Verna Myers: How to overcome our biases? Walk boldly toward them

Road Trip and "The Warmth of Other Suns"

The speaker shares their experience of listening to Isabel Wilkerson's book, "The Warmth of Other Suns," during a road trip. The book documents the migration of six million black people from the South to the North between 1915 and 1970.

• The book highlights the resilience and brilliance of African-Americans.

• It portrays the brutality faced by black people in the South, leading them to seek better opportunities up North.

Horrors and Stories

The speaker reflects on how difficult it was to hear about the horrors faced by black people while listening to the book.

• The stories included beatings, burnings, and lynchings of black men.

• The speaker finds it challenging to confront such violence against black men that has persisted for centuries.

Ferguson Incident

The speaker mentions hearing about the Ferguson incident while trying to take a break from listening to distressing stories in the book.

• Refers to Michael Brown, an unarmed 18-year-old black man shot by a white police officer in Ferguson, Missouri.

• Describes how his body remained on the ground for four hours as his family and neighbors watched in horror.

History Repeating Itself

Reflecting on historical incidents of violence against black men, the speaker emphasizes that these incidents are not isolated but part of a recurring pattern.

• Mentions other victims like Amadou Diallo, Sean Bell, Oscar Grant, and Trayvon Martin.

• Highlights that this violence is deeply ingrained in society's collective history.

Stereotypes and Prejudices

The speaker discusses how stereotypes and prejudices against young black men contribute to tragic incidents.

• Acknowledges the existence of stereotypes that lead people to cross the street, lock doors, or clutch purses when encountering young black men.

• Believes that these biases need to be addressed in order to prevent such incidents from happening.

Call to Action

The speaker presents three actions that can help reform society's perception of young black men and prevent incidents like Ferguson from recurring.

• Urges individuals to look within themselves and be willing to change.

• Calls for a collective effort to challenge stereotypes and prejudices.

• Expresses hope for a future where young black men are embraced, protected, and given equal opportunities.

Number One: Getting Out of Denial

The speaker emphasizes the importance of acknowledging biases instead of denying their existence.

• Encourages individuals not just to strive for being "good" but to recognize their own biases.

• Shares personal experience of realizing an unconscious bias towards male pilots during a turbulent flight.

Implicit Association Test

The speaker mentions the Implicit Association Test as a tool for measuring unconscious bias.

• Explains that the test reveals a preference for white people among both white and black participants.

• Highlights the need to address automatic associations made by our brains based on race.

Default Associations

The speaker prompts listeners to reflect on their default associations with certain groups of people.

• Asks questions about trust, fear, connection, and avoidance towards different racial groups.

• Encourages self-reflection to challenge and change default associations.

Overcoming Bias

The speaker acknowledges the challenge of overcoming biases and suggests doubling down on color blindness is not the solution.

• Shares findings from the Implicit Association Test, indicating a preference for white people.

• Encourages individuals to actively work towards challenging and changing their biases.

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The Urgency of Intersectionality Understanding Racial Difference

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing and understanding racial difference in order to address the challenges faced by marginalized communities.

Recognizing Racial Difference

• Scientists argue against color blindness and suggest actively acknowledging racial differences.

• Staring at awesome black people helps dissociate automatic associations in our brains.

• The speaker presents images of successful black men to challenge stereotypes.

Resetting Automatic Assumptions

• The speaker aims to reset automatic associations about who black men are.

• By challenging stereotypes, we can change our assumptions temporarily.

• Comparing odious white individuals with fabulous black individuals can cause disassociation.

Challenging Bias and Stereotypes

• It is important to seek out bias and disconfirming data that prove old stereotypes wrong.

• Instead of avoiding young black men, we should move towards them.

• The speaker shares a personal experience where biases influenced her initial reaction.

Building Authentic Relationships

• We should go beyond superficial interactions and build authentic relationships with people from different backgrounds.

• Expanding social and professional circles helps challenge stereotypes and see the holistic person.

• The speaker encourages individuals to walk towards discomfort and expand their perspectives.

Empathy, Compassion, and Advocacy

• Genuine connections with others lead to empathy, compassion, advocacy, and allyship.

• Young black men are encouraged to accept genuine invitations from others who see their humanity.

• By stepping out of our comfort zones, we can work towards preventing incidents like Ferguson.

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When to Speak Up Against Bias and Racism

In this section, the speaker emphasizes the importance of speaking up against bias and racism during family gatherings. They highlight the need to address problematic statements made by loved ones and create a dialogue that challenges these biases.

Speaking Up at the Table

• During family gatherings, it is crucial to listen to conversations around the table.

• Although we may love our family members, it is important to recognize when they say something wrong or biased.

• The presence of children at the table makes it even more essential to address biases and prevent them from being passed down through generations.

Challenging Biases for a Better Future

• We must be willing to speak up and correct our loved ones when they express biased views.

• It is necessary to expose children to the realities of racism rather than sheltering them from it, especially for black parents who do not have that luxury.

• While progress has been made, there are still deep-rooted biases in society that perpetuate disparities and devalue young black men.

• We should encourage young black men to be agents of change in fighting against injustice and creating a society where they are seen for their true selves.

Celebrating Black Excellence

• Black men contribute significantly in various fields such as statesmanship, military service, labor, preaching, science, art, writing, comedy, and family roles.

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