Book

  • The book consists of 23 short stories that delve into unchanging elements of life.
  • One key theme explored is the power and impact of storytelling in various domains.
  • The ability to tell engaging stories is highlighted as a valuable skill for success in entrepreneurship, investing, pitching, and sales.

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The Power of Storytelling

In this section, the speaker discusses the influence of storytelling and how it can captivate people's attention. They highlight examples such as comedians who use storytelling to make people laugh and engage with their content. The speaker also warns about the dangers of stories that cater to what people want to hear, even if they are not true.

The Influence of Storytelling

  • Good storytelling can attract people's attention and make them interested in what you have to say.
  • Comedians excel at storytelling, taking simple and obvious things and turning them into humorous narratives.
  • Stories have a way of capturing people's attention and making them remember what was said.
  • People tend to believe stories that align with their desires or beliefs, even if they are false.

The Danger of Catering to What People Want to Hear

  • Some dangerous stories emerge when people tell others what they want to hear.
  • An example is the false claim that vaccines cause autism, which some individuals wanted to believe.
  • When you tell people what they want to hear, they may continue believing it even if it is incorrect.

The Power of Compounding Interest

This section explores the concept of compounding interest in both positive and negative aspects. It emphasizes how good news often compounds slowly over time while bad news tends to happen quickly. The speaker also mentions how we often focus on compounding things in our favor but overlook the negative impacts that can compound against us.

Positive Compounding Interest

  • Good news usually happens gradually over time through compounding effects.
  • An example is the significant improvement in heart disease mortality rates over the past 70 years, saving millions of lives.
  • However, these positive changes often go unnoticed because they occur slowly and are not highlighted in news headlines.

Negative Compounding Interest

  • Bad news tends to happen suddenly and has a more immediate impact.
  • Examples include sudden outbreaks like the COVID-19 pandemic or events like 9/11.
  • We tend to focus on positive compounding but overlook how negative factors can compound against us.
  • Health-related issues, such as smoking, can have catastrophic effects when compounded over time.

The Skew of News Towards Negativity

This section discusses how news tends to skew towards negativity due to the nature of what is considered newsworthy. Bad news often happens quickly and grabs attention, while good news compounds slowly over time. Understanding this bias helps explain why most news stories lean towards negative narratives.

News Bias Towards Negative Events

  • Most news stories focus on negative events because they tend to happen suddenly and grab attention.
  • Good news, which compounds gradually, often goes unnoticed or is not deemed newsworthy.
  • Headlines rarely highlight incremental improvements or positive changes that occur over time.

Impact on Perception

  • Recognizing the bias towards negative news helps understand why the majority of news seems negative.
  • It is not necessarily a deliberate manipulation by producers but rather a reflection of what is happening in real-time.
  • Positive changes may go unnoticed because they do not generate immediate attention-grabbing headlines.

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The Power of Compounding

In this section, the speaker discusses the concept of compounding returns and its importance. They explain how compounding can be difficult to understand but is incredibly powerful. They use examples like the rice experiment and mathematical calculations to illustrate the exponential growth potential of compounding.

Explaining Compounding to a Child

  • The speaker suggests using a simple example like the rice experiment to explain compounding to an eight-year-old or someone unfamiliar with the concept.
  • They mention the story of putting one grain of rice on the first square of a chessboard, two on the second square, four on the third, and so on. By the end of the chessboard, it becomes more rice than exists in the entire world.
  • The idea is that when something doubles repeatedly, it grows exponentially, which can be counterintuitive for our minds.

Exponential Thinking vs Linear Thinking

  • The speaker highlights that our minds are not naturally inclined towards exponential thinking.
  • They compare adding numbers (e.g., 8 + 8 + 8 + 8) with multiplying numbers (e.g., 8 x 8 x 8 x 8). While addition is relatively easy for most people, multiplication becomes much more challenging.
  • Exponential thinking is not intuitive because our minds tend to think linearly.
  • This lack of intuitive understanding leads us to underestimate both positive and negative outcomes over time.

Compounding as a Mathematical Religion

  • The speaker suggests that understanding compounding requires adopting it as a "mathematical religion."
  • Similar to religious beliefs that may seem counterintuitive but require faith, compounding's power may also seem unbelievable until one embraces it through mathematical calculations and evidence.

Importance of Discomfort and Overcoming Challenges

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the significance of discomfort and challenges in personal growth and societal progress. They discuss how periods of stress, pain, and uncertainty can lead to transformative experiences and advancements.

When the Magic Happens

  • The speaker introduces the concept that "when the magic happens" is often during times of stress, pain, discomfort, shock, or disgust.
  • These challenging experiences have downsides but also serve as catalysts for personal growth and positive change.
  • They draw parallels between personal growth and societal progress.

It's Supposed to be Hard

  • The speaker highlights that most worthwhile pursuits come with a cost in terms of stress, uncertainty, dealing with difficult people, bureaucracy, conflicting incentives, hassle, long hours, and constant doubt.
  • These challenges are considered overhead costs for achieving success or getting ahead.

Disasters and Technological Progress

  • The speaker mentions that significant improvements in society often arise from disasters or crises.
  • They give examples like World War I and World War II leading to technological advancements such as atomic energy, jets, penicillin, etc.
  • During these periods of crisis or disaster, people come together to solve problems collectively.

Personal Transformations through Challenges

  • The speaker explains that on a personal level too, challenges can lead to positive transformations.
  • Job layoffs, breakups, medical emergencies are cited as examples of life events that can change individuals for the better.
  • While it may be difficult to see the silver lining in such moments initially, hindsight often reveals their value.

Finding Gratitude in Dark Moments

In this section,the speaker discusses finding gratitude even in the darkest moments. They share an example where someone expressed gratitude for a tragic event because it allowed them to understand others' emotions better. The idea is that even in the deepest, darkest moments, there can be unexpected positive outcomes.

Finding Gratitude in Tragedy

  • The speaker shares the story of Steven Coar, who experienced the tragic deaths of his father and brother when he was young.
  • Despite the immense pain and loss, Coar expressed gratitude for the experience because it allowed him to empathize with others who had gone through similar situations.
  • This example illustrates how even in the most challenging times, there can be hidden opportunities for growth and connection.

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The Impact of Breakups on Career

In this section, the speaker discusses how a breakup can be both challenging and transformative for one's career. They emphasize that although it may be difficult to see in the moment, a breakup can ultimately lead to positive changes and personal growth.

The Transformative Power of Breakups

  • A breakup can be the hardest experience one goes through but also the best thing that happens in hindsight.
  • The speaker believes that magic happens when things get tough, even though it may seem impossible to see during the process.

Conclusion on Wealth Creation and Money

In this section, the speaker reflects on the conversation and offers their conclusion regarding wealth creation and money. They highlight that their books do not provide specific advice but aim to encourage readers to think differently about their lives.

Reflecting on Life and Personal Choices

  • The books discussed in this conversation are intended to make readers think about their lives from a different perspective.
  • The speaker emphasizes that there is no specific advice given in these books because everyone's life is unique, and they cannot dictate what others should do.
  • Instead of providing advice, the goal is to prompt readers to reflect on what they want, who they are, and what they are capable of achieving.

Regrets and Lessons Learned

In this section, the speaker shares their thoughts on regrets in life. They discuss how mild depression and anxiety have influenced their perspective. They also express a desire to have reassured themselves during difficult times.

Dealing with Regret and Anxiety

  • The speaker admits being prone to mild depression and anxiety throughout life.
  • They express a wish to go back in time and reassure themselves that everything will be okay, even during challenging periods.
  • Reflecting on wasted time spent worrying about things that never happened, the speaker acknowledges the need to accept uncertainty and find happiness in the present.

The Power of Stories and Enduring Principles

In this section, the speaker discusses their approach to writing and how stories can convey valuable lessons. They also highlight the enduring principles found in their books.

Writing with Stories and Enduring Principles

  • The speaker's books do not provide direct advice but instead rely on storytelling to convey insights.
  • They appreciate that advice can be derived from the stories shared and evidence provided.
  • The books aim to capture enduring principles that apply to various aspects of life, including money, relationships, and personal growth.

Appreciation for the Conversation

In this section, both speakers express gratitude for having had this conversation. They discuss the impact of the book and its potential to bring happiness to readers' lives.

Gratitude for a Meaningful Conversation

  • The guest expresses appreciation for being part of this conversation and acknowledges how much they have gained from it.
  • They mention feeling honored by having written a book that may have positively impacted readers' lives.
  • Both speakers encourage listeners to explore both books discussed in this conversation as they believe they offer valuable insights into money, life, relationships, and enduring principles.

Sponsorship Message

In this section, there is a sponsorship message related to health products. It is not directly related to the content of the conversation.

Sponsorship Message - Health Products

  • A sponsorship message is given regarding a ready-to-drink range of nutritionally complete meals.
  • The product is described as a convenient and healthy option for busy individuals.
  • A link is provided in the description for those interested in trying the product.

Podcast Recommendation

In this section, a podcast recommendation is given. It is not directly related to the content of the conversation.

Podcast Recommendation

  • Listeners are encouraged to explore another recent episode that has been linked in the description.
  • The suggestion is based on the observation that people who enjoyed this episode tend to love the recommended one as well.

Conclusion

This section concludes the transcript by summarizing its content and providing final thoughts.

Final Thoughts

  • The transcript provides insights into various aspects of life, including career, wealth creation, personal growth, and enduring principles.
  • The guest expresses gratitude for having had this conversation and acknowledges how much they have gained from it.
  • Both speakers encourage listeners to explore the books discussed as they believe they offer valuable perspectives on money, life, relationships, and personal growth.
Video description

If you enjoy hearing about how to master the world of finance, I recommend you check out my conversation with Ramit Sethi, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORqd9QAC8OY 00:00 Intro 02:23 Why Do You Write Books About Money? 04:14 The Psychology of Money & What Wealth Really Means 10:53 Why Not Having Control in Your Life Is Making You Unhealthy and Unhappy 14:05 Why You Need to Learn to Stop Pushing Your Financial Goals 18:20 The First and Most Important Rule of Happiness 22:16 The Most Valuable Financial Skill Anyone Can Have 25:35 The Most Important Saying for a Relationship or Career 27:48 Why Low Income People Are More Reckless With Money 32:17 How to Learn to Finally Save Your Money 35:55 A Tragic Incident That Taught Me My Most Valuable Lesson About Money 41:33 Investing and the Biggest Mistake Most People Make 45:55 The Best Advice on How to Invest Your Money 51:58 The Janitor That Became a Multimillionaire 54:41 Pensions 56:28 How Do We Know When Enough Is Enough? 59:34 Should We Save Our Money for Our Children? 01:03:19 Why You Should Never Check Up on Your Investments 01:07:34 The Benefits of Not Working for Big Companies 01:08:58 Why Everyone Is Bullshitting Their Way Through Investing 01:11:27 Why You Should Take That Risk 01:17:32 The Best Bit of Advice I Ever Received 01:26:15 The Biggest Factor That Will Ensure You Lose Your Money 01:31:48 The Confidence Rule Around Your Finances You Need to Know 01:41:55 The Power of a Great Story 01:44:42 The Power of Compounding Interest 01:50:15 Bad Times Often Change Us for Good 01:53:03 Wealth Creation Conclusion 01:53:57 The Last Guest’s Question You can purchase Morgan’s most recent book, ‘Same as Ever: Timeless Lessons on Risk, Opportunity and Living a Good Life’, here: https://amzn.to/467d77x Follow Morgan: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3spU4HK Twitter: https://bit.ly/40mE6uF Flightfund: https://flightfund.com/ My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://x.com/StevenBartlett?s=20 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsors: British Airways: https://www.britishairways.com/en-gb/offers/sale Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Eightsleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/ CODE: STEVEN (save $150 on the Pod Cover)