Sólo cambié mi actitud y todo cambió | Juan Bautista Segonds | TEDxSanIsidro

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The speaker begins by emphasizing the importance of speaking from the heart and connecting with emotions. He asks the audience about their perception of society and happiness, highlighting the prevalence of negative views. The speaker introduces the concept of a crisis-oriented mind and discusses societal tendencies towards complaining, making demands, and having opinions about everything.

Understanding Our Society

• Science has shown that our thoughts and emotions emit electromagnetic frequencies.

• Our emotions are proven to be a thousand times stronger than our thoughts in terms of emitted frequency.

• The speaker emphasizes the importance of speaking from the heart rather than being trapped in the mind.

• Society is often perceived as separated, stressed, confused, aggressive, confrontational, and decadent.

• Despite these negative perceptions, when asked if anyone is happy in the room, most people raise their hands.

• This highlights a discrepancy between individual happiness and societal perceptions.

Crisis-Oriented Mind

• The speaker introduces the concept of a crisis-oriented mind prevalent in society.

• People tend to focus on what is missing or wrong rather than acknowledging positive aspects.

• Media plays a role in shaping this mindset by predominantly presenting negative news.

• Sports that are currently "in fashion" include complaining, making demands, having opinions about everything.

Complaining as a National Sport

• Complaining has become a common behavior in society.

• People complain about various aspects such as weather, traffic, country issues, and personal relationships.

• It has become almost expected to have something to complain about at all times.

Making Demands

• Society has also developed a tendency to constantly make demands for change or improvement.

• This applies to various areas including country issues, society as a whole, personal relationships, and work life.

Having Opinions About Everything

• Individuals feel compelled to have an opinion on every topic, regardless of their knowledge or expertise.

• This tendency to have an opinion about everything is prevalent in society.

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The speaker continues discussing societal tendencies and introduces the concept of "complainerists," "demanderists," and individuals with opinions about everything. He highlights the need for self-awareness and a shift towards a more positive mindset.

Self-Awareness

• The speaker encourages individuals to reflect on their own behaviors and tendencies.

• Recognizing one's own participation in complaining, making demands, and having opinions is crucial.

Shifting Mindset

• To counteract negative societal tendencies, individuals should focus on cultivating a positive mindset.

• This involves being aware of complaints, refraining from excessive demands, and acknowledging limitations in knowledge when forming opinions.

Embracing Happiness

• Despite societal challenges, many individuals still experience personal happiness.

• It is important to recognize and embrace personal happiness even if it does not align with common perceptions of society.

Conclusion

• Society often focuses on what is wrong or missing rather than acknowledging positive aspects.

• Complaining, making demands, and having opinions about everything have become prevalent behaviors.

• Individuals can contribute to positive change by shifting their mindset towards self-awareness and embracing personal happiness.

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The speaker discusses the crisis-oriented mindset prevalent in society and how it leads to a sense of stagnation and exhaustion. They also highlight the negative impact this mindset has on future generations.

Crisis-Oriented Mindset

• The speaker observes that people have developed a crisis-oriented mind, constantly complaining, making demands, and being submerged in opinions.

• This mindset has led to a sort of vital stagnation where individuals feel stuck and exhausted.

• The speaker emphasizes the need for a change in attitude to break free from this mindset.

Impact on Future Generations

• The speaker points out that not only are we leaving behind a society with a moral crisis, but we are also influencing our children's perception of themselves and their future.

• By portraying ourselves as corrupt, liars, and lacking a promising future, we instill these beliefs in our children.

• This negative perception becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, limiting their potential for growth and change.

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The speaker shares their personal journey of realizing the importance of attitude in transforming one's life. They emphasize that while knowledge and skills are important, attitude is what multiplies their impact.

Importance of Attitude

• The speaker initially believed that knowledge and skills were crucial for improving their life situation.

• However, they discovered that while these factors add up to some extent, it is one's attitude that truly multiplies their impact.

• They explain that having a zero or negative attitude makes one ineffective or even detrimental to themselves and others.

• On the other hand, adopting a positive attitude can lead to significant positive changes.

Becoming the Protagonist

• The speaker decided to change their attitude by taking responsibility for their own life instead of playing the victim.

• They became proactive in seeking the changes they desired and started to lead their own life.

• They realized that each individual has their own square meter of influence, where they can choose the energy they want to vibrate.

• By being the leader of their square meter, they set an example for others and create a different world for themselves.

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The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking action and not waiting for others to bring about change. They highlight that our actions and inactions define who we are.

Taking Responsibility

• The speaker asserts that individuals are defined by both their actions and inactions.

• Waiting for someone else to initiate change leads to a sense of being lost.

• It is crucial to take responsibility for one's own actions and contribute positively towards creating a better world.

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The speaker concludes by emphasizing the significance of our choices and actions in shaping our lives.

Our Choices Define Us

• The speaker reiterates that we are not only defined by what we do but also by what we choose not to do.

• Waiting for others to bring about change limits our potential impact on ourselves and society.

• Taking positive action, adopting a proactive attitude, and making responsible choices can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.

[t=0:09:48] La Educación y la Frecuencia Electromagnética

En esta sección, el orador habla sobre la educación y cómo se puede medir de diferentes maneras. También menciona la frecuencia electromagnética generada por nuestros pensamientos y emociones.

La Medición de la Educación

• La educación puede ser medida de diversas formas.

• El país, la sociedad, el trabajo y nuestras relaciones personales pueden influir en nuestra educación.

• También se puede medir la frecuencia electromagnética generada por nuestros pensamientos y emociones.

Los Reclamólogos y Opinólogos

• Muchas veces nos convertimos en "reclamólogos" y "opinólogos", quejándonos y opinando sobre todo.

• La frecuencia electromagnética generada por un pensamiento es mil veces más poderosa que el propio pensamiento.

• Opinamos sobre diversos temas como economía, política, etc., pero si estamos atrapados en nuestra mente, solo recibiremos una parte de la información.

El Compromiso Personal

• Es importante reconocer nuestras limitaciones y no opinar sobre cosas para las cuales no nos sentimos capacitados.

• Debemos comprometernos a hablar desde el corazón y abrirnos a recibir nuevas perspectivas.

[t=0:04:17] El Estancamiento Vital

En esta sección, el orador habla sobre cómo nos hemos estancado vitalmente debido a nuestro enfoque en quejas, reclamos y opiniones negativas.

Los Reclamos Constantes

• Nos hemos convertido en "reclamólogos" constantemente quejándonos y reclamando sobre todo.

• La emoción generada por nuestras quejas tiene una potencia mil veces superior al pensamiento.

El Estancamiento Vital

• Nuestro enfoque en la crisis y las opiniones negativas nos ha llevado a un estancamiento vital.

• Comenzamos el día con cansancio, estrés y una sensación de pérdida de poder.

La Sociedad Actual

• Vivimos en una sociedad enfrentada, confundida, agresiva y revolucionada.

• Si esperamos que todo cambie para estar bien, nunca encontraremos la felicidad.

[t=0:05:10] El Poder Perdido

En esta sección, el orador habla sobre cómo hemos perdido poder debido a nuestra mentalidad enfocada en la crisis y las opiniones negativas.

La Pérdida de Poder

• Nuestra mentalidad enfocada en la crisis nos hace perder poder personal.

• Nos hemos convencido de que no servimos para nada y hemos transmitido esto a nuestros hijos.

El Modelo de Éxito Equivocado

• Hemos hecho creer a nuestros hijos que el modelo de éxito es la fama y el dinero, generando una falta de esperanza en el futuro.

Reflexión Personal

• Es importante reflexionar sobre cómo representamos a nuestra sociedad y qué podemos hacer para cambiarla.

• Debemos dejar de transmitir mensajes negativos y fomentar una mentalidad positiva.

[t=0:06:00] La Crisis Moral

En esta sección, el orador habla sobre cómo nuestra generación ha dejado a la sociedad en una crisis moral y cómo esto afecta nuestra percepción personal.

La Crisis Moral

• Nuestra generación ha dejado a la sociedad en una crisis moral sin precedentes.

• Hemos hecho creer a las personas que somos corruptos, mentirosos y sin futuro.

La Importancia de la Felicidad

• Es importante cuestionarnos si somos felices en esta sociedad y qué podemos hacer para cambiarla.

• Debemos dejar de perpetuar estereotipos negativos y fomentar una cultura de felicidad y alegría.

Reflexión Final

• Debemos tomar conciencia de cómo representamos a nuestra sociedad y qué podemos hacer para generar un cambio positivo.

• Todos tenemos el poder de influir en nuestro entorno y construir un futuro mejor.

Un horror. Esto es la profecía autocumplida.

The speaker expresses their dissatisfaction with their current situation and refers to it as a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Unhappy with the current situation

• The speaker describes their current state as "un horror" (a horror).

• They mention that they were living in a world from which they wanted to escape.

Era importante para salir de ese mundo en el que vivía.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of leaving the world they were living in.

Importance of leaving

• The speaker highlights that it was important for them to leave the world they were living in.

• They imply that staying in that world would have negative consequences.

300 personas Felices Pascuas? No, me dice. que vivía quejándome, que era un infierno.

The speaker reflects on their past behavior of constantly complaining and describes it as living in hell.

Living in constant complaint

• The speaker mentions that there were 300 people wishing them a happy Easter, but instead of appreciating it, they used to complain.

• They describe this behavior as living in hell.

Qué estás esperando. Qué estás emitiendo. Que el talento era importante, tenía que tener talento, tenía que tener experiencia

The speaker questions what one is waiting for and what energy one is emitting. They also emphasize the importance of talent and experience.

Questions about expectations and energy

• The speaker asks what someone is waiting for and what energy they are emitting.

• They mention that talent and experience are important factors.

Tu metro cuadrado que emite. A qué te avocas. Y cada vez me formaba más en esto, veía que todo eso sumaba, todo sumaba.

The speaker talks about the impact of one's energy and focus on their surroundings. They also mention the importance of continuous learning.

Impact of energy and focus

• The speaker refers to one's "metro cuadrado" (personal space) and emphasizes that it emits energy.

• They mention the importance of focusing on something specific.

• The speaker highlights that they kept learning and realized that everything they did added up.

¿Emite respeto? ¿Emite encuentro? Entonces buscaba más conocimiento, más habilidad,

The speaker discusses the importance of emitting respect and creating connections. They also emphasize the pursuit of knowledge and skills.

Emitting respect and creating connections

• The speaker asks if one's energy emits respect and fosters connection.

• They express their desire to acquire more knowledge and skills.

¿Emite gratitud? ¿Emite amor incondicional? Pero un día descubrí algo que es maravilloso.

The speaker questions whether one's energy emits gratitude and unconditional love. They then share a wonderful discovery they made.

Emitting gratitude and unconditional love

• The speaker asks if one's energy expresses gratitude and unconditional love.

• They mention discovering something wonderful but do not provide further details in this section.

¿Qué es lo que estás emitiendo? ¿Qué es lo que hace? Que todas estas cosas suman, pero la actitud multiplica.

The speaker asks what one is emitting and explains that while all the mentioned qualities add up, it is one's attitude that multiplies their impact.

Impact of attitude

• The speaker questions what one is emitting.

• They explain that all the mentioned qualities (respect, connection, gratitude, unconditional love) add up in importance.

• However, they emphasize that it is one's attitude that multiplies their impact.

Porque somos fuente de energía, y de acuerdo a lo que emitis es La actitud multiplica.

The speaker states that we are sources of energy and our attitude determines how much impact we have on others.

Our energy and its impact

• The speaker asserts that we are sources of energy.

• They explain that our attitude determines how much impact we have on others.

Lo que recibis. Y Uds. saben que toda la cantidad por cero da cero. Esto es como AM / FM Si estás en AM y vas de una punta de AM a la otra punta, vas a escuchar radio AM. Ahora si cambias tu frecuencia, pasas a FM hay otra melodía

The speaker uses the analogy of AM/FM radio frequencies to explain how changing our frequency can lead to different experiences in life.

Changing frequencies for different experiences

• The speaker mentions that what we receive depends on what we emit.

• They use the analogy of AM/FM radio frequencies to illustrate this concept.

• If someone stays within the same frequency (AM), they will only hear AM radio stations.

• However, if they change their frequency (to FM), they will experience a different melody or a different reality.

Y es más, en FM las frecuencias que quieras escuchar, podés elegir. Pero si estás en AM, por más que vayas de una punta a la otra, vas a escuchar eso. O sea, el mundo es como nosotros lo creamos. Vivo en el paraíso, pero el infierno está a una decisión. Si arranco a la mañana y empiezo a decir, mi primer partido juego contra mí mismo,

The speaker continues the analogy of AM/FM radio frequencies to explain that we create our own world and can choose our experiences.

Creating our own world

• The speaker explains that in FM frequencies, one can choose which stations to listen to.

• However, if someone is stuck in the AM frequency, they will only hear what is available within that range.

• They emphasize that the world is created by us and that they choose to live in paradise but acknowledge that hell is just one decision away.

• The speaker gives an example of starting the day with negative self-talk about playing against oneself.

Uh me levanto o no me lev

Closing Eyes and Filling the Water Tank

The speaker asks everyone to close their eyes. The translator informs that the water tank has been filled.

Filling the Water Tank

• The speaker asks everyone to close their eyes.

• The translator mentions that the water tank has been filled.

• "Le llenaron el tanque de agua" means that it is now filled with potable water.

Choosing the Path and Celebrating Access to Water

The speaker discusses choosing a path and celebrating access to water.

Choosing the Path

• It is mentioned that they can choose the path they will take in someone's house for the entire week.

Celebrating Access to Water

• There is a celebration because her family and she will have access to water.

• They are happy because they will be able to drink water, whether they go to hell or paradise.