Una mujer así pone a los hombres de rodillas | Psicología femenina – Nilda Chiaraviglio

Transforming Self-Perception and Relationships

Introduction to the Topic

• Nilda Kiara Biglio introduces herself and promises transformative insights on self-perception and how men perceive women. She encourages viewers to subscribe for unique content that can change their love lives.

• Viewers are urged to share the video with friends who need empowerment, emphasizing the value of the information being shared as "pure gold."

The Concept of a Powerful Woman

• Biglio discusses a type of woman who captivates men, describing her as someone who is not just admired but obsessively thought about by men. This woman is not born; she is constructed through personal development.

• The secret ingredient that differentiates forgettable women from unforgettable ones will be revealed, which does not relate to age, weight, or financial status but rather something much more powerful.

Debunking Myths About Desire

• A significant myth addressed is that desire has an expiration date after certain life milestones (e.g., menopause). Biglio asserts this belief is false; desire does not expire, and one's ability to feel pleasure remains intact regardless of age.

• The limiting belief that one becomes undesirable over time will be discarded, highlighting that neuroplasticity allows individuals to reprogram their beliefs at any age. Science supports this notion through findings in neuroscience.

Understanding Emotional Security

• Men are biologically programmed to respond positively to specific feminine signals—not superficial traits like appearance but deeper qualities such as emotional security and presence. A woman’s inner confidence makes her irresistible.

• Emotional security comes from within; it cannot be validated externally by men or compliments but stems from deep self-awareness and self-love. This internal state activates a man's primal reward center when he perceives a woman's completeness without needing him for validation.

The Power of Self-Affirmation

• Biglio encourages viewers to declare their identity as empowered women by commenting "I am that woman," reinforcing the idea that words have power in shaping reality and beliefs through intention-driven declarations.

Redirecting Energy Towards Self-Care

• Many women express feeling drained due to past experiences (e.g., raising children, surviving divorces). However, Biglio emphasizes that the issue lies in misdirected energy—investing in others instead of oneself leads to exhaustion.

• By prioritizing self-care and redirecting energy inwardly towards self-love, women can rejuvenate themselves significantly since love for oneself generates infinite energy resources.

The Irresistible Energy of Self-Love

The Power of Self-Respect

• Men are drawn to women who love, care for, and respect themselves; this self-love acts like a magnet.

• A case study is introduced about Patricia, a 52-year-old woman who believed her romantic life was over after a long marriage ended.

Rediscovering Oneself

• Patricia was advised to focus on herself for three months without seeking male attention or dating.

• During this time, she reconnected with her passions such as dance and painting, leading to significant personal transformation.

The Shift in Perception

• After two months, Patricia's newfound energy attracted quality men without her actively seeking them.

• The change came from within; the external shift was merely a reflection of her internal growth.

Emotional Sensitivity of Men

• Men are more sensitive to women's emotional energy than often recognized; they can sense whether a woman feels complete or is seeking validation from them.

• It's crucial to differentiate between wanting and needing a partner; neediness repels while genuine desire attracts.

Understanding Connection vs. Independence

• Wanting someone from a place of abundance creates magnetism; it signifies that one's life is already fulfilling but could be enhanced by companionship.

Embracing Sexuality After 45

The Potential for Enhanced Intimacy

• Many women fear their sexuality post-45 due to insecurities and limiting beliefs, yet this stage can offer profound sexual experiences.

Wisdom Over Youthful Insecurity

• With age comes wisdom and experience that enhance sexual confidence—women no longer feel pressured to please at the expense of their own desires.

Authenticity as an Aphrodisiac

• Mature men find authenticity in women attractive; knowing what one wants in bed is far more appealing than youthful insecurity.

Body Positivity and Acceptance

Reclaiming Body Image

• Many intelligent women struggle with body image issues despite their beauty and value; they often criticize themselves harshly.

Celebrating Life Experiences

• Each mark on the body tells a story of survival and experience—embracing these changes fosters gratitude rather than disdain for one's body.

What Do Men Really Notice in Women?

The Importance of Energy and Attitude

• A woman's energy significantly influences how she carries herself, moves, and interacts with others; men notice this change.

• Physical perfection is less important to men than a woman's attitude; confidence can make a curvy woman more attractive than an insecure model.

• Men perceive femininity, softness, and desire rather than focusing on flaws like cellulite; women often magnify their own perceived imperfections.

Embracing Presence and Pleasure

• The key to sexual pleasure lies in being present in one's body rather than overthinking or worrying about appearance during intimacy.

• Authenticity and presence are what truly captivate men; they remember women who express genuine pleasure without pretense.

• Cultivating this presence becomes easier with age as one realizes the importance of enjoying life and embracing pleasure.

Communication: Clarity vs. Aggression

• Effective communication involves expressing thoughts and feelings clearly rather than from a place of complaint or aggression.

• A calm yet firm approach fosters respect from men, while aggressive communication leads to defensiveness.

• Secure attachment allows for powerful communication free from fear, enabling women to express themselves confidently.

Self-Worth and Validation

• Men are attracted to self-assured women who do not seek constant validation or reassurance about their worth.

• When women stop needing validation, it creates a sense of safety for men, allowing them to be vulnerable without feeling pressured.

Respecting Oneself

• Self-respect is crucial; it manifests through clear boundaries and refusing to accept less than one deserves in relationships.

• Expressing love should come from abundance rather than neediness; this distinction affects how relationships develop.

Understanding Self-Respect and Boundaries in Relationships

The Importance of Self-Respect

• When a man disrespects you and you remain silent, it teaches him that your self-respect is negotiable. If you don't value yourself, why should he?

• Establishing clear boundaries and communicating what you will not tolerate can awaken respect in a partner. It shows that being valued is essential.

The Role of Limits in Relationships

• Men appreciate women with clear limits because it indicates self-awareness. A woman who knows her worth fosters trust in her partner.

• Engaging with the content shared can help spread valuable information to other women who may need it.

Desire vs. Love: Understanding Relationship Dynamics

Differentiating Between Being Desired and Loved

• Many women settle for one aspect (desire or love), but they deserve both. A strong woman demands passion alongside commitment.

• It's a myth that desire fades over time; maintaining passion requires effort and cultivation within the relationship.

Keeping Desire Alive

• To sustain desire, maintain your own interests and passions outside the relationship. Avoid becoming overly predictable or solely focused on family roles.

• True desire thrives on distance and mystery; having your own life keeps your partner engaged and interested.

Navigating Changes During Menopause

Misconceptions About Menopause

• Many women mistakenly believe menopause signals the end of their sexuality, but it's merely a transition rather than an endpoint.

Embracing New Opportunities Post-Menopause

• After menopause, many report improved sexual experiences due to reduced worries about pregnancy and increased privacy.

• While there are changes like decreased natural lubrication, these can be managed with products like lubricants, allowing for continued pleasure.

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