Selfish Woman Explains Why 50% Women Have a Back Up Man in Case Their Current Relationship Fails

Selfish Woman Explains Why 50% Women Have a Back Up Man in Case Their Current Relationship Fails

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In this section, the speaker introduces the topic of rotational dating and discusses the concept of not feeling guilty about dating multiple men.

Introduction to Rotational Dating

  • The speaker initially had reservations about rotational dating but realized she had been doing something similar in the past.
  • She shares her experience of dating multiple men before getting into a serious relationship.
  • The speaker emphasizes that even when in a committed relationship, there is still a lack of permanence.

Motivations Behind Rotational Dating

  • Women may engage in rotational dating because they don't feel a sense of permanence in their current relationships.
  • Without a sense of providing and protecting, women may subconsciously look for alternatives or exit strategies.
  • A study suggests that 50% of women have backup partners waiting in case their current relationship fails.

Monkey Branching and Negative Consequences

  • Monkey branching refers to women seeking multiple sources of provision and protection instead of limiting themselves to one man.
  • However, monkey branching can lead to negative consequences such as feelings of shame, guilt, and a decrease in social status.

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This section focuses on self-worth and exercising options when it comes to relationships.

Putting Yourself First

  • It is important for women to prioritize themselves and believe they deserve what they want.
  • Some women settle for less due to fear or societal pressure, but it's crucial to exercise options and seek benefits.

Women's Options and Expiration Date

  • Contrary to the belief that women will always have options, the reality is that prime time is short-lived due to aging.
  • Modern women may not be prepared for old age, leading to increased use of antidepressants.

Selfish Attitude and Unsuitability for Relationships

  • The speaker mentions that the entitled and selfish attitude of modern women makes them undateable and unsuitable for relationships.

The transcript provided is a small portion of the video, so the summary may not cover all aspects discussed in the full video.

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This section discusses the dynamic between men and women in relationships, focusing on selfishness and commitment.

The Selfish Nature of Men

  • Men who match their selfish nature often dump women when they no longer see any use for them.
  • This shared selfish mindset contributes to the dynamic between men and women.
  • Women are interested in the top 10-20% of men, leading to potential pain for those not in that category.

Being a Girlfriend Doesn't Suit Me

  • The speaker expresses that being a girlfriend doesn't suit her or potentially others.
  • It is difficult to plan with someone who is not fully committed.
  • Full commitment means professing love, intention, providing, protecting, and sealing the deal.

Dating Multiple Men without Guilt

  • Women should not feel guilty about dating multiple men.
  • Avoid investing years of your life into a man who is not ready to commit.
  • Men know fairly quickly if they want to be with a woman seriously or not.

Avoid Being in a Woman's Rotation

  • A woman also knows if she wants to be with a man within seconds of seeing him.
  • She may keep men around for ego boost, attention, or other benefits without committing.
  • Don't be fooled by being used as an emotional support or resource provider.

Appropriate Timeline for Commitment

  • The speaker suggests that meeting someone and getting engaged should take around 6 to 8 months.
  • Engagement can last longer but red flags should be considered before accepting a proposal.

Understanding Engagement

  • Engagement refers to a formal commitment between two people to marry each other.
  • It involves wearing an engagement ring, announcing it to friends and family, and planning for a wedding.
  • Accepting a marriage proposal without the intention of getting married is seen as low quality behavior.

Dealing with Guilt Trips

  • Men should not be guilt-tripped into a relationship.
  • Setting expectations may cause men to fall out or pull away temporarily but can also lead to stronger commitment.

Ego and Self-Worth

  • Ego can prevent dating losers or settling for fake relationships.
  • Knowing one's worth is important, regardless of whether a man wants to provide those things.
  • Having standards is fine, but setting unrealistic ones linked to unethical behavior can be problematic.

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This section continues the discussion on ego, self-worth, and setting standards in relationships.

The Importance of Honesty

  • Being honest with oneself and the men you're dating eliminates guilt.
  • There's nothing wrong with having standards as long as they are not ridiculous or unrealistic.

Conclusion

  • It is essential to know your worth and not settle for someone who won't fully commit.
  • Avoid feeling guilty about dating multiple men if you are honest about your intentions.

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In this section, the speaker discusses the importance of asking the right questions to understand women better and protect oneself in relationships.

Understanding Women's Perspective

  • The speaker advises that thinking with one's "little head" can lead to trouble in relationships.
  • Women tend to only share what they feel you should know, so it is important to ask them the right questions and let them talk.
  • When a woman mentions dating "losers," ask her to elaborate on what she means by losers.
  • It is crucial to pay attention and listen carefully because women may not explicitly mention the benefits they bring to a relationship.

Protecting Yourself

  • The video emphasizes the need for self-protection at all times.
  • The speaker suggests that women like this particular individual may offer only recreational use and may not provide other benefits as a girlfriend or fiancée.

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