I am the son of a terrorist. Here's how I chose peace | Zak Ebrahim

I am the son of a terrorist. Here's how I chose peace | Zak Ebrahim

Introduction

The speaker introduces the background story of El-Sayyid Nosair, who assassinated Rabbi Meir Kahane in 1990. The speaker reveals that El-Sayyid Nosair is their father and shares their personal experience growing up in a changing family dynamic.

Growing Up with a Different Perspective on Islam

  • El-Sayyid Nosair's involvement in planning attacks on New York City landmarks.
  • Personal experience of being exposed to a different side of Islam.
  • Noting that people generally want the same things out of life, but there are individuals who use extreme means to impose their beliefs on others.

Exposure to Extremist Beliefs

The speaker reflects on how their father exposed them to extremist beliefs at a young age and how it shaped their perspective.

Understanding Extremism

  • Father's revelation about going to a shooting range for target practice.
  • Shooting experience at Calverton Shooting Range, which was under FBI surveillance.
  • Realization that others saw potential for destruction in them due to their father's actions.
  • Connection between the men involved in the shooting range incident and the World Trade Center bombing.

Influence of Radical Figures

The speaker discusses the influence of radical figures they looked up to and how it affected their upbringing.

Looking Up to Radical Figures

  • Conviction of the men involved in placing explosives at the World Trade Center.
  • Frequent relocations during childhood leading to difficulty making friends.
  • Experience as a target for bullies due to being new and different in each place.
  • Spending time at home reading books and playing video games due to lack of social skills.

Challenging Prejudices

The speaker shares experiences that challenged their prejudices and opened their eyes to different perspectives.

Overcoming Prejudices

  • Participation in the National Youth Convention on youth violence.
  • Developing a friendship with a Jewish classmate, challenging preconceived animosity.
  • Summer job at Busch Gardens exposing them to people from diverse backgrounds.
  • Realizing the kindness and lack of judgment among gay performers at the amusement park.

Intellectual Honesty and Changing Worldview

The speaker discusses how intellectual honesty, influenced by Jon Stewart's show, helped change their worldview.

Changing Worldview

  • Acknowledging Jon Stewart's role in challenging personal bigotry and shaping their perspective.
  • Contrasting stereotypes learned as a child with real-life experiences and interactions.
  • Empathy towards others' suffering due to personal experience with bullying.
  • Appreciation for unexpected sources of inspiration, such as a Jewish comedian.

Conclusion

The speaker concludes by mentioning a conversation with their mother about the changing worldview and the impact it had on them.

Zak Ebrahim's Journey of Peace and Hope

Zak Ebrahim shares his personal story of overcoming violence and intolerance, and how he uses his experience to fight against terrorism.

Changing Identity for a New Life

  • Zak Ebrahim changed his name when his family decided to disconnect from his father and start a new life.
  • He risks putting himself in danger by sharing his story in the hopes that someone who is compelled to use violence may hear it and realize there is a better way.
  • Despite being subjected to a violent ideology, Zak did not become fanaticized. Instead, he chooses to fight back against terrorism and bigotry.

Speaking Out Against Terrorism

  • Zak speaks out for the victims of terrorism and their loved ones who have experienced terrible pain and loss.
  • He condemns his father's actions and stands as proof that violence is not inherent in one's religion or race.
  • The son does not have to follow the ways of his father.

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Channel: TED
Video description

If you’re raised on dogma and hate, can you choose a different path? Zak Ebrahim was just seven years old when his father helped plan the 1993 World Trade Center bombing. His story is shocking, powerful, and ultimately, inspiring. TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more. Find closed captions and translated subtitles in many languages at http://www.ted.com/translate Follow TED news on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/tednews Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector