How to get your ex back (even after you messed up)

How to Get Your Ex Back

This video provides helpful advice for women who want to get their ex back. It covers common mistakes to avoid and steps to take in order to increase the chances of winning back an ex-partner.

Mistakes to Avoid

• Dangerous Mistake #1: Constantly calling and texting your ex demonstrates neediness and insecurity, pushing them further away.

• Dangerous Mistake #2: Begging and using pity will not change the reasons for the breakup and only make you appear weak and insecure.

• Dangerous Mistake #3: Allowing your ex to walk all over you makes you a doormat and diminishes their respect for you.

• Dangerous Mistake #4: Showering your ex with affection won't change their decision to break up if they already know how much you love them.

• Dangerous Mistake #5: Freaking out when your ex starts dating someone else is counterproductive as most rebound relationships end sooner rather than later.

• Dangerous Mistake #6: Name-calling and rage rarely produce positive results, as it reinforces negative memories of fights and arguments.

Steps to Take

Step 1 - Disconnect from Your Ex

• Temporarily suspend all communication with your ex, including calls, texts, social media messages, or trying to meet through mutual friends.

• Giving your ex space allows them to let go of negative memories and potentially start missing you. It also gives you time to focus on yourself.

Step 2 - Focus on Self-Improvement

• Use the no contact period to build self-confidence and become an attractive, happy person.

• Make positive changes in your appearance, mindset, behavior, and habits.

• Take this time to have fun and enjoy life without relying on your ex for happiness.

Step 3 - Become Someone Your Ex Can't Resist

• During the no contact period, make positive changes in your life that will make your ex see you in a new light.

• Balance grieving and reflection with activities that bring you joy and help you regain your individuality.

• Focus on personal growth, both internally (mindset, confidence) and externally (appearance), to increase your attractiveness to your ex.

The transcript is already in English language.

New Section

This section discusses the importance of contacting your ex after a period of no contact, and provides guidance on when and how to do so.

Contacting Your Ex

• It is important to wait until you are ready to handle the situation without becoming needy or desperate again. This is more important than waiting for the perfect timing when they will miss you the most.

• The best method of communication is sending a quick text message to your ex after a period of no contact. This message serves three purposes:

• Letting your ex know that you have accepted the breakup and think it's for the best.

• Expressing regret for any inappropriate actions taken following the breakup.

• Informing them of some exciting events in your life, keeping it brief.

Meeting Up with Your Ex

• The next step is to meet up with your ex in order to build attraction, connection, and trust.

• When meeting up, it's important to talk about getting back together only when the time feels right. If you want to learn sneaky reverse psychology tactics to change how your ex feels about you during this meeting, click on the provided link.