Robert Greene - How To Seduce Anyone With Psychology
The Art of Seduction
In this section, the speaker talks about how to connect with people and get them to open up by asking subtle questions about their childhood. He also discusses the power of planting seeds in a person's mind and eliminating anti-seductive tendencies.
Connecting with People
- People are like an undiscovered world, and everyone has emotional attachments to their experiences as a child.
- Get people to talk about their childhood without being too inquisitive. Ask leading questions and let them do most of the talking.
- Mirroring people is a powerful way of connecting with them. If they tell you something powerful about their childhood, say that you had something similar happen to you.
Planting Seeds
- When someone says something strong or disturbing but then tells you to forget about it, the seed has been planted in your mind.
- Insinuation is never direct; it can be in your body language or your eyes while your words remain neutral.
- Eliminate anti-seductive tendencies such as talking too much, preaching, judging people, being brutal with them, being in a hurry, and not listening.
Conclusion
- By following these tips on connecting with people and planting seeds in their minds while eliminating anti-seductive tendencies, you can improve your social interactions.