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The keys to a great conversation | Celeste Headlee
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The keys to a great conversation | Celeste Headlee

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In this section, the speaker introduces the importance of effective communication and shares ten basic rules for better conversations.

Rule 1: Don't Multitask

  • Multitasking hinders presence in a conversation.
  • Being fully present enhances the quality of interactions.

Rule 2: Avoid Pontification

  • Encourages avoiding one-sided opinions without room for discussion.
  • Suggests writing a blog if expressing opinions without dialogue is preferred.

Rule 3: Use Open-ended Questions

  • Advocates for starting questions with who, what, where, when, why, or how.
  • Emphasizes that open-ended questions lead to more engaging responses.

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The speaker continues to elaborate on additional rules for engaging conversations.

Rule 4: Go with the Flow

  • Advises letting passing thoughts leave the mind during conversations.
  • Staying flexible and adaptable in discussions is key.

Rule 5: Admit When You Don't Know

  • Encourages honesty by admitting lack of knowledge.
  • Highlights the value of caution in speech rather than empty talk.

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Further exploration of essential rules for meaningful conversations is provided by the speaker.

Rule 6: Acknowledge Individual Experiences

  • Emphasizes that everyone's experiences are unique and should not be equated.
  • Reminds that conversations are not opportunities for self-promotion.

Rule 7: Avoid Repetition

  • Discourages repeating oneself as it can be condescending and uninteresting.
  • Reiterates the importance of maintaining fresh dialogue.

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The speaker concludes with two final rules crucial for successful communication exchanges.

Rule 8: Stay Concise

  • Urges staying out of unnecessary details like dates and names during conversations.
  • Focuses on personal connection over trivial specifics.

Rule 9: Listen Actively

  • Quotes Buddha on learning through listening rather than speaking.
Channel: TED
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Watch the full talk: https://tedtalks.social/conversation A clip from Celeste Headlee's TED Talk "10 ways to have a better conversation" from TEDxCreativeCoast 2015 When your job hinges on how well you talk to people, you learn a lot about how to have conversations -- and that most of us don't converse very well. Celeste Headlee has worked as a radio host for decades, and she knows the ingredients of a great conversation: Honesty, brevity, clarity and a healthy amount of listening. In this insightful talk, she shares useful rules for having better conversations. The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. You're welcome to link to or embed these videos, forward them to others and share these ideas with people you know. Become a TED Member: http://ted.com/membership Follow TED on Twitter: http://twitter.com/TEDTalks Like TED on Facebook: http://facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://youtube.com/TED TED's videos may be used for non-commercial purposes under a Creative Commons License, Attribution–Non Commercial–No Derivatives (or the CC BY – NC – ND 4.0 International) and in accordance with our TED Talks Usage Policy (https://www.ted.com/about/our-organization/our-policies-terms/ted-talks-usage-policy). For more information on using TED for commercial purposes (e.g. employee learning, in a film or online course), please submit a Media Request at https://media-requests.ted.com