Prince Harry, The Duke of Sussex Talks #Spare with Stephen Colbert - EXTENDED INTERVIEW

Introduction

In this section, Stephen Colbert introduces Prince Harry as his guest on the show.

Introducing Prince Harry

• Stephen introduces Prince Harry as a husband, father, military veteran, and activist.

• He mentions that Prince Harry has three dogs, two kids, and lives in Southern California.

• Stephen refers to him as the Duke of Sussex.

Talking about the Book

In this section, Stephen talks to Prince Harry about his new book and asks him about the different names he goes by.

Different Names for Prince Harry

• Stephen asks Prince Harry about the different names he goes by such as Henry, Harold, H, and Haz.

• Prince Harry reveals that his wife calls him Haz.

• He says that he is okay with being called either Harry or Haz.

Writing an Intimate Memoir

In this section, Stephen talks to Prince Harry about his new book and how it was a cathartic experience for him.

Writing an Intimate Memoir

• Stephen compliments Prince Harry's new book and describes it as fascinating.

• He mentions that there were a lot of sensational leaks leading up to its release.

• Prince Harry admits that writing the book was a cathartic experience for him where he brought up memories he didn't think he had.

Context is Everything

In this section, Stephen talks to Prince Harry about how the British press stripped away context from his story leading up to the release of his book.

Stripping Away Context

• Prince Harry explains how due to leaks from his book, the British press intentionally chose to strip away context from his story and take out individual segments of his life just to make headlines.

• He mentions that after spending two years focused on context and how he was going to share his story, it was hurtful and challenging to see the press take things out of context.

Dishonorable Behavior

In this section, Stephen talks to Prince Harry about the dishonorable behavior he experienced from the British press and palace insiders.

Dishonorable Behavior

• Prince Harry details a lifetime of dishonorable behavior from the British press and palace insiders who not only did not defend him but also planted stories that were derogatory towards him.

• He mentions that there is an active campaign by the royal house to undermine his book and support for it.

• Stephen agrees with Prince Harry's assessment of the British press being vicious towards him.

The Most Dangerous Thing They Told

In this section, Stephen talks to Prince Harry about a dangerous thing that was told about him in relation to his military service.

Dangerous Thing Told About Him

• Prince Harry reveals that one of the most dangerous things they told about him was that he boasted about killing people in Afghanistan.

• Stephen defends Prince Harry's description in his book as a thoughtful one.

The Context

In this section, Prince Harry talks about how the media took his words out of context and how it is dangerous. He also explains why he decided to share his experiences in his book.

Media Taking Words Out of Context

• The media took Prince Harry's words out of context, which is troubling and disturbing.

• They had the whole section but ripped it away and presented only one line.

• This spin on his words is very dangerous because it makes him an increased target, as well as those around him that he loves.

Sharing Experiences in His Book

• Prince Harry decided to share his experiences in his book to be honest and give space for others to share their experiences without shame.

• His goal with sharing that detail is to reduce the number of suicides among veterans.

Previous Article About Killing Taliban

In this section, Prince Harry talks about a previous article from Reuters ten years ago describing how he killed Taliban in Afghanistan.

• An article from Reuters ten years ago described how Prince Harry killed Taliban in Afghanistan.

• The most important thing here is not only the context but also the reason why he decided to share this experience in his book.

• He shared this experience because he wants to reduce the number of suicides among veterans by being honest and giving space for others to share their experiences without shame.

Military Service Saved Him

In this section, Prince Harry talks about how military service saved him and gave him purpose.

• Military service saved Prince Harry's life and gave him purpose greater than himself.

• He found refuge there and was able to be amongst comrades without being treated differently for the first time in his life.

• He continues working with veterans and wounded veterans.

Fascination with His Family

In this section, Prince Harry talks about why people are fascinated with his family and him.

• There has always been a fascination with his family, especially after Princess Diana's death.

• The British public felt they had to parent his brother through their teenage years and were curious about what would happen to him.

• People were also fascinated when he and his wife were being private during COVID in California.

Leaving the UK

In this section, Prince Harry talks about leaving the UK and how it was a real eye-opener for him.

• Prince Harry and his wife left the UK in 2020 and moved to California because they were forced to leave.

• During lockdown, they said literally nothing but still faced relentless media attention.

• He realized that their mere existence outside of institutional control was more of a threat.

The Experience of Abuse and Harassment

In this section, Prince Harry talks about the abuse and harassment he witnessed with his wife and how it affected them.

Witnessing Abuse and Harassment

• Prince Harry witnessed a level of abuse and harassment towards his wife that he had never seen before.

• He believes that the British press is bigoted, and even if he had known, he wouldn't have understood that they could get away with it.

• Despite this, they have created a fantastic life in California.

Understanding His Role in the Family

In this section, Prince Harry discusses when he realized what his role was in the family hierarchy.

Realizing His Role as Spare

• Prince Harry explains that being the spare means being the distraction to the heir.

• He fell for that trap in his teenage years while figuring out his purpose.

Emotional Honesty

In this section, Prince Harry talks about being emotionally honest in his book and interviews.

Being Emotionally Honest

• Prince Harry believes that anyone who suffers from trauma, shock, grief or loss has to put on a brave face.

• He admits that more recently, especially in the last six years, the fracture of his relationship with his brother has affected him and his wife.

• Stephen Colbert notes how emotionally honest Prince Harry is in both his book and interviews.

Relationship with Brother

In this section, Prince Harry discusses how things would be different if Princess Diana were still alive.

Relationship with Brother

• There is talk about a physical fight between him and his brother where he broke a bowl and his necklace.

• Prince Harry admits that the distance between him and his brother would not be the same if Princess Diana were still alive.

• He has felt the presence of his mother in recent years, especially during interviews.

Coping with Grief and Trauma

In this section, the speaker talks about how he coped with grief and trauma after losing his mother at a young age. He also discusses how he dealt with the recent loss of his father and how he found strength in vulnerability.

Coping with Loss

• The speaker and his wife decided they couldn't cope anymore in January 2020.

• The speaker had dreams that his mother was still alive for many years after her death.

• He imagined that she was hiding, taking a break, plotting, planning, and then coming to get him and his brother to get them out of their toxic situation.

• The speaker writes about his brother Willy with love but also mentions the pain caused by frostnip on a delicate part of his anatomy during an expedition to the North Pole.

Power in Sharing

• Sharing memories can make it feel like the person is still alive.

• Being vulnerable can make you feel stronger.

• The speaker participated in a walk to the North Pole without proper training which led to frostnip on a delicate part of his anatomy.

Overall, this section focuses on coping mechanisms for dealing with grief and trauma. It highlights the importance of sharing memories and being vulnerable as well as discussing some personal experiences related to loss.

The Duke of Sussex and the Word [Bleep] Cushion

In this section, Prince Harry talks about a conversation he had with someone who told him that someday the Duke of Sussex would say the word [bleep] cushion to him and it would all make sense.

The Word [Bleep] Cushion

• Prince Harry shares a story about someone telling him that someday the Duke of Sussex was going to say the word [bleep] cushion to him and it would all make sense.

Remembering Queen Elizabeth II

In this section, Prince Harry talks about his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, and shares some heartwarming memories.

Memories of Queen Elizabeth II

• Prince Harry shares a photo of himself with Queen Elizabeth II and talks about how much he loved her sharp wit and sense of humor.

• He remembers her ability to respond to anyone with a completely straight face but totally joking.

• He says that he was genuinely happy for her because she finished life having an amazing life, career, and being buried with her husband.

• Prince Harry talks about how grateful he is for there being less suffering for both his grandparents during these times of global suffering.

Family Photos and Binge Watching Shows

In this section, Prince Harry talks about family photos and watching TV shows at home.

Family Photos

• Prince Harry sees his mother in family photos as their sense of duty is very strong.

Binge Watching Shows

• When asked if they binge-watch shows, Prince Harry says yes.

• He confirms that he has watched The Crown and fact-checks it while watching it.

Conclusion

In this section, Prince Harry concludes his interview with Stephen Colbert and thanks him for having him on the show.

Conclusion

• Prince Harry thanks Stephen Colbert for having him on the show and sharing his book "Spare" with everyone.